After the lovelorn thing happens, no matter what you feel, whether it's loneliness, heartbreak or sadness, someone has to clean up the mess. Don't think that being lovelorn is a shameful thing, even if you are really no longer loved. You can't be together again, of course you have to be apart and be proud of your decision. At the same time, you must firmly believe that the previous love was just a dream, and the lovelorn is a dream.
After the emotional breakdown, negotiation is useless and can only prolong the pain. If you still think she is perfect, please look carefully at how "perfect" she is. Write down the reasons why you can live better without her. Every time I feel dizzy, I will read her guilt again. Don't feel too mean, only good. Be firm and kick her out of your world.
The imaginary dream lover can't become a reality, and the best result is to leave as soon as possible, and be careful not to hurt your self-esteem. Feelings are like knots. If you can't untie them, you must cut them off. "The sooner the more agile, the lighter the injury. If you let her operate on you first, of course you will get hurt. No matter how things go, men can't stand it. The whole person loses morale, and life has no fun at all.