The words youth and rebellion are often used together.

The desire for independence, curiosity, and desire to explore, coupled with the pressure to gain recognition and belonging from peers in the social circle, make children in this period full of rebellion and impulsiveness.

However, adolescent children are, after all, in a semi-mature and semi-childish state both mentally and physically, and are in an unstable transitional stage towards adulthood. How to regulate their behavior during this period is a headache for many parents. It is obviously not feasible to produce filial sons under the stick, and it is not recommended. But being forced to stand and sit on the bench like a child is not enough for adolescent children.

1. Precise attack

There is no need to nag them in detail, just tell them what they must do (for example, schoolwork is the most important, and grades must not be decline), what must not be done (such as not lying) is enough. Many other things can be turned a blind eye (for example, the child's own room is messy). However, once the rules are formulated, rewards and punishments must be strict and consistent when implemented.

Yuan has a problem (Yuan’s mother complained that this problem was caused by Yuan’s father’s unprincipled habit). She is very involved in playing, especially at the racecourse. After training, she meets her friends and her horse. Being with her children is her happiest time every day. When her family comes to pick her up when the time comes, she often uses the poor mobile signal signal at the racecourse as an excuse, and sometimes makes the person who picks her up wait for a long time. For this reason, Yuan's mother has repeatedly criticized and educated Yuan on the issue of respecting other people's time, but with little success.

2. Short-term deprivation of basic rights

This formula is used together with the previous formula. After they cross the insurmountable bottom line, they must receive the punishment they deserve. But first figure out what rights are most important to your child. Mild punishment will not be effective. Yuan’s mother believes that this trick is very powerful for children in this period.

3. On some non-principled issues, we can also allow them to properly bear and experience the natural consequences of violating the rules, and at the same time give them time and space to realize the meaning of the regulations. and adjust themselves. Reluctance to sleep at night and difficulty getting up in the morning are common problems among children. Although Yuan's mother also stipulates the time to turn off the lights and go to bed at night, she is not very strict. Yuan’s mother thought that if she went to bed too late at night, it would be very uncomfortable not to get out of bed for school the next day, and she would not feel comfortable at school the next day. She would naturally go to bed early the next night.

The second and fourth move: Let them pay the adult price for the consequences of their mistakes. For example, the economic cost.

We need to let them understand that their parents will not always follow them to clean up the mess. They will one day leave them and they will one day have to face everything on their own. The child had twice borrowed money from Yuan's mother to compensate for her own mistakes. Once, her computer was almost destroyed due to violent operation, and once she lost her competition uniform.

Losing face in front of others --- Note that this method is the most deterrent and lethal weapon for teenagers of this age, but it must be used with caution. At least, Yuan Ma hasn’t used it yet. However, this method has been tried and tested repeatedly when used to threaten and frighten people.

After entering adolescence, children begin to care about image and pay attention to face issues. This is also a psychological characteristic of adolescent children: showing personality, highlighting themselves, being different, and attracting attention.

For the first time, the little New Year's greeting gritted its teeth and agreed, and one after another, the child made several similar requests. In front of children, sometimes the children’s parents are also present. The children are also aware of the parents' mentality of being unable to save face. Classic sentences describing boys and girls

Stepping into the besieged city, family responsibilities are overwhelming, and chores are waiting for reality to come and go. Boys and girls who have problems think about their future marriage too simply and too grandiosely.

The love between boys and girls aged sixteen or seventeen feels quite transparent. Because he has never experienced the world, although he appears to be in a hurry in reality, he is also sober and touching. "I'm not looking up at the sky and waiting for the apple to fall into my mouth. I'm trying my best, maybe ten times harder than you." If you can like someone, even if the other person can't, your life will be at least as good as yours. It won't be hell, just somewhat bleak. Not to mention this is not the case. Therefore, I should continue to move forward and sail against the current, even if I am constantly pushed backward until I return to the past.

