Especially for those children who don't play well or have poor grades, it is a kind of suffering, because once their parents sign their names, they may be criticized once. In order to cope with this task, many children think hard and finally find a chance to save themselves, that is, sign for others.

0 1 The child imitated the "signature" of the parents, and the teacher found the flaw at a glance.

Mingming got 92 points in the Chinese paper, which is really not so good. There are several simple questions that are obviously wrong. As a result, when the teacher asked the students to take the test papers home for their parents to sign, they were obviously depressed: what should I do? Mom will be angry when she sees this test paper.

So, after thinking it over, I decided to sign instead of my mother to solve this problem. It may be because of inexperience or guilt. Obviously, I didn't sign my mother's name, but I wrote this sentence-my mother said she had read it. Is this sentence self-evident when it comes out?

Sure enough, the teacher saw this sentence, in distress situation. Yes, an experienced teacher has taught hundreds of thousands of students. How can this little routine be unheard of? Yao Ming is really innocent and lovely.

It is not uncommon for children to sign on behalf of their parents.

In fact, it is far more than this case that children sign for their parents. Many children not only imitate their parents' handwriting signature, but also help other students to sign. This kind of thing is not uncommon. So, why is this happening?

1, afraid of parents being angry and punished.

If you get good grades and high marks, I believe there are very few children who don't want their parents to sign, right? This is a way to prove yourself and show off yourself. On the contrary, if the homework is wrong and the test paper fails, the children will be afraid that their parents will know and sign it on their behalf. In the final analysis, children do this to avoid parents' anger and punishment.

2. Parents' handwriting is ugly.

Although the child is small, he still has a lot of face. If the parents' signatures are too scribbled and the handwriting is ugly, the children may feel humiliated and inferior. As a result, a group of children personally signed for their parents, just for neat handwriting.

I forgot to ask my parents to sign it.

In another case, the child really forgot about it and found that his task was not completed when he needed to give it to the teacher for inspection. Therefore, children can only sign their own names or ask their classmates to sign their names to cope with running errands.

4. Children don't understand the meaning of "signature"

One of the main purposes for teachers to ask parents to sign is to hope that parents can understand their children's academic performance, care more and urge them to do more. But children do not necessarily think so, especially young children. They may not understand the real intention of the teacher to ask the parents to sign. They may think that as long as there is a name, the people who write it are all the same. So they made a mistake and signed it for their parents.

What should parents do if children sign on behalf of their parents?

1, to understand the child's real intention.

If children hate their parents' ugly words, or don't know the true meaning of the signature, then parents should be considerate of their children. If children are afraid of punishment, then parents should educate their children well. This kind of behavior is wrong after all, and it is a kind of deception. The child must correct this mistake in time.

2. Pay more attention to children's learning.

Just as a teacher asks parents to sign their names, as parents, they should care more about their children's learning than giving it to the teacher. Parents should pay more attention to their children's grades and study habits in their lives, and avoid things like changing their signatures in order to cope with parents and teachers.

Makarenko, a famous educator, said: "Criticism is not only a means, but also an art and wisdom."

? How to criticize and educate children when they make mistakes is crucial. There is such a scene in Lord Meng Chong Shaw: Taylor tampered with the electrostatic ball without authorization. After being discovered, Taylor didn't want to shirk his responsibility, but admitted his mistake. Not long ago, Taylor lied about his mistake and evaded his responsibility. It can be said that such progress is really hard to come by.

In other words, it doesn't matter if the child signs for his parents and makes a mistake. As long as he can recognize the mistake and stop making mistakes, it doesn't matter. This is an improvement.