It is inevitable that children who just come out to work have little social experience, and their self-care ability is not necessarily very good, so parents sometimes choose to write letters to their children who just work. The following is a letter I shared with you to my son who just worked. Welcome to read and study. A letter to a son who just joined the work 1

Son:

It's been more than three months since you left home, and it's very difficult to work hard alone. Now you can finally earn your own living, and your parents are very pleased and happy. It is your mother who often makes fun of me. Everything is fine at home. Please don't worry about it.

Everything around you has changed since you left school and entered the social class. There are many things to learn and adapt to. Ideal and success are waiting for you, as are the same problems and contradictions. The trouble of life depends on how you coordinate, and the pressure of work depends on how you bear it and whether you can stand the test. There is a process, and I hope you can adapt as soon as possible. This is life and this is life. Don't worry. Your advantage now is that you have a good work unit. As long as you work hard, survival is not a problem, and you have money in your pocket, all problems can be solved. Son, work hard! Dawn is just ahead.

Son, you must be friendly and kind to people outside, and you must be careful when making friends. It is not easy to make one or two bosom friends all your life, and it is difficult for you to make friends like Liu Zhiyong again. A man must be generous when he is away from home, and don't worry and hurt his mind for some small things in life. It's not worth it, it's not necessary, it's endless advantages and endless losses, so some small things are not worth mentioning.

You are still in the training period, so your work pressure is not great, and your spirit is not so tense. But once you work independently, your sense of responsibility will be great. So you should study hard, work hard, get familiar with the process of each post as soon as possible, understand the problems in your work, communicate with your colleagues more, consult the old master more, and you must not lag behind others in your hands-on ability and problem-solving ability, because the competition is too fierce, so you should have this early.

As for the house, by the way, due to the lack of financial resources, the matter of buying a house is not listed for the time being. The general idea at home is that when you have saved enough 1, yuan, it will take about three years for the family to collect 1, yuan for you. Otherwise, it depends on whether you can find a girlfriend to help you. What do you think?

Let's talk about it this time. If you have more communication with your family, you will definitely give you advice and find a way. So don't be anxious, impatient or panic about anything. Be calm, think carefully and think twice before you act. It's cold, you should add clothes and quilts in time to avoid catching cold. You must sip well, take care of yourself, and remember! Remember.

a letter from my father

2xx to my son who just started work on October 25th, 2

Mengmeng:

My baby!

I wrote to you in this way four years ago. Do you remember? Today, four years later, you graduated and worked. I can't help writing to you again.

that letter was written when you went to Shandong four years ago. I put it in your MP3 before I left. Later, you gave the MP3 to someone and gave away the letter from your father. Dad is worried that you didn't read it well, and it was sent to you by email and QQ. I believe you read it carefully. Later, someone recommended me to publish it on Mother's website. I tried. Unexpectedly, the click-through rate was so high. Many people left me messages and letters. They all said that I was a good father and a good father. I don't know what you think and what you said about my father.

The night before yesterday, your mother and I took you around the city. In fact, we just hope that you won't go the wrong way to work the next day and you won't find a place. We talked a lot on the way, but I feel that you don't like to hear it. Are you grown up, and you don't think we need to talk so much and feel so uneasy? If that's the case, you have to listen patiently, because you have to understand inherit the wind.

I laughed at myself when I saw you driving such a fancy car to work in the morning. How could I buy you such a good car? Don't you feel that dad is giving you invisible pressure?

Don't think that everything will be OK when you go to work. Whether you can join that team or be accepted by your team depends on your work enthusiasm and attitude.

Dad sent you eight words: "Modesty, diligence, courtesy and study". Remember what Wanju said that day? Do you hear the words from pouring water and sweeping the floor?

No matter what problems arise at work, you should first check yourself. Don't argue when you are criticized at work. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong. What matters is how to avoid them in the future.

You are the person you meet. You have just set foot in the society. I don't want you to meet people who have no ambitions and ideals. We are eager for your success.

I don't know whether you like your current job or not. Whether you are interested in this job or not, you must do it well. It is very important for you to love your job and be dedicated. You should firmly believe that a good habit can benefit people all their lives.

