2. Everything has a cause, and every cause has a result. Don't rationalize your mistakes, and don't blame others for everything that goes wrong. Looking for the reasons for everything from oneself is the first step to change your destiny.
No matter how hard you try to make yourself perfect, there will always be a group of people pointing fingers behind your back. There is no need to scold anyone, and there is no need to slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, they just don't understand your lifestyle.
4. Some things are boring if you ask them clearly. Even the Buddha said that people should not be too tired, things should not be too tired, everything is too tired, and fate is bound to end early. So sometimes, there is little confusion.
Too many people want to change the world, but few people want to change themselves. In fact, if you change your mind, you can change your world, because the heart is the foundation of everything, and all your troubles come from your impure heart!
6. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't always embarrass yourself, you will live very comfortably. If you don't always find fault, it will be easier.
7. Be aware of people's deception, and don't get angry with words. Being insulted, quietly. Look at people wrong, don't praise them. Do someone a favor, but don't remember.
8. There are many problems on the road of life that can't find results. Many results can't understand why. Everything is a foregone conclusion. What everyone needs to do is to be kind in prosperity and calm in adversity.
9. People will encounter unhappy things and unpleasant people in life. Inevitably, if you don't learn to forgive, you will lead a miserable and tired life. If you can't overcome it, you will hurt yourself. So we should learn to bow our heads and let go.
10. Every earthly world, when you come and go, it is inevitable to be disturbed. Please don't care about those who make you angry, remember to cherish those who make you happy, keep those who make you free in your heart and devote yourself to a long life.
1 1. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.
12. People should be calm, and if they talk too much, they will lose. Instead of looking at yourself, it is better to say, when complaining about others, it is better to listen and forget. What can interfere with you is often your own concern, and what can hurt you is often your own obsession. You are peaceful and no one hates you, and no one can bother you if you don't investigate.
13. When I was young, I held a grudge against those who refused to help me. Later, I gradually realized that in this world, no one has the obligation to be good to himself. It is the duty of others to help themselves, and it is their duty not to help others. People don't owe themselves, just like they can't help all those who ask for help.
14. There is no one in the world who doesn't make mistakes. When you are wrong, don't waste time regretting. Punishing yourself with past mistakes is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake.
15. worry-free, less greedy. As long as you are relaxed and happy, there will be a sunny day in your heart. Those who are content, those who build dikes. We should grasp everything and seek nature, be calm when things go wrong, be proud when things go wrong and seek peace, be calm when frustrated, be inevitable when twists and turns, and be enlightened when vicissitudes occur.
16. Some things don't need to be cared about, and time will tell; Some people don't need to see it. Different roads lead to different goals. Things in the world, the world; Human reason, since the Enlightenment. In the face of injury, smile and be open-minded; It is extraordinary to ignore abuse in the face. Patience is not cowardice, but tolerance; Concession is not incompetence, but generosity. "Care" about right and wrong, "ignore" your own safety.
17. Life is always joking with us, and what you expect will be farther away from you; The person you are attached to will suffer the most. You don't have to look ahead and look back, and you don't have to be too persistent; Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, let go of fruitless persistence, everything is lost, and the last second has passed; Nothing can be left, so don't look back, just enjoy the happiness and happiness of the moment.
18. Some things may not be easy to let go. Some people, with deep memories, are not necessarily unhappy. Some pain, light is refreshing, not necessarily experienced. Rough road, give a warm and stormy life around you and give yourself a smile. Life is understanding and understanding, keeping happiness in your heart, melting quietly and spreading slowly!
19. There is tolerance on the top and forbearance on the bottom; Take the initiative and be patient when passive; The strong should tolerate and the weak should be patient; Urban capacity; Survival should be tolerated; Endure those who are near, and love those who are far away; Tolerance is the means and success is the goal; Tolerance is a process, and peace is the ultimate goal.
20. There are too many uncertainties about the road we are going to take. A word of advice from others, a flash of my own thoughts, and occasional gains and losses are all changing the direction of our destiny all the time. You never know, you don't need to be too persistent when things happen. Everyone came naked and left without care, so why bother about someone, a certain time and something? Only by being open-minded and understanding can we follow the fate, let nature take its course, and do whatever we want, without being anxious or unhappy, neither salty nor light.
2 1. When you are alone, don't think about two people's affairs and put aside memories; When I am alone, I just want to be happy and leave my sadness behind. When you are alone, find a person's romance, release your emotions and open your heart.
22. I am responsible for two kinds of people: those who gave birth to me and those who gave birth to me. I miss two kinds of people: lovers and friends who care about each other. I reject two kinds of people: immoral people and dishonest people. I cherish two kinds of people: those who lend me money and those who care about me! I stay away from two kinds of people: those who lend a helping hand in good times and those who dodge in bad times.
23. Happy people are happy everywhere, while unhappy people are unhappy everywhere. So we should cultivate our own happiness first. No matter what happens, no one else can touch you or me. This is the truly powerful gas field and self-confidence.
There is no perfect choice once and for all in this world. You can't have both flowers and fruits. You can't get all the benefits. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.