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Tang Yifei, who had been scolded as a "mistress" for many years, could no longer keep her composure and posted four Weibo posts in a row.

One of them said bluntly: "You have been calling me my mistress for ten years. Thank you for promoting me so highly. Based on seniority, if you don't have a gasser, I will at least be ranked as a mistress. Brother Lei, brothers. I feel very sad for being so famous and without status."

As soon as this statement came out, it immediately caused an uproar. Many people went to Tang Yifei's Weibo to comment: "I want to hammer your husband, you. They are the real deal. The man himself shouted on Weibo that Tang Yifei belongs to my woman, and he was not divorced at that time!"

"It's like I don't have any memory on the Internet, how do I know my husband? Forgot? He was a married man when you two were filming an ambiguous scene. Now he starts to say that he is no longer a mistress? "

Some people even posted about it. A Weibo post published in 2011 clearly stated:

"Listen! I, Ling Xiaosu, have never denied the existence of a third party. What I have always denied is that the third party This is the root cause of the demise of my marriage!"

"Tang Yifei is indeed my woman. , I don’t think I can tell everyone.” This Weibo post has always been considered to be the real proof that “Tang Yifei is a mistress”.

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After reading Tang Yifei’s protest, some people also complained for her.

Because according to Ling Xiaosu, his marriage to Yao Chen had already existed in name only, and there was only one formality left. Tang Yifei was not the fundamental reason for the demise of his marriage. It was simply unfair to ask her to bear all the blame.

But Tang Yifei paid a heavy price. She encountered severe online violence.

Once, she participated in "Wife's Romantic Travel" and recalled that experience, saying: "I received more than 20,000 abusive messages every day...I didn't want to go out or take photos with my friends. I felt like I was It’s a piece of mouse shit.”

Her career was stagnant and her marriage was not blessed.

Not only did the outside world not give much blessing, but Ling Xiaosu himself became disheartened by the huge controversy.

The day before the wedding, Ling Xiaosu was still unsure: "Will it be okay in the future? I will go from one pit to another, will it be okay?"

This is Tang Yifei's wedding, but Ling Xiaosu had no enthusiasm and didn't even bother to look at the wedding dress.

Tang Yifei had no choice but to spend 260 yuan on a wedding dress, and then invited two tables of relatives and friends to dinner, which was considered a wedding.

She said that she exchanged the whole world for Ling Xiaosu, which is really not an exaggeration at all.

It took her six full years to accompany Ling Xiaosu to come out of this shadow.

It was only then that Ling Xiaosu realized how cruel his indecisiveness and frustration were to Tang Yifei.

He said: "I really didn't take her into consideration at that time, so I feel sorry for my wife. She has to bear a lot of things that she shouldn't have to bear. I will definitely feel sorry for her for the rest of my life." I still don’t know, it must be.”

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Whether Tang Yifei is a mistress or not, it really doesn’t matter. The important thing is whether the people who eat melon think she is a mistress.

Even if she is not really considered a third party in an emotional sense, but in terms of procedures, once someone catches her, she will still pay a heavy price.

In addition to Tang Yifei, people who have learned this lesson include Zhang Zixuan.

In 2015, Zhang Zixuan was photographed falling in love with Chen He, and was questioned about the role of the mistress.

Chen He quickly posted the divorce agreement: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I hid the divorce from everyone."

I thought that everyone would let him and Zhang Zixuan go. . Unexpectedly, because Chen He's divorce agreement only had the signatures of both parties and no official seals, and they did not apply for a divorce certificate, Zhang Zixuan would still be stigmatized as a "mistress."

After all, in the eyes of everyone, as long as two people have not applied for a divorce certificate, it means that there is still a little room for improvement in the marriage. Anyone's intervention will cause further damage to the marriage.

Don’t say you haven’t divorced yet. Even if a person applies for a divorce certificate today and takes the couple to apply for a marriage certificate the next day, they will still be scolded.

A truly responsible person will handle the previous marriage before starting the next one. The ancients said: "A new bather must flick his crown, and a new bather must shake his clothes."

Dating after a divorce is like a person who should take a bath before wearing newly washed clothes. After taking a bath, you should wear freshly washed clothes, as is natural.

This is not only responsibility for the previous marriage, but also respect for the next relationship.

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Others call Tang Yifei a mistress, but I just think this girl is too stupid.

She has endured so much for love, but she doesn’t know that a man who is truly worthy of her love will not push her to the forefront just because of his temporary inability to control himself.

During the Republic of China, there was a famous talented man named Zhang Boju. One day, he accidentally went to a brothel and fell in love at first sight with Pan Su, a talented and beautiful brothel girl.

Unfortunately, Zhang Boju had already married a wife at home at that time. Under the arrangement of his family, he already had a third wife.

According to the trend at the time, Zhang Boju directly married Pan Su and became his fourth wife, and no one would think there was any problem.

But Zhang Boju, who was truly moved, did not want Pan Su to be wronged. He immediately went home and spent a lot of money to dismiss the third wife, and then solemnly proposed to Pan Su.

Tang Yifei is not as lucky as Pan Su. Ling Xiaosu grabbed her hand before she could settle her previous marriage.

She thought they were falling in love together, but she didn’t know they were falling in love together.

Of course Tang Yifei can also say that she is very brave.

However, she traded the whole world for Ling Xiaosu. Is it really worth it?

In the seven years since the storm, Yao Chen has successively produced works, from "Divorce Lawyer" to "Everything Is Good", from "Finding You" to "Send Me to the Clouds", which have frequently hit the screen.

As a student who graduated with the best grades from the Central Academy of Drama, Tang Yifei can only rely on revisiting old stories on variety shows to become a hot topic.

She felt wronged and cried, but she never understood: For a woman, accepting a love that lacks respect will only devalue herself in the end.