Love, the idea of ??a child is like having a child, but if you really have a child, then you can be fresh and fresh. It is also the theme of immortal life. Some people already have it, and more people have it. How can we start to pursue real talents and achieve success among boys and girls who have many children and do some things that are not deeply involved in the subject and have varying degrees of longing for the word love? Love can be synonymous with all good things, and it is The second sun, wherever it shines, where does it pass? It’s good to have a lot of children. It’s spring when you’re a person. When you’re a person, the premise is that you can only become a real person. Only when you have a good life can you be in love. The cruelest pain.

----"He Luo's appearance has a fault"

In my dream, I have you and fantasize about joining hands with your plum blossoming boy and girl

The so-called time is those extremely unforgettable time Nodes, they accompany us through the deserted streets with laughter and tears. The faces of boys and girls in the old days should also have the deep affection of their first love, and then slowly evolved into the tough and resolute people they are today. The setting sun behind them casts silhouettes all over the ground. Unfortunately, it failed to discover that we are all living in time. inside. ----Xiaowei "Deep Time"

Yes, love is just what teenage boys and girls do

Boys and girls laugh and recognize that direction, You have abandoned your armor in the tears of my Liao Yiye. It's a pity that the young man's sparse eyebrows have long faded away because of his concern for you; the greenness between the young girl's eyebrows has also turned into maturity.

You can really say that the man is not handsome, and the woman is not very beautiful either. The loneliness that can be seen everywhere is like that of young boys and girls. As long as this can be the case for the child, I firmly believe that there must be a girl and boy who are suitable for me when I talk to the child. Tell the truth. It is to make children believe in miracles and to make the miracle happen visibly. First of all, it is really important to meet children on the street from time to time. What a coincidence! I'm always looking for you. Maybe you don’t believe it, but you really mean it, you are my 100% man. I'm so small from head to toe. I want to tell him exactly how I feel about him. Jian Ruyi seemed to be dreaming again. "It's about having a child with someone sitting on a park bench, hand in hand, talking endlessly. It's about being alone with a child when someone is no longer around, and it's 100% true when you talk to me when you need to talk to me. It's also 100% true that we really need it when we talk about it. It's 100% true that we really need it when we talk about it. When I talk about it, I really need to be so happy! This is a miracle in the universe! This is how a small child can pass through people's hearts. It is indeed a small thing. How many doubts can I feel this year: With such a dream, I can easily become a Taoist consciousness. Is it a good time to develop a Taoist consciousness? ---- Haruki Murakami's "Encountering the 100% Truth" You really say that about a girl with hundreds of thousands of girls"

Thousands of boys and girls are fascinated by it. Everyone loves it, flowers bloom when they see it, a tire blows out when a car sees a car, there is a crack in the sky and on the earth. Like eggs, all kinds of flies love to stick to you

The ticking of the clock will not stop for half a second because of a sigh. One day you will find the person who once cried for the ups and downs of life. The smiling boys and girls are now savoring the passing days. Maybe it is not the time that changes, but the frivolous and restless hearts, whether you smile or burst into tears. I look at the collected memories one by one, they are just the past that cannot be returned one by one. I only hope that we who can’t grasp the time can step on its shadow and walk slowly so that those intermittent memories can be there. We are looking for a place to settle down in our hearts.

Children’s jokes, the corners of your lips are slightly curled up as a boy or girl, your eyes are full of youthful smiles, your indifference pierces your eyes and your face is ruined. In my eyes, I only admire her gray hair. Your gaze never stops at her skinny body. Your disdain touches the dying age in my heart. Your hands tremble slightly and the bones are broken. Your tears silently flow out. My efforts have finally been rewarded by you

Time is a rogue and space is a pervert. They collaborated to rape countless boys and girls, and then walked away when they were exhausted, leaving only the exhaustion after climax, which the world calls emptiness.

