Article/Daughter of the South Country

It is not empty but buzzing, it is not that there is a piece missing in my heart, but it is continuing to live, eating, working and playing games.

You are still in my heart, but when I think of you again, there is no disturbance. It’s someone I’ve known for a long time and loved hard. Probably not disturbing is the last gentleness. After all, there are some relationships where there is no choice but to say goodbye.

I changed my signature and avatar long ago, and I kept wondering whether to delete my contact information. Now I am too lazy to change, too lazy to replace, too lazy to delete.

When I think of you again, there is no disturbance, no laughter or disappointment, just a person I have known for a long time. It turns out that not caring is the final tenderness.

I can't stop you from running towards someone better than me. To some questions, silence is the answer, dodging is the answer, and not taking the initiative is the answer. And I, there’s nothing else I can’t figure out.

The two luckiest things for me over the years are that time has finally exhausted my love for you, and the other is that one day a long, long time ago, I met you.

You are someone I have never bought back with no amount of tears, and no one can make me prefer you at first sight like you.

There is a topic on Zhihu: What is it like to truly let go of someone?

One answer said: "I suddenly thought of him, smiled, and my heart was no longer disturbed."

I remembered this sentence in "Passing Through Your World":

Everyone’s memory is a sand city. Time corrodes all buildings. You look back step by step, but you can only move forward.

The opposite of love is not lack of love, but indifference. It's not hate, but indifference. When you suddenly meet him on the street one day, you can smile and nod to him. When you pass by, don't look back.

Even if you don’t delete his friends or block him, you can still be indifferent to his occasional circle of friends, no matter what content he posts. It is you who no longer inquire about his information from others and care about his current situation.

How he lives has nothing to do with you. Even if he sends you a wedding invitation, you can still say your best wishes to him calmly.

As you go through life, you will find more and more: it takes more courage to accept loss and let go than to gain and possess.

When we fall in love, it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t last until the end. We all tried our best.

In the days when we will never see each other again, we will cherish each other.