Maybe it's because there are so many people, the boys hug the girls' waist, fearing that the people behind them will squeeze in and ask softly, "Are you tired?" What do you want to eat later? "
I saw the girl impatiently answer, "I'm tired enough." I haven't decided what to eat. Ask me every time. "
The boy looked down innocently, and then said something that impressed me deeply: "Let you decide because I want to eat what you like with you, and then look at your satisfied smile and temporarily forget the unhappiness at work today." I can't help you when you are wronged at work. That's all I can do. "
Hearing this, the girl said sorry. The boy seemed to rekindle his confidence and said, "Never mind, I didn't meet you to be angry, as long as you are happy." Then kiss the girl's hair.
When the bus arrived at the station, the boys got off with the girls' men and the bus started. I looked back at the couple again, and the boy still carefully protected the girl. There is a saying, "I didn't meet you to be angry." Two people fall in love, what a hard-won fate, why kill all happiness with anger. Even when love faces small obstacles, we should treat each other calmly, and then resolve it with love and courage, instead of treating it rashly in an angry way.
When the machine is resting, the heart is clear, and the moon is clear. It's fate to meet thousands of miles away, but we never met. Misty rain and the world of mortals, the vast sea of people, people are destined to know each other. A word destined for thousands of miles connected two people far away from the ends of the earth, and from then on, they fell in love deeply. It is not easy for people to meet and fall in love. Take this as a beautiful fate, treat it sincerely, and write the music of love together.
At one time, I often received a phone call from my friend in the middle of the night. He always complains that he can't sleep, because one thing has been pestering him: some time ago, he met a girlfriend, and he liked her very much, but with the deepening of his relationship, he was not happy. It turned out that his girlfriend had been with another boy for six years before she met him. He considered marrying her, but the more he thought about it, the angrier he became. The more he thought about it, the more he felt wronged: she had been with someone else for six years. ...
I know this guy has cornered his thinking, and he knows it's a corner, but he keeps bumping into it, struggling under the light like a poor moth. He knew it was self-abuse, but he couldn't help himself. He is haunted by this idea every day, and he is not crazy.
All I can do is listen and guide him to think positively, but to get rid of this pain, it still depends on his own consciousness.
I once read a very good book entitled The Meaning of Life, written by an outstanding psychologist alfred adler. He said that our troubles and pains are not because of the things themselves, but because of our thoughts on these things. He then quoted a famous saying in Milton's Paradise Lost: "Consciousness itself can turn hell into heaven and heaven into hell."
Indeed, the friend who called me late at night, under the influence of his own consciousness, turned the beautiful encounter into hell with narrow thoughts. Originally, he found a girlfriend he liked very much, so he should be very happy. He should have thanked fate, but he didn't think so, but stuck to her past. This is tantamount to tying a knot in your own destiny. If he doesn't get rid of it, he will never be happy.
Life is a strange journey, and meeting anyone is a beautiful accident. We should cherish everyone who walks with us on the journey, because that's where wandering hearts can stop.
The ancients said: "Fate is born of a circle, and life is doomed, that is, life." This life meets in the long river of billions of years, and meets here in the world of mortals. Whether men, women, children, rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, dust is precious, and the world will cherish it.
Taiwan Province writer Lin Qingxuan once said, "Where there is a will, there is a way. If there is no wish, even the people who are destined to miss it. Fate is providence and human nature. " No matter how deep or shallow the edge is, what you get is nature. Life is too short to come easily, so we should cherish it and treat everyone and everything in life with a tolerant and open mind.
A Zen master knows the truth. He likes orchids very much. On weekdays, he spends a lot of time planting orchids besides preaching and teaching.
One day, he will travel for a period of time. Before he left, he told his disciples to take good care of the orchids in the temple.
During this period, the disciples took good care of the orchids, but one day when watering, they accidentally knocked over the orchid stand, all the orchid pots were broken and the orchids spilled all over the floor. The disciples were very afraid of this, and they planned to make amends to Master and accept punishment when he came back.
The Zen master came back and said, "I didn't plant orchids to be angry."
The reason why Zen master is open-minded is that although he likes orchids, he has no orchids in his heart. So the gain and loss of orchids does not affect his mood. Besides, it's no use being angry. Why use anger to confuse and spoil your mood?
In daily life, we may just care too much about each other, too much about emotional gains and losses, and fear of losing, leading to emotional ups and downs. Think carefully, can anger really solve the problem? Or can it only make the contradiction sharper and hurt each other's feelings more? It's better to open your heart and watch the flowers bloom and fall.
When we are angry with our relatives, if we can think more about "I didn't meet you for anger, but for a beautiful encounter", then we can create another kind of peace for our troubled mood. When you can't grasp your emotions, think about this sentence, which may add some sweet factors to happiness!