Cousin: I started practicing calligraphy when I was studying in Sichuan. I practiced for half a year, writing brush, soft pen and pen.

Does my cousin's answer seem irrelevant, even a little puzzling? Actually, it's not. It's just that I didn't record my chat with my cousin in the WeChat circle of friends, so there will be such a puzzling answer.

Me: How about a writing brush?

Cousin: Mainly running script, artistic font and artistic signature.

Me: Now (how about a writing brush)

Cousin: Now the brush is not working. There are only soft pens and pens.

Cousin: The pen is my favorite.

Cousin: At your age, you should have gone out to experience it long ago.

Me: self-study, and there are special tutorials or people to teach.

Cousin: If this continues, I will be depressed.

Me: I seem to have been working outside.

Cousin: Self-study.

Me: Actually, I'm a little depressed.

Cousin: Who will call (teach) me? (Teaching) needs money, only self-study.

Me: What do you think, going out ... or something?

Cousin: Imitation and transcendence.

Cousin: Teach yourself to practice calligraphy.

Cousin: It takes time to practice handwriting.

Cousin: A drop of water can wear away a stone.

Me: Imitation is easy. If you surpass it, you have to wait until you form your own style.

Cousin: The most important thing to get out of society now is not to mess around.

Cousin: When you feel depressed and lonely in society, you will feel that it is useless to toss and turn for so long.

Me: Does fooling around mean not working hard or doing something illegal?

Cousin: I don't think a normal person will do anything illegal.

Cousin: It turns out to be the former.

Cousin: The more managers (experience), the more you know.

Cousin: I have a deep understanding.

Me: So what are your recent plans, mainly at work?

Me: Now I'm wondering whether to go with them … or go outside alone, that is … to do it.

Cousin: You can work as long as it suits you.

Cousin: Let me tell you something about what I 19 did after I left the society.

Me: OK.

Cousin: It will help you to learn more.

Me: I don't think I can adapt to it. ...

Cousin: 19 in technical secondary school. I worked as an intern in an electronics factory in Jiangsu for half a year, which was really difficult.

Cousin: 20-year-old intern, a man left his job and went home.

Me: What happened?

Me: My first factory was three years.

Cousin: I miss home very much. 20,000 yuan for the mobile phone, 6,000 yuan, called 1 10,000 to go home.

Me: I also tossed a lot of things during the period.

Cousin: It costs hundreds of dollars to go home for the New Year.

Cousin: I'm worried every time I go home.

Me: Hey! I used to be crazy about mobile phones, but now I have been using them for almost two years.

Cousin: I sold my property to my eldest brother for 8 months in 20 years.

Me: How do you feel?

Cousin: 19 The mobile phone has been used for three years, and it is still there.

Cousin: Eight months of sales have made me mature a lot.

Me: Do you mean you've become sophisticated, or?

Cousin: I have worked in real estate, run takeout, been to electronics factories and parts factories, and have been to seven or eight factories for promotion.

Cousin: Working on the construction site.

Cousin: It's been tossing for almost two years anyway.

Cousin: Now my heart is completely calm.

Me: Anything else?

Cousin: I won't think about it anymore.

Me: I guess it's because I have a bad memory.

Cousin: Time flies like an arrow.

Cousin: It's time to get married.

Me: I absolutely said I would never go into the factory or work on the construction site again, but now I have to choose between the two.

Cousin: Anyway, as long as it doesn't add burden to the family.

Cousin: I really won't work in a factory now.

Me: That means you have to do what you are doing now.

Cousin: The factory is full of people who have no choice but to live.

Cousin: The construction site is the choice of most adult families.

Cousin: Yes.

Cousin: I choose a place where I can make money with only a little free salary.

Me: Nothing ... likes me. I seem to have no better choice!

Cousin: The society is very realistic.

Me: It's natural, but you still have to dream, just like you practice pen writing. Yes!

Cousin: I feel more or less sad when I go home every year to see my parents getting older.

Cousin: I'm so sad.

Me: To be honest, this feeling has existed since my junior high school, but it is getting weaker and weaker now!

Me: Maybe it's because I've been with my parents for a year, or maybe I've become more selfish.

Cousin: Life is half frivolous and half sentimental. It's a pity that I was once a high-spirited teenager myself. I recall the past from time to time, leaving only two lines of tears. Who is not frivolous when he is young, and can only carry it by himself after being frivolous? Wandering during this period, only two lines of tears were left in the end.

Cousin: Actually, it's good to spend more time with your parents.

Me: No, I feel that parents only need one child to accompany them.

Cousin: In a blink of an eye, I am old enough to get married, and my parents are in their fifties and sixties.

