Tell the leader. I'm sorry to bother you. I am xxx. I saw something especially suitable for you recently, and I was going to give it to you, but you were not at home, so I had to give it to your husband. I hope you can receive it.

Of course, this kind of thing should be told to the leader, because there may be others giving gifts to the leader, and the husband of the leader may be too busy to give him your gifts, so you should tell him, but be tactful. You can't directly ask me if I have received my things, but tell me about the gift in a caring tone.

Send some cigarettes, wine or tonics according to your age and hobbies. Send souvenirs, postal books, paintings, antiques, jewelry, watches, famous wines, etc. To elegant leaders.