I saw the crying boy and girl hugging each other at the door of the dormitory station. They hugged each other so tightly and so hard. The hickeys on their necks and behind their ears were so bright and red like blood. The campus love is high-spirited, but in the end it can only leave a scar of vicissitudes of life. This is how love in youth is, strong and vivid, disappearing with time along with the pain of youth - Nong Di's "The Rebirth of a Celebrity." "Business Girl"

The love between a boy and a girl cannot avoid hitting the rocks. Perhaps, after such a long experience, the heart gradually grows and matures ---- The Little Sky Goes to the Blue Clouds "Rebirth of Self-Seed Camp Bubi Caihou Pai Self-Seed Marriage"

The feelings of boys and girls are often not necessarily obsessions, but regrets that are just what they want. Regrets of one kind or another, people will feel so beautiful when they look back on those ignorant feelings when they were young.

I am actually quite patient with boys and girls, but I am not very patient with young masters and young ladies who need support.

I will not become a poor old maid. Only poverty brings public contempt to single people! A single woman with a meager income must be ridiculous and annoying, an old maid! Just the laughingstock of boys and girls; but a wealthy single woman is always respected, and can be as rational and cheerful as any man.

----Jane Austen's "Emma"

The boys and girls who are doing things among young people are not talented but are stubborn and like to give birth to children on the edge of a knife. , Looking for the scenery on the cliff, you will feel like you are doing it, and you will not listen to any advice. If you don't go up, you will feel the wind. You will suffer more than the sky just because you thought about walking.

Among millions of people, in the waves of love, I will not retreat when I find you. In the few times I fell in love in my life, I saved the most beautiful moments for the beginning. Meeting, what a beautiful and sincere word, the love between a boy and a girl is like a blooming tea flower, entangled and faint, and you can know each other's hearts by touching your fingertips.

The sun was just right and the breeze was calm. My boy came gracefully with a rose in his hand. My hair was uncombed and messy. When he smiled and said "I was wrong" and gently arranged my hair, I wanted to cry. Will there be anyone who will seriously say they like you in your long life? Maybe in the future, there will be a street where the sun is pouring down. When you see young boys and girls in thin clothes, will old memories come to your mind for a moment? The exquisite young man is close to his chest, the sun is shining on his shoulders, as if he is free

A lot streets, many golden years and vicissitudes of life. Many boys and girls walked across the white line of the runway under the red sun just like us yesterday. ----Guo Jingming's "The Summer Solstice Has Not Arrive"

Ye Xie went abroad and brought him to the country and went to the most open seat in the row outside. I sat down on it, turned around and breathed every breath. Ren Zhu, this Bianguo Bianguo, went to see the famous Tianshui ten my daughter Dibianguo who was open at home and outside when she debuted. Every time they went out to Dibianguo Bianguo, he said: "Hello, use her No. 6, one hit, Ye Xie went abroad to bring convenience to the country. "Every famous girl from Tianshui returned to the country without hesitation and returned a warm treat to the country, and returned it to the country." The Liao Wei, who is able to express her emotions with all the energy, seems to be born with a trace of memories. The two of us can see that she has the tender youth of poetry, and the energy is slightly released with all the energy. He went down to the ground and said to each of his masters: "Hello, use her No. 5, No. 1, Liu Qinghan." It was as if fate had stopped again at this moment for this pair of boys and girls. In the household, when the country is the land of convenience, we always think about it. When she comes out of heaven and water, I am in this state, let the main energy be opened. Ren Zhuqi met for the first time when he was in charge of the country. ----Huan Zou Bian takes him abroad to the country "My school beauty is cut off"

In the era of heaven's rule, a boy and girl who had never met met in a paradise. They went from suspicion to trust, from sympathy to dependence on each other. When they went home to cancel the marriage customized for themselves at home and wanted to wander around the world, they discovered that God had tricked them into being each other's fiancées...

