The fourth season of "Run, Brother" mentioned: Research shows that on average, people make 43,000 choices every day without realizing it. Some choices may seem insignificant, but in fact But it affects the direction of destiny!

The eight guests in the variety show experienced another kind of life in one day.

We all started from the same starting point, but unknowingly, we became completely different. What determines the difference is the inadvertent choices made again and again.

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? ? The choices of A and B determine different lives

The first choice faced by Li Chen and Justine in the comprehensive program The item is: Faced with the trouble of hair loss, you will choose:

A hair transplantation.

B Just get a bald head.

Justine chose A for hair transplantation. Due to the high cost of hair transplantation and the need for multiple purchases, coupled with various pressures such as mortgage, pension, and childcare, he spent all his savings. In order to be with her family, she did not choose a high-paying job abroad. The couple continued to quarrel because of the economic crisis. Justine chose to separate, and ended up alone.

Li Chen chose B to simply get a bald head. Because of his bald characteristics and outstanding personal talents, he was appreciated by his boss and was reused. When it comes to accompanying children on their birthdays and choosing their studies, choose to accompany your children and respect your children's studies when they live abroad. Eventually, your children and grandchildren will be happy with you when they are old and have a happy old age.

Just like what is said in the variety show, the result of each choice you make will affect the following results. Your life will take different paths at the moment when the wheel of fate turns.

Although variety shows use exaggerated techniques to present the results of many choices in life for the sake of ratings. But in real life, there are many events where one initial choice affects the entire life.

Thinking back on each of our lives, we choose our parents when we are born (although it is not decided by us), choose schools when we are children, choose jobs, choose partners, choose the path to wealth when we grow up, etc., and finally decide Our destiny in this life.

A person’s life is “determined by God, and destiny is determined by oneself.”

We cannot control "fate" and we cannot predict it.

"Luck" starts with our choices. Each choice is a reflection of various comprehensive factors such as "opportunity + vision + experience". It seems like a small choice, but it reflects our destiny. Values ??and life orientation.

Is the choice of "A or B" at an important node in life based on your inner needs?

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In fact, the choices you made are not wrong, everything is the best arrangement

Multiple choice questions from guests Zheng Kai and Guan Xiaotong: Your child When there is a chance to become a star...

A. Choose to become a star.

B. Refuse to be a star.

Zheng Kai chose to let his child become a star. The child turned from a star to an agent, and his career went smoothly. When Zheng Kai was old, he was proud among his old friends because his children could easily have the autographs of many celebrities and work with them.

Guan Xiaotong chose not to let her child become a star. When the child grew up, he became an angel in white. The child's life was meaningful and satisfying, and she was satisfied because the child lived a good life.

Although Zheng Kai and Guan Xiaotong made different choices, the fate of their children was different. But in the end, the director asked him/her to choose to archive their lives in the life archive. Among the three items of "happiness, ordinaryness, and dissatisfaction", both of them chose "happiness".

As mentioned in the program, many people think that getting into a good school, finding your favorite job, and having a lot of wealth is a kind of success.

But there is no standard answer in life. If you can feel the happiness in life and have the ability to love and be loved, isn't this a success?

In the late Eastern Han Dynasty, the reputation of the miracle doctor Hua Tuo spread among the people, which attracted the attention of the Eastern Han Dynasty court. The imperial court recommended or applied for official positions many times, but Hua Tuo rejected them all.

Some villagers said, "As an official, you will have a mansion, servants, servants, and power... In short, there are many benefits! After so many years of hardship, you should enjoy it. And Why should I refuse if I can still honor my ancestors?"

Hua Tuo said: "Thank you folks for your kindness, but I still decided not to be an official. Besides, being an official is not suitable for me. If medical skills are limited in the palace, it means that there is a lack of good doctors among the people and there are too many mediocre people in the officialdom, which is not a good thing for the country and the people."

Hua Tuo insisted on being a common man. He studied medical skills, saved lives and healed the wounded, and became a "miracle doctor" in the eyes of the people.

Although the choices we face in life are of great significance to life, choices are choices, and no matter what choice we make, it will not be the best choice.

For example, celebrity agent or angel in white, which one is better? Each has its own fun, each has its own bitterness.

It is a matter of "the benevolent sees benevolence, the wise see wisdom".

For example, whether it was better for Hua Tuo to be an official or a doctor. In the eyes of the villagers at that time, being an official could gain immediate benefits and honor the ancestors. From the perspective of our future generations, if Hua Tuo becomes an official, a generation of miracle doctors may be missing!

Are there any right choices in life? There is no absolute in this path. As long as you are free and happy and do not harm others, it is the right choice.

If we understand our own needs, find our own advantages, and find our own direction on a suitable life track, then you will have a happy life for yourself!

In fact, there is nothing wrong with the choices you make. As long as you are satisfied with your choice and do not regret it, everything is the best arrangement!

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? As long as you want, you can be happy

Argentinian player Messi is the idol of many fans!

Now Messi is a giant holding a golden ball in his hand, but many years ago, he almost ended his football career due to dwarfism.

Like other children in his hometown, Messi has loved football since he was a child and has always been the best player on the team. But like his family members, Messi was born short and thin. He stopped growing when he was 11 years old. He suffers from congenital dwarfism.

Messi’s dwarfism stems from malnutrition. Because his family was poor and had no beef and cheese, Messi grew up eating potatoes and carrots.

Messi's disease can be treated, but the cost is very high. His family has no money to treat him, and his team is unwilling to pay the cost for a child with an uncertain future.

But Messi refused to give up and insisted on training. At the age of 13 and only 140cm tall, he joined the Barcelona youth team with his superb skills. In the first game, he impressed thousands of spectators in the stands with his skillful footwork and extraordinary dribbling and breakthrough ability.

This success led to the discovery of Messi by Tournini, the noble man in Messi’s life. With the help of Tournini, Barcelona signed Messi and agreed to treat him. Practice and heal.

With his tenacious will and unremitting efforts, Messi finally changed his unfortunate fate and became a legend in world football!

From Messi, we can see that no matter what kind of dilemma or stage in life, we still have the opportunity to choose.

Choosing to make positive changes or to respond passively determines whether you have a chance to break the situation!

The source of many people’s tragedies is choice: not being able to choose, not insisting on choosing, and constantly choosing.

What we become in the end does not depend on the path we choose, but on our hearts.

Some people say that life is a heavy rush, and you need to make choices at every fork in the road. And every choice will lead to another completely different path of destiny.

Human life is the connection and extension of various choices! We cannot avoid making choices again and again in life. We can only make good choices at the moment, but we cannot predict the consequences of the choices.

You can only enrich your comprehensive abilities and make the choices you think are the right ones at the moment.

If you make a choice, keep working hard in the best direction, face challenges with all-out attitude, and live a life without regrets!

As long as you are willing, you can live happily on the path of your choice!