Morning and twilight: from "Magpie Bridge Immortal" [Song Dynasty] Qin Guan

The thin clouds make tricks, the flying stars spread hatred, and the silver and Han are far away in darkness. Once the golden wind and jade dew meet, they win over countless people in the world.

Tenderness is like water, good times are like dreams, and I can’t bear to look at the magpie bridge on my way back. If the love between two people lasts for a long time, how can they stay together day and night?

It is true that it is good for two people to love each other and stay together day and night. Our life is short. In this short life, everyone longs to spend time with the person they love. A long separation is a long longing and painful test for everyone. It’s not that we don’t believe that love can span time and space, it’s just that the world is changing so fast that we can hardly even grasp ourselves, so how can we guarantee others? However, it seems tacky to only measure the true love by spending time together day and night. The true value of love is not damaged by the difference between two people. On the contrary, if the two parties are inseparable in appearance, how much happiness will there be even if they get along day and night?

Forgetting each other in the sea of ????people is a change of forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes: "The springs have dried up, the fish are on the land, they are wet with each other, and they are wet with foam. It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes." This sentence comes from " In "Zhuangzi. The Great Master": When the water dries up, the fishes help each other. When the lake water rises, the fishes happily swim back to the rivers and lakes, forgetting each other. This sentence is superficially interpreted to mean that husband and wife can enjoy life together*** Suffering does not mean you can enjoy wealth; another explanation is that instead of struggling hard on land, it is better for the fish to swim back to the rivers and lakes and forget each other. Therefore, this sentence also became "rather than being in love". It would be better to end it early than to suffer so much. In this way, the philosophical words of the greatest philosopher in Chinese history have become the coolest pretext and excuse for people who play love games.

I think they do love each other very much, at least the girl's feelings are very clear.

I hope you find the real "reason" and value for loving her, instead of blindly caring about her past. If a girl also values ??your relationship, she probably doesn't want you to deny her past emotional experiences. , at least you should use your own kindness to impress her, so use your charm and advantages to attract her, and truly love her like an ordinary girl. Your confidence will not only influence her, but also yourself. Even if there is no result, you will still gain something, believe me!