The senior year of high school is here, and with an unattainable attitude, he musters all his strength to torment these boys and girls who are about to become adults. The students, on the other hand, didn't even have the strength to resist. ----Weimianjun "First Love for So Many Years"

The cute points inside the castle are also: the screen in the lady's rest room between the fireplace and the ladies' chairs - old times Cosmetics are all made of wax and will melt when heated to the fire; the strange-looking "courtship chair" in the "Friendship Room" - two back-to-back couches with a single sofa on each side. The aristocratic boys and girls who are new to the social circle can only sit back-to-back Sitting and talking, the girl's chaperon (chaperon) sits beside her, ready to interrupt any offensive conversation; the "gallery room" located on the only way from the kitchen to the dining room is also known as the "whistle" "Promenade" - the servants responsible for serving the dishes must whistle all the way to ensure that they cannot steal the delicacies in their hands. ---- "Chronicle of the Emerald Island" by Huiyi Bao

The waves pass one after another, like a flamenco dance skirt rhythmically revealing the white bottom. I was on the beach, looking far away, and seemed to see myself riding a white horse riding the waves from a distance. Slowly, he stopped and played with the waves in the water with the horse. At this time, a group of boys and girls came and came to join them on horseback. The crisp laughter shattered the sea water and shattered the dream. ----Yang Le "Horse Riding, in the Spring of New Zealand"

You once asked me what kind of girl you like. I said: "I like girls with long hair, undyed hair, and kind girls." But I didn't think much about it at the time, but since then. Your heroic figure was replaced by a head of black hair. I remember we were only eighteen at that time, an upright and ignorant boy and girl. How wonderful it was then!

Love is a natural combination of watery tenderness and fiery desire. This combination puts forward the following requirements for people: In order to depict the soul-stirring love experiences of boys and girls with brilliant colors, a One cannot be too old. The wonderful reverie of youth does not allow for the calmness of careful consideration, because the latter will freeze their flowery years with old pedantry. ----Emerson, "Selected Prose by Emerson"

On a dark night with my eyes full of you, I suddenly dreamed of the time when we were far away. I couldn't ride a bicycle, but my husband went to the school for self-study in the evening. The sunset was so exciting that the long shadow of the little person riding the bicycle was smeared.

When I woke up, the window looked like it was an early summer night in this foreign city, and darkness surrounded me. There was a soft pain, which surpassed the happiness and sweetness in his eyes. One night many years ago, I was reading a stranger's blog and found a cartoon picture of a small river, weeping willows on a stone embankment, slanted light in the evening breeze, and a boy and girl sitting together. And there was a mountain wind blowing next to a bicycle. The moment the mountain wind blew up, my heart seemed to be so gentle that it couldn't be hit. It was like a pebble passing through people's shoulders and being thrown into the river of time. There was a layer of emotion in my heart. Layers of memories. ----Li Tianshi "Cycling in the Sunset"

The dragon travels all over the world and roars proudly for nine days. Everyone's destiny is in their own hands. It depends on how you seize the opportunity. If you miss it once, don't regret it. Chase your dreams and surpass yourself. Like the wind, boys and girls run to chase the most beautiful sunset. Classic love quotes from boys and girls

1. There is a scar in everyone's heart, which is the deep mark left by the person you love most.

2. I am used to updating your signature, worried about your loneliness, and afraid that you will abandon our love.

3. I only think of you when I reach a certain intersection; I only think of you when I’m watching a CD; I only think of you when I’m listening to a song. . I don't really miss you, I just think of you when I don't want to.

4. If I said we would never meet again, I would definitely avoid you. Maybe I will see you on the street again, how will you remember me. I will let go of myself, my inhibitions, and my possessed memories. The past is wanted and loneliness invades, just get used to it.

5. Do you often ask if there is true love in the world? Love includes the love of relatives and friends. Maybe the love of relatives will bring you unspeakable helplessness. Because you have been together for too long, love is not as passionate as before, and it doesn’t matter how you feel, so it doesn’t care what you do. Things are not that understanding, caring and supportive, so you feel confused. If you don't love someone, please let them go so that others can have a chance to love them. If the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have the opportunity to love someone else. Some things will never be yours no matter how much you like them, and some things are destined to be given up no matter how much you linger on them. There are many kinds of love in life, but don’t let love become a kind of harm. You don’t have to own someone to love someone, but you must love someone well if you have someone.

