1. We are often troubled by a dispute. In the end, it turns out that in the vast and far-flung world, only a selfish heart is left. In fact, in life, there can be countless indisputable reasons: be more open-minded, downplay gains and losses, think more about others, even if it is just to argue less, put aside seemingly important things indifferently, you will find that people's hearts will Suddenly become wider, the world will suddenly become bigger. Without fighting, life will be at its best.
2. Love is not possession. When we love someone, we usually have the tendency to control and possess. We usually ask the person we love to do this or that, but few people demand themselves while demanding others, so conflicts arise and disputes arise. On the road to reincarnation, it is not easy to be a relative, lover, or friend. Let’s walk happily in trust and tolerance. When you have disputes and suspicions, think more about the good things about the other person, and everything will be relieved.
3. Planting green rice seedlings all over the field with your hands, you can see the sky in the water when you lower your head. Only when the heart is pure can we follow the path, and retreat is actually forward.
4. No matter how clear the water is, it will not become clear if it is constantly shaken in the cup; even if the water is turbid, if it is left quietly, it will naturally become clear. The same is true for our heart. If you don't give it time to settle and it keeps shaking, it will be in a turbid state. --Calm down. When the mind is calm, there will be no distracting thoughts. When the mind is calm, there will be great freedom.
5. If life is suffering in wasting and sinking, even if there are millions of hopes, they will all come to naught, and nothing will be left in the end. If you cherish life, you must start by cherishing every day; if you cherish life, you must start by cherishing everyone and everything. Only by taking every step in a down-to-earth manner and leaving every footprint conscientiously can you live without hesitation.
6. The more difficult it is to leave traces, the more determined we will be. Although there are no footprints of mine on the road, I have already walked it.
7. Only true love can withstand dullness.
8. Don’t forget your own path just because you stay in other people’s scenery.
9. Every thought of good is good; every thought of evil is evil. If there are good causes, there will be good results.
10. People are accustomed to taking the care and warmth of others for granted, and are accustomed to pursuing distant warmth, but cannot see the nearest sunshine.
11. What can make us strong in life is often not good times, but adversity; what can make us wake up is often not happiness, but sadness.
12. Life is a dojo, and living is a kind of practice.
13. Follow fate, be spontaneous, follow your heart, laugh at gains and losses, and don’t complain, you will be happy for a long time.
14. When I was a child, happiness was a simple thing; when I mature, simplicity is a very happy thing.
15. People become more transparent in middle age, know how to take advantage of the situation, and become gentle, courteous, kind and generous.
16. Take good care of yourself so that love will not be barren.
17. The state of mind can return to peace, but it cannot become dead.
18. Sit quietly and think for a long time. Don’t talk about people’s faults in small talk. Only by adhering to principles in big things and learning flexibility in small things is the true nature of a wise man.
19. If you don’t give up, everything will get better. The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of your self-confidence; the most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the shattering of your hopes; what makes people despair is often not the blow of setbacks, but the damage to the soul. Death Therefore, embrace life with confidence, hope, and love in your heart. No matter how bad it is, everything will slowly get better.
20. Love others with love for yourself, and the lotus will bloom in the ice and snow.
21. Happiness is a kind of ability.
22. Thoughts will turn into words, words will turn into actions, actions will turn into habits, habits will change character, and character will affect life.
23. Losing is for better reception. Gains and losses always lie in the mentality.
24. The real sorrow is self-indulgence.
25. Greedy people will eventually be penniless. We can have desires and satisfy ourselves, but we cannot be greedy. No matter what kind of desire you are facing, as long as it crosses the limit, your heart will be tired. Many times, we always know what is on the other side of the mountain and cannot restrain our desire to climb as hard as we can. In fact, there is nothing on that side. Once we climb up, we realize that this side is better.
26. Don’t do things with the purpose of getting something. Everything in the world is not ours in the first place. When we come here, we are empty-handed. No matter how much or how little we get in the future, it will be an unexpected surprise.
