At dinner, Huanhuan (pseudonym) likes to play with a spoon to "season" and put all kinds of vegetables and sauces into a bowl to stir. Mom said with a straight face, "Huanhuan, have a good meal and don't waste anything!" " Unexpectedly, Huanhuan didn't listen at all. Instead, she made a face at her mother and deliberately twisted her body to continue stirring her "cooking".

Comments: Naughty children often tentatively challenge their parents' bottom line. Their purpose is to test parents' reaction. If their parents are angry, they will get worse.

You may think that children will not have rebellious behaviors until adolescence, such as making faces while talking to you, or talking to you selectively, but in fact, many preschool children will also have these behaviors, and their purpose is to test their parents' reactions.

Many parents think that children like to play, so they don't pay attention to it. But if you indulge their bad habits, you may treat others with a "provocative" attitude when you grow up, and it is difficult to get along with others.

Solution: The best way for children to correct the bad habit of frivolous attitude is to make them realize that their behavior is wrong. For example, when Huanhuan is not obedient in playing "seasoning", her mother can calm down and ignore her first and eat quietly. Huanhuan is bored after playing alone, and will naturally stop. After dinner, you can call Huanhuan to your side and tell her, "Huanhuan didn't have the right attitude towards her mother at dinner today. Next time, her mother will never talk to you again! "

Children must be made aware that their behavior is improper. For example, when you talk, your child rolls his eyes. You can tell him that this behavior shows that he doesn't like what you say. You can walk away without talking to him, and then tell him to wait until his attitude gets better.