Every girl has a longing for love, and always believes that her destiny will appear one day. It's like a boy falling in love with a girl, then swearing to himself that he must marry her in the future, and then silently saying to her, OK? It can be said that he has suffered from the disease of fate. On the contrary, if you are in the same situation as boys and girls, it is called "true child syndrome". This situation is like unilaterally falling into the position of pursuer, but often this situation will make his Mr. Right run farther and farther.

How can we save ourselves in this situation? The first one is definitely to expand the scope of your social circle. Because most of the time, the girls who really eat the Mr Right are all because their social circle is too small, and there are only a few heterosexual people they know in inby, who come and go again and again, so his cognition of the opposite sex is only on these people. So we need to expand our contacts, especially the opposite sex circle.

Secondly, expand your exercise and play space and divert your attention. Let yourself go out to relax, travel or take a walk, and exercise. These are all ways to attract your attention. As long as you don't pay attention to him anyway. One day, you will forget this man and understand that there are so many attractive things besides him. So diverting attention is also a way of self-redemption.

The last point is to control your behavior. For example, mute your WeChat mobile phone call or QQ prompt message. Because many times when a girl regards a person as the only thrill, she will reply to the message sent by the other party. At this time, you can mute all the messages of the other party and reduce your attention to him. Reduce the number of times you reply to his messages. There are many ways to solve this problem, in fact, it depends on how you look at the problem of the only thrill.