27. Look at the soul in the mirror and do a physical examination of the soul. Look at the world with one eye and look at yourself with the other eye.
28. Ideals grow old while waiting.
29. Life requires precipitation, and you must have enough time to reflect, so that you can become more perfect; life requires accumulation, and only by looking back often can you sublimate in the taste of gains and losses, joys and sorrows. Looking forward is a dream and a goal; looking back is a result and a correction.
There are so many things that, if you had looked back, you would have done better; how many people, if you had looked back, you might have what you want. Looking back, the way forward is actually written behind you. Only by rowing the oar backward will the boat move forward.
30. The height you reach is whatever peak you climb. This is the most obvious cause and effect in the world.
31. Be strong in the doubts of others.
32. Doing things is often not timid because of difficulty, but difficult because of timidity.
33. Greedy people are the poorest at heart.
34. The distance becomes longer and longer as we go; life becomes shorter and shorter as we go.
35. Shortcomings determine the ease of life.
36. For some things, you don’t have to persist only when you see hope, but only when you persist will you see hope.
37. Smile and silence are two effective weapons. Smile can solve many problems, and silence can avoid many problems.
38. Simplicity means having a calm heart and accepting some unchangeable realities in this world. See through, see through, watch and talk; don’t think about it, don’t fight about it, don’t be afraid.
39. The people who accompany you are the treasures of life.
40. If you agree with yourself, you will feel at ease.
41. Learn to know but not speak, because if you talk too much, you will make mistakes; learn to liberate yourself, because only in this way can you transcend yourself; learn to think quietly alone, because only in this way can you wake up and understand; students use their heart Look at the world, because only in this way can you see the original nature of people; learn to let go, because only by letting go can you start again.
42. Many people lament that life is too tiring. Most of the reasons are that they don’t have a clear direction in their hearts, and they feel that they have no better future. No matter how hard they work, they always lack a sense of solidity. I don’t know. What is your ultimate need? Over time, such sighs will become habitual complaints, which will only make your heart muddy.
43. Our most painful loneliness is not that we have no close friends around us, but that we have abandoned ourselves in our hearts; the help we need does not come from the care of others, but from real and tenacious self-help. If you don't even accept yourself, you can't ask the world to give you a place; if you don't even accept yourself, you can't ask the world to give you a place; if you don't even dare to face yourself, you can't find a place in the world of mortals. understand. We need to often sit across from each other and look at ourselves, learn to love ourselves, and give ourselves a hug from time to time.
44. Those who can keep their inner thoughts quiet are the most powerful. When everyone in the world is running hard, remember to walk slowly.
45. People who take a detour to a straight path are smart because they have found a shortcut; people who take a detour from a straight path are open-minded because they can see several scenery. The road is not under your feet, but in your heart.
46. The beauty in the world is not the absence of flaws, but a clear understanding of flaws. Only with this understanding can the pursuit of beauty arise.
47. Meeting the wrong person at the right time is destined to be a heartbreak; meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is destined to be absurd at best. Therefore, if you meet the right person at the right time, you will definitely cherish it. As long as you are congenial and compatible with each other, as long as you are happy and harmonious, no matter whether life is simple or complex, poor or rich, you should be content.
48. Always have an optimistic attitude and a happy mood: The first sentence: Forget it; The second sentence: It doesn’t matter; The third sentence: It will pass.
49. After a long journey, we meet more people and experience more complicated things. Inadvertently, we will find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the inner world and the calmness of the mind. Wisdom and sobriety. The most luxurious thing in life is to have an untalented childlike innocence, an endless faith, a healthy body, a lover who will always hold hands, a free mind, a job you like, a peaceful sleep, and a Enjoy the beautiful mood of life.
50. Success is growing up in difficulty.
51. Use a calm mind to tolerate sudden criticism and accusations in life, and then living in the same environment will have a different look.
