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According to the newspaper, a father and his son signed a "father-son agreement". The main content is that the son will raise all the funds for his higher education and find a career by himself. , starting a business, getting married, and a series of major life events, parents have to pay for their own pensions, take care of various matters such as daily life. This report caused a major response in the society. Some people said: This agreement violates the traditional Chinese parents' raising of children. , the ethics and morality of children supporting their parents; some people say that the traditional two-way dependent family affection and filial piety are based on the population of rural society with many children and grandchildren. With the development of the times, it has become a negative factor. There should be a new type of relationship between father and son to replace it.

Who is right and who is wrong between these two views? No one is qualified to make a conclusion, so I can only talk about myself here. It’s just an opinion. I once heard a celebrity say: All love in this world aims at gathering, only the love between parents and children aims at separation. The earlier the children are separated, the stronger this love will be. Success. This sentence undoubtedly gives a strong affirmation to the "father-son agreement". In the agreement, the son must pay for higher education by himself. In fact, it is a way for parents to let their children get into contact with society as soon as possible, and it is also a way for children to get out of the arms of their parents. One way. The earlier a child leaves his parents and comes into contact with society, the sooner he can learn independence, self-care ability, ability to handle things, and ability to understand human affairs and accidents. At the same time, his ability will be better than that of his peers. Stronger.

We all know that Lu Xun left home at the age of 12 and went out to study. Not to mention his parents, he didn’t even have a servant to take care of him. He traveled a lot by himself and saw a lot of things. Although Lu Xun changed his mind, he was much more mature mentally than ordinary people, so he later became a great thinker and revolutionist in our country, and was famous throughout history. I would like to ask, if Lu Xun had stayed with his mother, would he still have achieved such achievements? I think it’s just a matter of disappearing into the crowd.