There may be another explanation for the so-called "color, sound and metaphor", that is, showing understanding of others from words and actions, so that others can understand you, thus enhancing mutual understanding and narrowing the distance between them. In this way, the most priceless bridge in the world is "understanding".
It is often said that "trust" between friends is indispensable. It is not so much silent communication as just to maintain fragile or deep feelings. To truly build a deeper friendship, close the distance between friends, so that there is no gap between them, we must rely on heartfelt understanding.
"Understanding" is easier said than done. This needs to be solved through psychological transposition or using more effective experience summed up by oneself in real life. You also need to tolerate others with your generous heart. Sometimes, a little thing is just the difference between understanding and not understanding, and the result will be completely different. Perhaps inseparable friends, because they chose "don't understand", parted ways from now on; Or a pair of ordinary friends, because they know each other better.
If one day, a pair of very good friends agreed to go somewhere together in the morning of a certain day, but one of them wanted to buy another small token for another person in order to surprise him, but he forgot where to put it for a while. When he was looking for this little token, he had forgotten the passage of time. Suddenly, he found this token. He looked at his watch when he was immersed in a happy atmosphere. He forgot his appointment with his friend. Although he flew out, he was still late. When he stood in front of his friends, he saw the anger and blame in their eyes. He didn't listen to his explanation, didn't give him a chance at all, and left without looking back, leaving others with only grievances and sadness. People who can't forgive others feel that they are the ones who are hurt, while those who are wronged feel that friendship is really fragile and don't believe in true friendship anymore. Later, they became strangers on the road, leaving only a brush. The little souvenir went with the waves. What did it bring or take away?
Looking back 500 times in the past life, this life has passed. What kind of affection can I get from getting along with my friends in this life? If you often forget the agreement between you and your friend, and laugh at his understanding again and again, don't think it is his responsibility. In fact, it takes some courage and tolerance. Please cherish what your friend has done for you and try to do something for him. Even if it is just understanding, it will be like a bridge, bringing the distance between hearts closer and warming each other's hearts. ...
2. Say goodbye to your alma mater
It turns out that the greatest victory in this life is to meet you-your alma mater.
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Three years of junior high school life is flowing in the pen. I want to lock the last drop of ink after bidding farewell to my alma mater ...
Say goodbye to that meadow. Once, we chased and sang among the fragrant flowers in the sun. Tired of playing, we fell on the grass together, holding hands, humming pop songs and looking at the white sky. This is the most comfortable enjoyment. On the grass, my classmates and I had an inch of laughter, which was very fun.
Say goodbye to the blackboard. Regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, teachers always write down the most touching knowledge with white chalk. The lines are so perfect, the skills are so wonderful, the grammar is so close to life, and the legend is so vivid ... The teacher has cocoons on his hands and white stars in his hair, but they are still willing to write and draw, as if that is his greatest pleasure. Teacher, your hand. Say goodbye to that blackboard, it is the sweat of knowledge, it is profound.
Say goodbye to that table. A small area has unexpectedly concentrated the greatest thoughts. We will chat behind the book, we will take a nap behind the book, we will put up a famous aphorism on the desk, and we will finish one problem after another on the desk ... The desk is small and boring, but it is the best furniture in my junior high school career. It witnessed my growth, my maturity, my laughter and tears.
Say goodbye to that voice. Every time I step into the school gate, I hear the sound of reading. This kind of atmosphere moved me. It is knowledge, persistence in knowledge, and "madness". I am proud of this sound, because it is natural and clear in the empty valley.
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I picked up my schoolbag and stepped out of the school gate. I bid farewell to my alma mater, looked at the teaching building, looked at the grass and looked at the teacher. My heart was sour, and my tears evaporated in the sun, which became my blessing to my alma mater.
The future is still very long, I won't be afraid, because I met you and have you-my alma mater! Your existence will be the glory and pride of my life!
3. Learn to know yourself
If you feel unhappy, you are immature.
If you think you can get out of the haze, it means that you are about to mature.
If you can already watch the flowers bloom and fall outside the aperture, then you are mature!
In fact, people are their best healers. We were injured all the way, and it hurts when we walk. When we come to the end of life, even though we are riddled with holes and exhausted, we still learn to downplay contradictions, sadness and pain. Therefore, we look at the elderly more calmly than ourselves, because they are so calm after vicissitudes.
I used to be pessimistic and sentimental. In fact, life is like that. It's really no big deal We came to this world arm in arm and will go there in the future. We have been thinking hard all our lives, and we may not be happy. Our healthy life, healthy pursuit and healthy smile are enough!
Be optimistic, try to find beautiful things, do useful things, and take good care of yourself!
From the first time I saw her, I had an inexplicable feeling: "She is my destiny takes a hand." In the following days, I tried my best to get close to her and try to understand her. Before long, I gradually realized that I had fallen in love with her deeply.
Maybe she was tired of the bitter and tasteless ABC, or maybe she asked her out again and again to escape the suffocating x+y, and walked into a strange and refreshing world from her fragrant title page. Not for "the book has its own golden house", not for "the book has its own Yan Ruyu", not for utility, not for achievements, not for diplomas, not for academic qualifications, only for the desire in the heart, only for the pleasant "green space" in the heart. Her knowledge is so extensive and her words are so philosophical; Her eyes are so warm as if they can melt all the frozen hearts in the world, and her hands are so gentle as if they can heal all the wounds in the world. ...
When I am painfully confused by failure, she always says to me: "The real light is not when there will never be darkness, but when it will never be covered by darkness;" Real heroes are not always without humble sentiments, but are not influenced by humble sentiments; To defeat foreign enemies, we must first defeat internal enemies. You don't have to be afraid of stumbling, as long as you constantly extricate yourself and keep updating. "When I was dancing because of my small achievements, she always said to me,' There are days behind, there are people outside, and the strong are always strong. A truly strong person must not only stand the test of failure, but also stand the baptism of sugar-coated shells after success. When you are immersed in the sweetness of happiness, you are afraid that others have reached the peak. "When I can't extricate myself because of" slight confusion ",she always says to me:" People will meet many people in their life, some are meteors and some are stars. Meteors are beautiful, but they are meteors after all. The significance of a meteor lies in its fleeting moment, and the beauty of a meteor only comes from a moment. After all, meteors are meteors. If you pursue for a long time, you can only wait for your own star and cling to the beauty of this moment. Only oneself can suffer. "When I hesitate, she will send such a poem:" I am confident that my life span is 200 years, and I am a water hammer of 3,000 miles "; One day, I will ride the long wind, break through the huge waves, raise my muddy sails and cross the deep sea. I smile proudly at the sky, and I will stay in two Kunlun mountains. " ...
Yes! This is her, whether it is the impetuous heat wave outside the shade or the cold wind outside the window, as long as she is with her, she will create a coolness in the heat wave and show a warmth in the cold. She is this book, and this is the story of me and this book.