52. We must learn to compete with ourselves more. Things do not matter big or small. Complex things should be done simply. Simple things should be done seriously. Serious things should be done repeatedly. I believe success will come. Coming to you.
53. Feeling that you are needed and close to people is the greatest enjoyment and the highest joy in life.
54. Excellent people are not complainers. They will always sweep away negative thoughts from their hearts and fill their hearts with sunshine and hope. Complaining is the most energy-consuming and useless behavior. Instead of complaining endlessly, it is better to calm down and find relief.
55. Failure to let go of oneself is a lack of wisdom, and failure to let go of others is a lack of compassion. Being entangled is a waste of life.
56. Don’t use other people’s road signs to determine your direction, it will only make you lost. Only you know what is best.
57. Choosing what to put in your heart is a science of life.
If you hold other people's mistakes in your heart, you will use a magnifying glass to find faults everywhere and torture others, which is not beneficial to yourself. If you hold kindness, tolerance, and gratitude in your heart, your life will be full of sunshine, and all the bad things about others will be reflected in your broad-mindedness. Disintegration and ice disintegration in the mind. Therefore, whether life is bitter or joyful, the key depends on what you like to be with.
58. A broad life is not arrogant. A person who cannot have peace of mind will inevitably lead an impatient and panicked life.
59. Don’t be afraid of doing something wrong. Even if you make a mistake, don’t be upset. Life is about right and wrong. If you make a mistake this time, just don’t make the same mistake next time. Don't make any decisions while crying. The less you say when you are feeling negative, the better. The earth is round, so dark clouds cannot always cover the same place.
60. Only by going to a place where you feel at ease in your heart can you make no mistakes.
61. There are no unhappy people, only hearts that refuse to be happy. We should learn to find happiness in self-satisfaction. Self-doubt is a major weakness of human nature. People who doubt themselves are often unable to concentrate on doing things, let alone do one thing well. It is difficult for them to get rid of the entanglement of disappointment, and naturally it is difficult for them to be happy.
62. Emotion is a variable that can be adjusted.
63. Love is the best nutrition in life.
64. Be a person with light in your heart. The sunshine of the soul is the endless driving force of life. It can be a kind of courage or a kind of faith. People must have a sun rising in their hearts.
65. Retreating is something that people may regret for the rest of their lives. A life that has not experienced initiative is incomplete, and a youth that has not experienced courage is not profound.
66. You must work hard in life. Hard work is a mental state in life. Instead of asking yourself what kind of person you must become and what kind of achievements you must achieve, it is better to hone yourself and be a hard-working person. Working hard is self-cultivation.
67. The prerequisite for a person's luck is that he has the ability to change himself; his mood can return to peace, but it cannot become dead.
68. Adversity makes people mature, and desperate situations make people wake up. Don't turn others' abandonment of yourself into your own abandonment of yourself.
69. Everyone hopes that they are a very smart person and want to be recognized by people, so many people will use various ways to show their intelligence in front of everyone, and the result is often that they are smart. We need to be a little confused at many times. Being confused does not mean being stupid, but being open-minded and capable. Don't be too persistent in everything. On the road to reincarnation, you must be open-minded and open-minded. Be confused when you should be confused. It's rare to be confused.
70. Making mistakes is normal and not worth worrying about. The key is to reflect on mistakes, summarize from mistakes, find the right direction in wrong people and things, and find the right way to live.
71. Father’s love is the ladder of life.
72. What is the threshold? If it passes, it becomes a door; if it does not pass, it becomes a threshold. Cultivation means cultivating the mind. All things come from the heart. When the heart exists, all things exist. When the heart dies, all things perish.
73. Life requires a posture. The greater the difficulty, the greater the meaning of your existence.
74. When you make a mistake, correct it with action, which is more direct and effective than explaining. When facing other people's mistakes and misunderstandings, perhaps a smile is better than explaining a hundred times.
