Everyone is likely to experience lovelorn love, because first love can hardly last a lifetime. First love is beautiful, but it is also naive, which will bring happiness to people, but it will also do many wayward things and have many immature ideas. After you have experienced it, you can learn to grow up slowly, consolidate your feelings, and let the following feelings no longer lose themselves. Whether you are affectionate or not, don't be tempted by desire. Sometimes I have hallucinations, as if the nightmare is over and everything can be fine again. If she leaves, she has shown her attitude with facts, and it is not worth your efforts to change anything at all. If you continue to associate, you will get stuck in the mud.

After the lovelorn thing happens, no matter what you feel, whether it's loneliness, heartbreak or sadness, someone has to clean up the mess. Don't think that being lovelorn is a shameful thing, even if you are really no longer loved. You can't be together again, of course you have to be apart and be proud of your decision. At the same time, you must firmly believe that the previous love was just a dream, and the lovelorn is a dream.

After the emotional breakdown, negotiation is useless and can only prolong the pain. If you still think she is perfect, please look carefully at how "perfect" she is. Write down the reasons why you can live better without her. Every time I feel dizzy, I will read her guilt again. Don't feel too mean, only good. Be firm and kick her out of your world.

The imaginary dream lover can't become a reality, and the best result is to leave as soon as possible, and be careful not to hurt your self-esteem. Feelings are like knots. If you can't untie them, you must cut them off. "The sooner the more agile, the lighter the injury. If you let her operate on you first, of course you will get hurt. No matter how things go, men can't stand it. The whole person loses morale, and life has no fun at all.