In the Tang Dynasty, there was a scholar named Mai. After he was admitted to fame and fortune, he felt that his wife was old and faded, and he had the idea of abandoning his ex-wife and finding another lover. So, I wrote a couplet and put it on my desk. The lotus flower has declined, and the fallen leaves have become old lotus roots. ? Coincidentally, this pair of couplets was seen by his wife, who noticed from the couplets that her husband had the idea of abandoning the old and welcoming the new, so she began to write a pair of couplets. When the grain in Huangdao is ripe, rice is new now. ? With what? Rice? Right? Lotus? , to? New grain? Right? Old lotus root? Not only is it very neat and appropriate, novel and popular, but also? New grain? With what? Bride? Homophonic and funny. Mai Aixin read his wife's second couplet and was moved by her agile thinking and love, so she gave up the idea of abandoning the old and welcoming the new. When the wife saw her husband change his mind, she did not forget the old feelings, but wrote: The husband is fair. ? Michael Essien also wrote a sequel:? Wife is a woman's heart? From then on, the two supported each other, understood each other and grew old together, which became a much-told story. Since then, people have called each other husband and wife? Husband? 、? Wife? Custom, and very educational.
Marriage is a kind of responsibility, which needs to be managed by both husband and wife. In order to make the marriage strong, both sides need to understand each other, tolerate each other, respect each other, and communicate in time and effectively when problems arise. Under such circumstances, husband and wife will live happily.