75. Wise men are often those who know how to think in silence. Silence does not mean to teach people to keep silent, but to hope that people can think deeply and think twice before speaking. Those profound thoughts all come from those silent thinking processes. On the contrary, people who talk too much often only scratch the surface and find it difficult to see the essence of things clearly.
76. Live abundantly so that you will not be annihilated.
77. It’s not the things that you can’t let go of, but the persistence of your heart. The road is ahead, and we cannot stay on one thing for too long and forget to hurry.
78. If your heart is small, small things will be big; if your heart is big, big things will be small. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel at peace inside. With a big heart, you can tolerate things in the world; with a humble heart, you love the goodness of the world; with a calm heart, you can discuss the affairs of the world; with a calm heart, you can respond to changes in the world. Great and difficult things depend on responsibility, adversity and good times depend on mind-set, perseverance and perseverance depend on wisdom, success and failure depend on persistence.
79. Only when the direction is right will the goal be correct and happiness will knock on your door.
80. In the hearts of appreciators, there are morning glow, dewdrops and flowers that bloom all year round.
81. Those who can correct themselves through the actions of others are truly wise.
82. When the heart is cold, everything will be far away.
83. Smile is calmness in difficulty.
84. There are too many beautiful things in life, but there are always some things that are not worth giving up on health and overdrafting our lives to chase, such as money and power; there are always some things that will definitely make people sad once they are lost. Sigh and regret, such as your relatives and your lover.
85. Reasons are excuses for the weak.
On the road to success, the weak always complain about standing still, waiting for the conditions to fall on themselves; but the strong people never do such meaningless and fruitless waiting, they will always move forward firmly and use My persistence and wisdom have overcome many obstacles. The key to success or failure is never the conditions, but our desire for success and the efforts we put in.
86. Faith is Bodhi.
87. When people interact with each other, what matters more is not changing the other person, but accepting the other person. If you only think about changing the other person, that is not life, that is war.
88. Growth is not enough without injury. Don’t care about the suffering and pain along the way, be grateful for yesterday’s experience and pursue tomorrow’s happiness. This is not only a big mind, but also a big realm. It is the calmness gained after cultivating the mind, and it is the nourishment of human nature by Buddha nature.
89. If you are afraid, just extend a warm hand to help others; to prove your integrity, just do things correctly; to forgive others, just show a smile.
90. Respect everyone, no matter how humble and ridiculous you think he is. Remember, living in everyone is the same spirit as you and me.
91. Sometimes, we think we have won, but in fact we have lost. Because, we win face, but lose li. We live in a society, we must know how to win, but also know how to lose; know how to compete, but also know how to tolerate. We must know how to tolerate, give in and be grateful in a timely manner.
92. If your heart is narrow, everything will be far away.
93. If you look at yourself when you are frustrated, you will find the sinking of your soul; if you look at yourself when you are high-spirited, you will see the arrogance in human nature. Only by not overindulging yourself and removing the sediment can you produce more transparent crystals. The editor of "Capturing Children's Sensitive Period" "Don't be afraid of the future, don't dwell on the past" The editor "I don't like this world, I only like you" The editor's sentences about the rest of life, everything is the best arrangement
< p> When a person likes you and can keep you in his heart, it’s not about whether you are young or good-looking, but that you give this person a feeling that no one else can give. Fate depends on sincerity and love. It means never leaving. No matter how beautiful the vows are, they are not as good as a heart that is integrated into life; no matter how many promises are made, they are not as good as a person who loves you. Liking your appearance is temporary, liking your personality is forever. The key to thinness or fatness, beauty or ugliness is who appreciates it. Only those who know how to cherish it deserve to have it. No matter how busy you are, don’t alienate the person who cares about you, because you can afford it. Charge your cell phone for five minutes, but you will never find someone who can talk to you for two hours.After a person has gone through all the hardships, he doesn’t expect to be with anyone. I have tried sincerely, but I don’t want to say the outcome.
If you love each other, you must be together, don’t Like us, we obviously love each other but can't be together. I hope that all lovers in the world will eventually get married.