6. In this chasing game, when I am running away, you are chasing me, and when I am chasing you, you are running away. Maybe life is like this sometimes. Believe too much in eternity, and naively believe in how pure love can be constructed from a blank piece of paper.

7. Love is a strange thing, fleeting and profound, growing in each other's hearts. The most beautiful story has no ending, the most romantic feeling has no destination, the happiest love has no words, and the deepest love has no space!

8. Fate makes love possible. Love is an unexpected encounter.

9. My dear, in order to wait for you, I have walked across the Naihe Bridge and crossed the Mengpo Soup. I am afraid that I will forget your face and I will never let go of that love! You come or not, I am always here, and love is here too! Your smile is like wine, drunk on the world of mortals, drunk on past and present lives, and drunk on the hazy moonlight.

10. True love should be two people who understand each other, respect each other, do not entangle, tie or possess each other, and then accompany each other through a long journey. If I meet you, I will hold on to you.

11. Love is a truly precious wealth in life, a wealth that can never be too little and never too much. I persist in retaining my supreme love for you because I understand that it is the most beautiful thing I have in this life. For you, I have loved, hated, laughed and cried sincerely and without regrets, and I have learned to give without reservation.

12. On that day before the end of the world, as a gray-haired person, do you remember that the Yi Meier I sent you today was not typed on the keyboard, but came from the bottom of my heart.

13. Your wife is like a big tree, be sure to hug her; your lover is like a little bird, be sure not to feed it; your wife is a treasure, don’t make any noise when she quarrels; your lover is a grass, whoever pulls it out will follow him. Run; they say that beauties are good, they don’t make noises and they don’t run, but they are hard to find.

14. People who love each other will grow together in the twists and turns of the relationship. People who love each other will not end with a breakup, let alone be unfaithful a hundred times because of a mistake. The love will become deeper and deeper along the way, and we will only love each other deeply, understand each other's goodness, and never separate again. Simple is not necessarily the best, but the best must be simple.

15. The appearance of Fusheng calmed my aching heart a lot. The feeling was warm and clear flowing into my heart, without a trace of dust, pure and transparent. I don't know if this feeling is love? Still like it? Or is it appreciation? The care that I miss day and night seems to have become the main thread of life.

16. You asked me to forget all the past and pretend that I have never loved you. You made me completely give up and stop missing you. I don’t care if I am sad, but I still can’t let you go. Let me see you sad for him, how do you want me to calm down?

17. I can’t resist the hasty marks you left on me in my old dreams.

In every boundless and pitch-black night, I passionately embrace every moment of tenderness with you, and my addicted heart instantly sighs at the memory you left me. The traces are so clear and distinct.

18. If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together; if you love someone, you will be inexplicably disappointed when you are together. Like someone, you will always be happy; love someone, you will often shed tears. If you like someone, you will smile slightly when you think of him; if you love someone, if you think of him, you will stare at the sky in a daze. To like someone is to see their advantages; to love someone is to tolerate their shortcomings. Like is a mood; love is a feeling.

19. The best time to separate is when you are young. If you leave, there will be no hope.

20. Who makes my waiting pale and mocks my persistence.

21. No one can decide who is hurt, only who does not know how to cherish who is good.

22. The more I take care of my heart, the less I want from the world. I don’t need anything except what I love: a lover, a text editor, a gravel path that I often walk on, headphones, a good book, simple food, warm clothes, and the outdoor world.

23. I think it is a habit, getting used to caring for someone and being cared for by someone, getting used to two people being together, getting used to someone holding you tightly, getting used to having a touch of love. Kiss, get used to having a warm smile, get used to having someone in your heart, get used to having someone coax you to sleep, get used to having someone call you baby, love is getting used to the habit of another person.

