After breaking up, the first thing to do is to adjust your mentality.

When we just broke up, there were many negative emotions, such as doubt, inferiority, pain and so on. , will instantly crush a man who usually looks very strong. At this time, most men will binge and drink, and some will be drunk and knock on their girlfriends' doors, demanding reconciliation. The subtext is "I've been drinking for you and you haven't made up with me."

However, this is the most useless way. Girls already hate you, and you come to haunt them. This will not only not save your feelings, but also deepen your girlfriend's resentment. Even if you finally make up, your girlfriend will look at you with colored glasses when you get along.

Just break up, you must handle your own mentality. You are a man. You can't live without her, even if she really doesn't marry. You should use this excuse to deceive yourself first.

2. Cold treatment relationship

After sorting out your state of mind, do what you should do first, go to work when you have classes, find a job when you have no classes, and do whatever you want.

Why don't you pester me Because the more you pester me, the more girls will hate you.

This sentence is not nonsense.

For a period of time just after breaking up, the girls hated your guts and gave up. You need to find out her thoughts and thoughts at this stage.

During this time, you came to haunt me and even did something radical. She hated you in her heart. If you go there again, it will arouse her rebellious mentality. Doesn't she hate you more?

Girls generally eat soft and eat hard. If you persecute and beg in the past again, it will only arouse her rebellious mentality and make her hate you deeper.

So, after sorting out your mood, you need to give your relationship a cold treatment. How to do this cold treatment?

You'd better send a WeChat or text message and tell her that you agree to break up. I'm deeply sorry for the trouble for so long. This sentence can not only cool down your relationship and give each other a quiet space and time, but also greatly weaken her defense against you and create an image of a man who can let go. This trick is called "Playing hard to get" in Sun Tzu's Art of War.

Step 3 Enhance the image

Maybe you have always been a person who likes cleanliness, and your dressing style and jewelry accessories are also in line with your temperament. However, if you want to save it, you have to change your style. Why do you say that?

People like the new and hate the old. No matter how strong the feelings are, you wear a suit and keep your hair cut every day, and she also has aesthetic fatigue for you. Changing her dress style is to let the other person look at you more in the future.

Don't think it's useless and unnecessary to have a look here. Take one more look, and you may turn from a piece of shit to a piece of chocolate in the other person's heart.

Enhance your image, don't go to the barber shop and let Tony draw twenty dollars to wash, cut and blow. Now many places have the overall design, and it doesn't cost much. Buy some clothes that suit you. Try not to be too formal unless the work requires it. Don't always hold on to your suit when you take a mature route. You should be casual.