The older you get, the more you will understand that what you need is no longer crazy love, but someone who will not leave you.
I am used to living alone.
I keep putting down my bottom line just to keep you, but I don’t get your heartache! My heart is tired, tired and hurt. It’s time to let go. Thank you for coming to my world. After all, you taught me love and tasted love. You are the light given to me by God!
If I could, I would go back to the past to accompany you as a friend and be happy. I would accompany you when you are sad without worrying about losing.
We are all like children. We act nonsense because of dependence; politeness is Because we are strangers
Everything is the best arrangement. Just like a very popular post on the Internet these days, how much A4 paper do we have left in our lives? It touches your heart. Whether you cherish it or not, everything is the best arrangement. The rest of your life is expensive, don’t waste it.
You don’t want to get married when you love the most, and you meet me when you want to settle down. That person may not be the person you love most, maybe this is marriage. You gave your youth and true love to him, and finally gave your life to another her. This is the order in which life appears. How many people have experienced adversity, but cannot withstand the prosperity. One of them supports each other but is dull until the end of his life, and the other forgets each other in the world but misses him until he cries. Loving deeply and loving early are not as good as loving just right.
In fact, nothing else can really hurt you. The only thing that can hurt you is your care.
You have been here and I have loved you, that is enough.
I once thought that I was yours, but now I finally understand that I am nothing in your world, everything is the best arrangement, and I can’t find a reason to persist, then Just find a reason to start over, and wish you happiness
Silently thinking about you, not sending WeChat messages, not making phone calls, occasionally sending messages to Moments, pretending to be fine, and letting you know how I am. Very good
The happiest thing in the world is that someone believes in you, someone stays with you, someone understands you, someone loves you, someone waits for you, and the reason is because they love you.
Loneliness is probably like posting a message and saying that no one has liked it after waiting for a long time, so just delete it silently
Gradually it becomes indifferent. Slowly I got used to it. Slowly my heart became calm. Just live every day well, without fighting or grabbing.
It is your loss, maybe it is the beginning of returning to you. It is not your possession, but maybe it is the countdown to loss.
There will eventually be someone who reads all the things you have written, tries to listen to the songs you listen to, walks the way you walk, and reads the books you read, just to make up for being late in your youth. time.
I think love can fill the regrets in our hearts. Unexpectedly, it is love that creates regrets.
In fact, we just want to find someone who we can talk to, who is compatible with our temperament, who is comfortable together, who misses us a little after being apart for a long time, who wants to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and who will immediately regret and give up after a quarrel. Love and friendship are all the same: true love lasts for a long time.
I finally wanted to let you go slowly, but your phone call made me sad for several days. Don't make unreasonable trouble with what I care about. You said that was the love you wanted, I let you go. Let you chase. I am sad and bear the pain on my own. Do you know? Once trust is gone, it is difficult to build it again. Just think that I owed you too much in my previous life and I will pay you back in this life. Let me live.
Everyone you meet in life will teach you something and let you understand something. Because everyone you meet is destined.
Time is changing, people's hearts are changing, love without love hopes to end as soon as possible, don't sacrifice yourself for lies, it's not worth it.
There is nothing wrong with the road, but the wrong choice. There is nothing wrong with love, but fate! It’s not people who are ruthless, it’s time! If you adjust your mentality and warm your heart, everything will be the best arrangement
1. There seems to be a sweet and refreshing wind blowing through my heart!
2. She smiled slightly, with a shy blush on her fair face, making her even more shy and cute.
3. Laughter brings sweetness to life, making it as fragrant as the flowers in the rose garden.
4. Life does not depend on the length of life, but on the early or late realization of enlightenment. Life is not used to correct other people's right or wrong, but to practice your own wonderful life.
5. When I dived into the dusty stack of books, the ecstasy in my heart was indescribable.
6. I thought that the bird cannot fly across the sea because the bird does not have the courage to fly across the sea. Ten years later, I discovered that it is not that the bird cannot fly across the sea, but that the other side of the sea has already been No more waiting.
