Second, true happiness does not depend on any external people or things, nor does it come from fickle emotions and feelings, but a clear, happy and calm state of mind. The biggest obstacle to happiness is asking too much for happiness.
Third, don't care too much about people around you, and don't deliberately care about other people's affairs. In this world, there will always be people who make you sad, jealous and gnash your teeth. Not how bad they are, but because you care. So if you want peace of mind, don't care. If you don't care about something, it won't hurt you; If you don't care about others, they won't make you angry. If you care, you have already lost. People who don't care about anything are invincible.
I want to be an umbrella. Rain or shine, I will be with you. I will accompany you to be happy, to cry and to see the scenery of the world.
We must believe something. However, if we don't take action on this belief, everything will still be useless. Faith without action is useless. People don't fall down because they don't have confidence, but because they can't turn their beliefs into actions and persist regardless. Of course, faith alone is not enough to make us mature. The advantage of faith is that it can strengthen our courage, so that when we are tested, we will not get cold feet. Unless we are based on faith and then put it into action, any truth principle is useless. Only actions count. Dale? Carnegie's complete works of human weakness
Nobleness is not pure beauty, but detachment after understanding everything, treating good and evil equally and looking at the world with sympathetic eyes.
Only when I really began to love myself did I realize how impolite it is to impose my wishes on others. Even though I know the time is not ripe, that person is not ready. Even if that person is myself, today I understand that this is called "respect".
Eight, some people, when talking about it, fade away and are led away, all because at the beginning, we were too affectionate and thought that everything would be beautiful in nature and come true in reverie. Looking back from afar, I am not your flower picker, just passing by your flowering period and infatuating with your blooming; You are not my dream seeker, you just fell into my dream country and forgot my awakening. If you don't give up the flowers, you won't regret it when you wake up.
Nine, everyone will have extremely difficult times, the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the fear of falling in love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
10. The love that truly belongs to you will not make you suffer, and the person who loves you will not make you suffer. Some people won the first prize with one vote, and some people were famous for writing books. Anyone who feels hard is demanding. True love makes people happy. If you feel pain, you must have made a mistake and need to end it in time and start over. -Yi Shu "I love, I don't love".
There is such a person who will make you laugh for no reason.
12. May you have enough patience to take responsibility and a pure heart to believe. Anyway, please believe that life is reasonable.
Thirteen, growth is: gradually gentle, restrained, simple, do not complain, do not ask, do not remember, and gradually realize the greatness of life in silence.
Fourteen, who can mature neither too late nor too early, and gradually learn to endure the cold misfortune of life, who is happy. -Pushkin
If someone leaves you, you should be grateful that he is still here after all. If something depresses you, you should thank it for letting you try. If a wish never comes true, you should be grateful that it excites you after all. Thank you we don't have anything like that. It is this nothingness that makes any little gain so gratifying, and one day you will realize the preciousness of this nothingness.
Sixteen, life can not be lived by mood, but by mentality.
Seventeen, people who can't realize their dreams have one thing in common, that is, what they want, but they are unwilling to pay for it.
Eighteen, don't just hold hands because you are lonely, and then rely on it. If only people were free. Even if they go with the flow, the experience is better than prison life. So I deliberately don't let myself rely too much on the internet, and I also keep an indifferent attitude towards those who have lost. Thousands of people pass by, and whoever you give the opportunity will have a fate with you. Even without a, there will be B. -Haruki Murakami's Norwegian Forest
Nineteen, don't be too kind, don't be too nuanced, don't love too obviously, because of this, the mother makes the child fearless. -Zhang Dingding, "Life Needs Exposure"
It's never too late to be what you want to be.
Twenty-one, you are not strong, who will show you cowardice!
Twenty-two, what makes you stop is for today and tomorrow, even for a long time to come, so that what really belongs to you finally belongs to you. Sometimes, the destination you think is actually just a transition; The transition you think is actually home. -Reading time in Zhang Zongzi.
Life is a grand event. If you know, please cherish it.
The foundation of love is not hunger. If all couples who don't have enough to eat and don't wear warm clothes can't make adjustments in time, so that both sides can feel that the days are changing a little, then there is no possibility of growing old together. Love, first of all, must solve material problems before it can talk about spirit.