Many men regret after divorce, especially after divorce, they realize that the original match is good, and they will miss that their wife was so kind to them at the beginning, and then propose to remarry.

I have a reader like this. He divorced his wife three months ago, and now he regrets it and wants to remarry.

At first, his ex-wife returned his WeChat, but later, his request for remarriage was not made, so he simply ignored him. I didn't know until I knew what had happened that he always lost control of his emotions before marriage. He played tricks on his wife for three days in a row and sometimes hit her.

I can't help but sigh that divorce is easy and remarriage is difficult.

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How can a woman who was beaten by her husband before marriage agree to remarry and continue to endure such violence? Women who are willing to remarry are generally nostalgic or full of confidence in their future life.

If a woman's eyes still see the same person, it becomes worse. How do women choose to fall into the pit again? People don't fall down twice in the same place.

Learning from one's mistakes requires mutual efforts in two people's marriage. Even some principled mistakes, if you love, you may choose to forgive.

But like this couple, they often quarrel, and the woman is often in a weak position. The man never knows how to repent, which makes the woman on the verge of despair.

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Every time that man comes home drunk, he sticks a knife in his wife's heart.

Every time the woman thinks that men will change, but disappointment makes her cry again and again. Women don't choose to remarry because they can't see the change of men, let alone the hope of men's change.

If a man really wants to remarry, he should change himself actively. No matter what the cause of divorce is, the one who has not done well enough should reflect on it and get rid of all those bad factors. Maybe there is still room for recovery.

Remarriage is for happiness. Men can't make women happy unless they get rid of the shortcomings that women can't stand, let alone promise to go on for a lifetime.