There was a parent who was too busy at work, but still tried to walk with his children when he was a student. It is not important to listen to what children say, but this kind of listening is very important, especially for primary and secondary school students and children facing difficulties. Specifically, there is a technical term about the way of speaking to children, which is called "producing excellent response correlation". This kind of reaction correlation includes good language expression reaction and emotional reaction.
2. Learn to Let Go China's parents have always loved their children. From birth to school, they are still interfering in every part of their children's lives. They don't want to let go, and they can't bear to use their children. They want to do everything, not everything. However, coquetry is not an unskilled connivance. Parents need to give their children love, and at the same time, they should also know how to let go properly.
The so-called "letting go" does not mean that you don't care about children from now on, but that you should consciously cultivate children's consciousness from the bottom of your heart. Whether you are a babbling baby or a pupil who studies with a schoolbag on his back every day, you can shape their independent and self-reliant personality, so that they can develop more effectively and play a huge role in their future life. This is the most beautiful gift that real parents give their children! After all, as the saying goes, example is not as good as example, and example is not as good as environmental education. What you feel with your own eyes is more real and profound than that in books.
3. Don't praise children too much. In the process of educating children, praise is essential. Children respond well to supportive words and behaviors, but they respond worst to words and behaviors that punish and violate etiquette.
However, everything is "extreme", and the more praise, the better. If you praise your child too much, it is easy for him to become arrogant. If a child becomes a conceited person, he will not achieve much in this life, even if he used to be a genius or a wizard!
If praise is compared to taking medicine blindly, it is undoubtedly an indispensable tonic for life, but "it is a drug of three poisons", even if it is a tonic, it cannot be taken in large quantities. Be careful of the adverse reactions caused by drugs. Ryan's tragedy was caused by the adverse reaction of praise.
Children who grow up in love can concentrate on the whole world. Before educating children with professional knowledge, the most important thing to teach children is to help them grow up freely and teach them how to treat the world correctly and how to treat their own hearts correctly. Children who grow up in love will eventually become a beacon for their parents.