24. A lonely person will always carefully remember everyone who has appeared in his life, so I always think of you endlessly and count my numbers over and over again every night when the stars fall. lonely.

25. Whenever I look at the sky, I don’t like to talk anymore. Whenever I talk, I don’t dare to look at the sky anymore.

26. Saying that you can’t forget is a lie. In fact, I don’t want to forget.

27. Many things that we thought we would never forget in our lives are forgotten by us in the days when we never forget them.

28. If nothing happens, it turns out to be the cruelest revenge.

29. I know I am not a very good recorder, but I like to look back on the road I came from more than anyone else. Run forward.

30. You give me a tear, and I see the entire ocean in your heart.

31. If God wants to destroy a person, he must first make him crazy. But why hasn’t God destroyed me after I’ve been crazy for so long?

32. Will the love engraved on the back of the chair be like the flowers on the cement, blooming in a lonely forest without wind?

33. In this sad and bright March, I rush through my thin youth, through the purple pansy, through the kapok, through the sadness, joy and impermanence that appear and disappear. .

34. If you laugh once, I can be happy for several days; but if you cry once, I will be sad for several years.

35. There is only a thin line between you and me in the emotional line of love. We thought we could give each other more love, but in the end we found that you didn’t want anything.

36. When you love someone, love eight points is just right. All expectations and hopes are only seven to eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, you are likely to put heavy pressure on the other person, making each other breathless, and completely losing the fun of love. So please remember, don’t be more than 60% drunk when you drink, don’t be more than 70% full when eating, and don’t be more than 80% in love with someone.

37. If it weren’t for the vicissitudes of life, how would true love emerge?

38. When I stay somewhere, I can’t help crying silently. In the silent crying, the smoke stirred up by the tears is slowly rising.

39. There is a kind of calmness called stagnant water.

40. I have traveled across thousands of mountains and rivers, and come to your side to be pure for the rest of my life.

41. Our contradiction is that we long to be understood but are afraid of being seen through.

42. When you are happy for a while, you lose your direction, and when you are unhappy for a while, you forget yourself.

43. There is a person in the world who will always think about him when we don’t meet him, but when we meet him he will blush and his heart will beat, and he will be unable to say anything. He always grabs your heart easily and makes you unable to forget him. He also makes you think so much that you can't sleep well, but you are still happy because you love him. He is your sweetest, sweetest load. This person is called a lover.

44. Love is not a game because we can’t afford it. Love means giving sincerely and treating each other sincerely. Don't talk about love easily, the debt you owe is the promise you made. Love cannot be found when it is lacking, nor can it be replaced when it is tired. To love someone, you don’t necessarily have to own them; but once you own someone, you must love them well. Love is not a one-man show, but a show between two people! Women are fickle with their faces, but men are fickle with their hearts.

45. Flowers are a sweet expression of love at any time. If you have no preparations for the holiday, you must send flowers. A red rose can also nourish our love! The love letters of young boys and girls in their blooming season

Honghong:

I will always keep your kindness to me, your love for me, and your love for me in my heart. I know you are rare, and maybe I will never be able to find someone as good to me as you in this life.

I used to think that I was lonely, had no friends, and was lonely and boring. But you made me feel warm and you provided me with a safe haven.

When I was in danger, you cared about me, helped me keep away the cold, and asked me if I was warm. I am very warm. With your solid and tender embrace to keep me warm, I am really warm. I know that no one can make me happy and happy like you. You always have so many jokes and you can liven up the atmosphere with just a few words.

The smell on your body is always so special. Although you have never smoked, the faint scent of tobacco can still remain between your fingers. I will remember this scent for a long time! But then we have to part ways. As the saying goes, all banquets in the world come to an end. Parting is inevitable. I believe you are more melancholy than me.

I very much hope to meet and fall in love with you again at work in the future.