Dawn's answer surprised me: I became who I am today because of my confidence. I have never worshipped anyone, and I have no idols in my heart.
Among many singers in Chinese mainland, Jie Xiaodong won the favor of fans with his handsome stage image, extraordinary youthful vitality and artistic style, so Jie Xiaodong took the lead in setting up his own fan club in Beijing.
A girl I am familiar with, with a girl's unique enthusiasm and sincerity for her youth idol, once sent more than a dozen warm letters to Jie Xiaodong fan club. Every time she writes a letter, she rackes her brains and is unique. She pays special attention to what kind of envelopes and writing paper to use, and even what kind of novel tone to use every time. Know the inside story, I know her letter is not known to Xiaodong at all. Jie Xiaodong has just invited a dozen college students to help him deal with the letters from these fans! I wonder if the fans in Jie Xiaodong have ever thought about it. When you remember their names in your heart like a god, did they repay your sincerity by remembering your name?
I really want to ask that obsessed girl, why don't you send so many sincere letters to your ordinary friends who can treat friendship well? Why not send the sincerity and mood of this letter to your estranged parents or siblings?
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When 1992 Taiwan Golden Horse Award winner Jackie Chan openly fell in love with actress Feng-Chiao Lin, a Shanghai male fan committed suicide by jumping off a building. Coincidentally, when singer Danny Chan unfortunately became a vegetable, a female fan also declared an idol hunger strike until she died before Danny Chan in depression and hunger;
The year before last, when Leslie Cheung retired in the torrent of music, a female fan was extremely lost because of the collapse of her idol. Desperate, she actually cut her hair for Nepal. Later, I learned that when Leslie Cheung entered the film and television circle and performed better in Farewell My Concubine, he was still vulgar. It's really a joke about his life, and it's really a shame to Buddhism.
The sister of a colleague of mine was in great pain when she heard the news of Little Tiger's dissolution. At that time, it was the time for her college entrance examination. Despite her busy homework, she wrote dozens of letters to Taiwan Province Province, asking for Little Tiger's signature photo. Later, when Little Tiger's photo flew from the other side of the strait, the notice of failing the college entrance examination also reached her. ...
I don't know whether these idolatrous fans live for themselves or idols. When you pay a lot of infatuation and expectation for this, and even mortgage all kinds of happiness that you could have grasped in your life on your idol, what do you get?
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You won't forget such a thing disclosed in the newspaper, will you? A fan who loves Liu Xiaoqing very much accidentally touched this extremely noble movie star in the crowded crowd in order to get Liu Xiaoqing's autograph. The movie star who was annoyed by excitement actually slapped the handsome guy in public and drove away-she forgot that she was a fanatical fan! I can say that this slap in the face didn't cure the idolaters' rickets. Otherwise, how can today's "groupies" become more and more keen on idolatry and behave more and more absurdly?
A beautiful and lovely lady earnestly begged me for a signed photo of a film actor who had a good relationship with me. I said to her: really, she is not as good-looking as you in life. You can't take her artistic image as herself.
The young lady suddenly screamed. How can you make fun of me? Dare I compete with her? She is a movie star!
I said to her: You and she are both women with complete personality. That's all. Don't lose yourself by worshipping others.
When you have an idol in your heart and worship it with enough piety, have you thought of it? Those outstanding politicians can give directions for the time being. Compared with you, he has never even had a solid and beautiful love. Those stars who once fascinated you can play well. Compared with you, his accomplishment may not be enough to make the society accept him as a good citizen. Those chic and romantic singers and movie stars you admired at the earliest time can only sing well and perform well. Compared with you, he never even had the healthiest personality!
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Today, instead of coveting the glory of celebrities, it is better to trace their sad past. Knowing that celebrities also come out of the ranks of mortals will undoubtedly increase your confidence in life. Everyone has the possibility of becoming an idol in others' hearts. At least you can be your idol.
A poor teacher once said to me: I never envy or admire anyone, because I value my own ordinary. I worship myself. Just like when I go to the movies, I only see art without stars. At school, I only read works, not writers. Because I never wanted to be an actor, nor did I want to be a writer or a human being. Only being yourself is the best!
A philosopher once said: When there is no idol in your heart, you become an idol in the eyes of others!
Essentially, people are just simple people, living quietly and openly. Those so-called idols can respect your dignity because you are too humble, too tolerant and even too cheap in front of them and lose your love and support; It is because of your fanatical worship of celebrities that celebrities can live a glamorous life! The price of celebrities is marked by mortals. If you don't treat him like a celebrity, he is really nothing.
Really, celebrities are like this. I really want to say to you: Dude, stand up straight and throw a crisp word at the celebrity in front of you-
There is no idol in my heart!