I told you the other day that we stopped giving you money on time from the day you went to work, which was not accurate enough. The accurate statement should be that we stopped providing financial assistance after you received your first salary.

Dad has been working for so many years, and he is definitely more experienced than you. You can communicate with him in time, which will save you a lot of detours. Please remember!

If you are free, please go online and read The Map of Office Success. This model article will definitely help you!

a letter from dad

2xx-9-17 to his son who just started work in xx. Part 3

Dear son:

Hello!

I logged into Tencent QQ two days ago and saw your personalized signature "I am confused and want to give up!" " In fact, I knew that you had just joined the work, met some unpleasant things, and tried to call you several times, but I believed that you would survive, so I didn't disturb you. You called me some time ago and finally talked about things at work. I think it's time to communicate with you. How time flies! It seems that you were admitted to the university in those days, but four years of university have passed quickly. This time, you took part in the work and really became an adult. In the past, you were faced with teachers and classmates, and you were educated. Even if there was anything wrong, teachers could forgive you, and classmates could forgive you. Now, you have joined the work, facing your boss and colleagues. You are no longer an educated person, and everyone's requirements for you have increased. Therefore, in the days to come, you should pay special attention to your words and deeds, take good care of yourself, and never let your temper do things. In the future, apart from parents, no one will earnestly educate you like a teacher. Everything depends on yourself. I trust you, and I firmly believe that my son is the best. Come on, son. But I always want to tell you a few words. Only in this way can I feel completely relieved after I have done what I should do. Now, based on what you said, combined with my life experience and understanding, I would like to talk about some views. I hope you have a patient look, don't be impatient.

first, look at the troubles coldly.

People are carefree only in childhood, because this period is the time when people know the least and have the least psychological burden. In addition, as long as you know some things, you will understand some principles of being a man, and you will also establish a sense of responsibility psychologically. With the increase of age, such responsibilities associated with society, family and one's own life become more prominent. Therefore, people have to bear these responsibilities to "live a hard life" in this world. Contradictions in nature are everywhere, and the world is full of contradictions. In this world of life, there are also many contradictions. It is impossible for an adult to "jump out of the three concessions and not be in the five elements." Therefore, in the process of living and doing things, people will inevitably encounter a lot of troubles, even things that are very tiring, which will make you "hard-working" and you will suffer a lot, which can be described as "hardship". None of us can avoid this. Even if your life and work are smooth sailing, it is short-lived. As the saying goes: people who have no long-term worries must have near worries. In fact, people's happiness and troubles are constantly changing, and people are constantly shuttling between happiness and troubles. Therefore, even if we are unhappy when we encounter something that bothers us, we don't have to panic excessively. Just like we treat something that is happy, we should actively face it and face the difficulties. Of course, this is easier said than done, which requires the tempering of our will to persist. In this way, you may be able to solve problems actively, and it will also help you to deal with these things as soon as possible and eliminate the unhappiness in your heart.

second, grasp yourself and take every step in the future.

when I think back, you didn't grasp yourself well in junior high school and senior high school, son. Do you know how worried and anxious I was at that time? After several twists and turns, you were admitted to Chongqing Medical University. After going to college, you mastered yourself and suddenly changed. Teachers and classmates all appreciate you. How happy I am! How proud and proud it is. After graduating from college, you successfully passed the exam, arrived at the First People's Hospital of Guangyuan City, and found a job. I am really pleased! After all, we are ordinary people, powerless and have no more relations. It's not easy for you to get here step by step with your own efforts. This shows that as long as you have a good grasp of yourself, you can do quite well. Now that I'm working, I need to work harder and create more glory. Liu Qing said: "Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps at stake, especially when people are young." At a critical point, one wrong step may ruin one's life, thus leaving a lifelong regret. I emphasize once again that we should take good care of ourselves and take every step of our lives.