7. Flowers are beautiful in their splendor; people are beautiful in their health. Health is the living room of the soul, and the sick body is the prison of the body. With health, there is everything!
8 , Meeting you is the fate of my life; holding you is the happiness of my life; falling in love with you is the luck of my life. Having you by my side in this life is the happiness of my life.
9. A promise of love for a lifetime, a heart waiting for you all your life, a greeting to warm the day, a yearning that lasts forever, I who miss you, waiting for your reply, I hope that my existence will make the whole day warm. You are happier and happier!
10. The most beautiful thing in life is the process, the most difficult thing is getting to know each other, and the most desired result is the result! The hardest part is waiting! The happiest thing is true love, the most fearful thing is ruthlessness, the most regretful thing is missing out, and what I want most is to be with you.
11. The pattern is supported by ambition, the career is inspired by dreams, success is forged by hardships, and life is forged by experience. Only with a big pattern can we have a big mind and be ambitious. Great talent, magnanimous and calm, please always believe that nothing is impossible in this world. As long as you work hard and persevere, you will definitely succeed. God rewards hard work, so you will win if you work hard! Life is great because of dreams.
12. When a person’s heart can really settle down and become quiet, the sunshine will be particularly bright; he will realize the beauty and joy of having life; he will realize the brightness of tomorrow and the future; You will have a beautiful, kind and healthy mind! When a person can abandon the temptation of external objects, return to the emptiness and silence of the self, and realize the existence of beauty and goodness in the world, the feeling of joy and happiness will come quietly and linger in the heart! Classic inspirational personalized signature for boys: Everything is the best arrangement
1. If others don’t treat you well, you must love yourself.
2. Remember that no matter how many grievances and discomforts you have, it is you who can ultimately heal yourself.
3. Say goodbye to the wrong person, everything is the best arrangement.
4. No one can decide your life, your destiny is in your own hands.
5. If you think you are nothing, you are totally wrong. Without dreams, you are worse than nothing.
6. Youth is slightly cold, but I hope I will not forget my original intention.
7. We can’t interfere in your life, but I advise you to be kind.
8. Don’t let one bad moment ruin a string of good times.
9. As long as I see your smile, the world is not that bad.
10. Chase your dreams while you are young. Life is only once, so don’t leave any regrets.
11. The most romantic thing is that you are trimming my beard and I am drawing my eyebrows for you.
12. Don’t give up what you insist on now, because you will be proud of it in the future.
13. Do your best at what others think you can’t do. This is the best counterattack.
14. If you don’t push yourself, you won’t know how good you are.
15. A man can suffer for a lifetime, but he must not suffer for a woman who will be with you for a lifetime.
16. As long as you think about what you have lost, you can definitely win it back bit by bit!
17. Current events are scary but I believe the future will always be warm.
18. Treat it calmly, be generous and open-minded.
19. Adjust your mentality and look at life. Sunshine is everywhere.
20. Be patient with your parents, be more patient.
21. Our relationship is like building blocks, fragile yet ever-changing
22. You are happy that you can choose to love me or not, but I can only choose to love. You or love you.
23. Don’t stagger when you are in your prime.
24. In adolescence, there will be regrets. Just don’t regret the path you choose.
25. Every time you set out, you will go all out if you leave no room for retreat.
26. I hope you will not owe every ounce of enthusiasm, nor please every ounce of indifference, but be the best version of yourself.
27. I will still live well without you for the rest of my life.
28. No one in this world can protect you. Being strong is your only way out.
29. If you still have the energy to spare, protect beautiful things.
30. If I just go with the flow, it will be my pleasure. If I don’t fight, I will know that it is not what I want.
31. The people who hurt you the most are often those who claim they will never hurt you
32. Even if there is no proof of our past, I will still protect you.
33. Not everyone is like He Yichen who can stay lonely for a long time.