Seeing the divorce agreement and signature on the table, Ms. Liu circled in an instant, and she immediately gathered around her husband and lost her smile:

"Husband, what's the matter? Did I do something wrong? "

Husband didn't speak, calmly took out a passbook from his pocket and threw it on the table, sneer at a way:

"You borrowed thirty thousand dollars from me to decorate my brother's new house. I didn't borrow it, so you stole my passbook and went to the bank to withdraw money? I ask you, do you live with me or with your brother? "

Hearing this, the Liu Min bowed his head, injustice way:

"I don't want to lend it to my brother, my mother forced me. She said that my brother bought a new house and the decoration was only 30 thousand yuan. As a sister, I should give you a hand. I don't want to borrow it. She said I was unfilial, so I just ... "

"Isn't your brother's new house half my money? Isn't that enough? What does your family take me for? ATM？ Even the ATM, there are staff who clean it regularly and put money into it! Did I ask about your salary? "

Her husband's words made Ms. Liu unable to refute. She knew she was indefensible and saw her husband's cold face. Knowing that there was no way to persuade her, she had to sign the divorce agreement.

Filial piety has been the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation since ancient times. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues"!

However, a kind of "new filial piety" in life is quietly attacking. The typical feature of this filial piety is moral kidnapping. Most children are tortured badly, and family collapse is just around the corner!

The "new filial piety" has quietly struck, and the three expressions are too extreme.

1. Brother helper

As the saying goes, married don't marry Ma Baonan, married don't marry "helper".

With the progress of society, most elderly people have lost the concept of "preferring boys over girls", but this does not rule out that some people in remote areas still have the concept that men are "respected". They feel that they should put their brother or younger brother first in everything and put brotherhood above the relationship between husband and wife.

Mr. Li, who lives in Harbin, met his girlfriend Xiaojie during his college days, and they hit it off at once.

Although Mr. Li lives in the city and Xiaojie's hometown is in the countryside, there is no generation gap between them and there are endless topics every day.

Five years later, they reached the age of marriage. When Mr. Li and Xiaojie went back to their hometown to visit their parents-in-law, they saw the thoughts of Miaomiao's parents.

"Xiao Li, you can marry my daughter, but you have to prepare 65438+ ten thousand yuan."

Hearing this, Mr Li said to himself.

This countryman speaks honestly and is not shy at all.

Mr. Li thinks we can cut the gordian knot quickly. He is a big old man himself. Get married early and have grandchildren for his mother.

"Well, I'll let Xiaojie turn after the bride price is 65,438+10,000 yuan."

"The bride? No, this 654.38+ million is not a bride price. "

Xiaojie's mother shook her head, which made Mr. Li paused and asked:

"Then what is this 65438+ ten thousand yuan?"

"It is the savings for your brother-in-law, and your brother-in-law is not small. If you marry a daughter-in-law, you have to buy a house."

Hearing this, Mr. Li understood that he was not marrying a daughter-in-law, but a "brother's helper"!

"No, my brother-in-law has no money to buy a house. I can lend him some, but it won't cost 65438+ ten thousand, will it? Besides, Xiaojie and I are not married yet, and it will cost 65,438+10,000 to come up. Don't parents think it's too much? "

"Mom, you really went a little too far." Xiaojie also can't see the past, interjected and persuaded him.

"Shut up! What's wrong with me raising you and asking you to get some money for your brother? Not filial at all! I'm telling you, if he doesn't bring 65438+ ten thousand, you won't want to marry in the past! "

"I'm not married yet!"

Mr. Li also let go of his gentlemanly demeanor and burst into swearing, so the action of meeting his parents ended in failure.

In life, this kind of "helping my brother to do magic" is not rare. Many old people use their daughters as chips to earn illegitimate interests for their sons. If their daughter or boyfriend doesn't agree, they will say:

"It's so unfilial!"

2. Help Uncle Magic

"Husband, my mother said that my uncle was hospitalized in a car accident a while ago. It seems quite serious. She asked us to take 20 thousand yuan to express our condolences. "

Speaking of it, Ms. Ma's mother is not easy either. She was instilled by her parents at an early age with the idea that her younger brother is the heir of the family. Even if her parents are gone, you, as a sister, have the responsibility to take care of them. Otherwise, it is unfilial, and we are not at ease in the spirit of heaven.

Therefore, Ms. Ma's mother shouldered the burden of taking care of her younger brother when she was a child, and she also took Ms. Ma to "help her younger brother" when she grew up.

"I have seen the devil who helped my brother, but I have never seen the devil who helped my uncle. I learned something today! "

The more Ms. Ma's husband thinks about it, the more angry she becomes. She made a phone call. "Mom, our family life is also very difficult. Why do you always think of my uncle instead of us? "

"Mom's uncle is a big shot, don't you know this truth? I'm sorry that your uncle had a car accident. If my money is not in the bank, I will still need you. Let's just say mom lent it to you. Is that all right? "

"Mom, it's not like this."

"Come on, your son-in-law, you really have no money. I don't expect you. It's really unfilial! "

3. "Moral restraint"

Xiaoxue and her husband have been married for 3 years, and life has been very calm until this incident:

"Her, my mother's health is getting worse and worse. It is inconvenient to live alone in the countryside. Go back to my hometown and take care of my mother with my nephew. "

Light snow heard these words, frowned and shook his head:

"I don't want it. I just came out of the countryside and now I want to go back to the countryside? "

After listening, the husband said angrily, "If you marry me, you must wait on my mother!" " "

Xiaoxue felt that her husband was unreasonable and retorted angrily, "That's your mother, not my mother! You don't even care, and you push it on me? Don't you feel hypocritical? "

The three expressions of "new filial piety" are typical moral kidnapping. Children are miserable, and the elderly take it for granted!

Filial piety is a matter of course, but don't be bound by the word "filial piety"

It is natural for children to be filial to their parents, but helping relatives is not their duty, but mutual affection.

Parents can't use the word "filial piety" to bind their children. They are also independent individuals and have their own families. It is unfair not to extend the "kidnapping" of the previous generation to your own children.

In fact, filial piety has changed a little now. Many children are filial to filial piety and lose their love for their father and daughter.

Old people often say, "raise children to prevent old age." If this sentence really becomes a reality, it is enough to show that filial piety has become a moral kidnapping and a transaction.

Parents can't kidnap their children with filial piety, otherwise it is "foolish filial piety". Love is the foundation, and filial piety is just an expression.