Third, be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, learn to respect, learn to tolerate and learn to control.

as the saying goes, endure a calm moment and take a step back. Young people are impulsive, angry and prone to do things they regret later. Many people make mistakes, not because they don't know right and wrong, but because they are impulsive and "angry" makes them dizzy. When they calm down, they regret it, but it is too late. You have just joined the work, and the people around you, either your boss or your colleagues, as well as poor patients suffering from illness, should get along well, respect everyone, get along with others, be tolerant and patient, and be able to control yourself under any circumstances. When there is a contradiction, you should first reflect on yourself, and don't just look for reasons from others. Especially when treating patients, we must put ourselves in the other's shoes. Even if we are wronged, it doesn't matter. We should understand them more.

fourth, ask for advice with an open mind, learn to cooperate, do well in interpersonal relationships, and move towards success.

People around you have their own skills, especially in the medical profession. If you can ask for advice with an open mind, you can get advice from others, and your skills will gradually increase and your capital will increase. How much time might it take if you just grope by yourself? A person who asks for advice with an open mind is bound to grow faster and be liked by everyone. In modern society, it is difficult to succeed by one person alone, and we must learn to cooperate. You have done a good job in interpersonal relationships, and everyone is willing to cooperate with you and help you. You are not far from success. In addition, you have done a good job in interpersonal relationships, everyone likes you, you live in a harmonious environment all day, your mood is bound to be comfortable, your work is bound to be smooth, and success is not easy to get? You have a tense relationship with others, and everyone doesn't like you, and they don't want to help you, or even tear you down. How can you succeed? If you want to improve interpersonal relationships and get help from others, you must respect and help others. Only when you take out your heart will others give it to you. This is what people often say.

Fifth, we should establish the concept of lifelong learning, and it is never too old to learn.

In today's world, information is changing rapidly, and competition is becoming increasingly fierce, and it is likely to rise and fall overnight. In this case, lifelong learning is necessary. Especially as a medical worker, we should first establish the idea that it is never too old to learn. Now that you are out of school and have a job, you can't stop studying. You should combine work with study, do it in middle school and study, and work hard. Only in this way can you continuously grow your skills and be invincible. While doing your job well, you should read more books, read more newspapers and study more business. We should constantly broaden our horizons, improve our self-cultivation and increase our skills. Only by learning the true skills can we have food all the time and everywhere; Only by learning skills that others don't have can they be reused and treated well; Only with the accomplishment of surpassing others can we get the status of surpassing others.

six, adjust your mentality. Mentality determines everything.

As far as I can see, in college, you are not only a cadre of the college student union, but also an outstanding student in your class. You are considered as a leader in your class and a publicity figure among your classmates. Undeniably, you have made some achievements and won the praise of teachers, classmates and parents. It can be said that a dazzling aura hangs over your whole college life. This aura gives you a more "self" concept in your subconscious. This aura not only brings you confidence, but also brings you inconvenience to enter the society. In addition, on the eve of graduation, you also made a sunny design for your future life, so you entered the society with great ambition. When you just enter the society and go to work, the realistic working environment and living conditions make you somewhat disappointed, even depressed or frustrated, while the reality of the society mercilessly hits your "self" and "complacency". Only when you realize this clearly now can you adjust your mentality, understand the reality of society, or give up some "egos", or adjust your life plan, or find a suitable development path in another way. Adapt to the real environment. The Koran says, "If you ask the mountain to come, and the mountain doesn't come, you can go." The actual environment is quite different from the "environment" imagined in your mind, which is also normal, because objective facts do not exist regardless of people's will, and you have to admit the existence of facts. What you can do now is not to resent and give up the so-called bad working environment and living conditions, but to think calmly about how to face all this, especially to combine your life plan with the far-flung reality, and at the same time, the "mountain" will approach you.

eight, care for the body, have health, let oneself have a happy life.

at all times, health comes first. What's the point of everything else if the body collapses? What happiness can we talk about? Young people always think that their bodies are inexhaustible mineral deposits, and they always think that they have endless energy and always overdraw their bodies. However, when they understand their mistakes, it is already too late! The body is like a car, you have to take good care of it. If you always overload it and overspeed it, you just don't care about it, and its life will inevitably be shortened.