Me: the child who can please his parents best.

Cousin: You have to get married first.

Me: I just panicked this year, and I panicked at once.

Cousin: My parents are old. How many years will you stay with them?

Me: Yes, only by getting married first can I calm down.

Cousin: Forget about Dink.

Cousin: If you miss your parents, Dink's thoughts are temporary.

Cousin: Loneliness can make a person depressed.

Me: God, did my mother tell you anything about me?

Cousin: No.

Cousin: What I said was all my own thoughts.

Cousin: Really.

Me: Sometimes, my parents urge me, and I say I'm not going to get married.

Me: Of course! This is just my own joke.

Cousin: When you really panic, you will gradually realize that everything you think is no longer so self-righteous.

Me: Right.

Cousin: Don't toss about when you are in your prime.

Me: I used to think that I had to wait until I became better to be worthy of something.

Me: I like love or something.

Cousin: In a blink of an eye, it's almost 3 years old.

Cousin: Although some things backfire.

Me: But now it seems that I think others are too perfect, so I always think I need to be more perfect to deserve it.

Cousin: But the happiest thing is my own experience.

Me: Does it have anything to do with Xiao?

Me: I feel that you still need to talk to Xiaoyouduo.

Cousin: I'm finished with him.

Cousin: How can I change his own affairs?

Cousin: I have to take care of myself.

Me: I feel small and happier than myself.

Cousin: What do you think of me?

Me: As you said, you have grown a lot.

Cousin: Remember a little when you are out of society.

Cousin: No one will take care of you except your parents.

Me: Wrong, there is another one.

Cousin:

Me: after marriage, my daughter-in-law should do the same to herself!

Cousin: No.

Cousin: That was after marriage.

Cousin: Relationships don't last forever.

Me: Yes, I said after marriage.

Cousin: When it comes to feelings, there are nine worries.

Cousin: Parents come first before marriage.

Me: That's true.

Cousin: After marriage, the three of them look at reality.

Me: Three?

Me: What else could it be?

Cousins: parents, partners.

Me: Ah!

Cousin: Yes.

Me: Oh, I see. In fact, there should be only two parents and partners, not three.

Cousin: After marriage, your daughter-in-law is a little bad for your parents, and parents are not good for themselves and their daughter-in-law.

Cousin: father, mother and daughter-in-law.

Me: My opinion is that both parents are the same.

Cousin: Specifically, both of them are right.

Me: Have you made any career plans or life plans?

Cousin: Actually, it's not necessary.

Cousin: Simply living a happy life is enough.

Cousin: Do what you have to do and accept that it backfires. We need to work hard, but maybe if we work hard, we will draw water with nothing in the end.

Cousin: But that doesn't mean we shouldn't work hard, because if you don't work hard, it must be drawing water with a sieve.

Me: Right.

Cousin: Now the society is very realistic.

Me: Have you made a plan to make money?

Me: You can also elaborate on this.

Cousin: Now society is all about money.

Cousin: I am rich and happy, and I can do many things I want to do. When I was a child, I wanted to do something I couldn't do. You can have money, but you can't move without money.

Cousin: It's like seeing everything in your eyes, knowing it in your heart, but you just can't control it. This is life.

Me: Mm-hmm. We may not wait for the day when real socialism comes!

Cousin: Living is meaningless, but living should be given meaning. This meaning is the meaning of living, and the meaning of living is to find a way to live.

Cousin: Accept what you can't change, change what you can, come on.

Me: Do you want to sleep?

Cousin: This sentence is great. Things change, people need to rest, and tears flow first.

Me: But I soon forgot this sentence.

Cousin: Do as much as you can.

Cousin: I can live happily every day, do what I like, and don't give myself pressure in life.

Cousin: Things have changed.

Cousin: Go to sleep. Actually, I know everything.

Me: No pressure, no motivation!

Me: The article will be finished soon, and I will rest after the code is finished.

Cousin: Mm-hmm.

Cousin: Go to bed early!

Me: OK.

Cousin: What is written is different from what is not written.

Cousin: The endless world is cold, and the endless years are vicissitudes.

Cousin: Although I can't write, I think I might write better than you if I could [chuckle].

Me: Otherwise you wrote it to me.

Me: I'm Bai Piao.

Cousin: Forget it, stand on your own two feet.

Cousin: What I said is classic [covering my face].

Counting down, I chatted with my cousin for almost an hour on this day, and I was writing an article while chatting. The only sentence that my cousin repeated in the chat was "this society is very realistic", which means that my cousin thinks this society is cruel. Of course! Apart from the reality, the society is still very warm, otherwise people with no background like me will be reduced to the streets.