Starting from daily life and personal online experience, the choice of QQ nicknames often has a strong personal color. It may be related to personal psychological changes, social communication, or convenience, but it all shows that "there are a thousand kinds of psychology behind a thousand nicknames." Freud, the father of psychology, thinks that "dreams are the disguised satisfaction of the repressed subconscious", and students' QQ nicknames can also be analyzed by this psychological projection method. This principle of psychological projection can be said that students are basically unconsciously using nicknames when they choose them.
2. Research summary of similar topics.
Although QQ is very popular in society, there are few articles about QQ nicknames and psychological phenomena at present. The research team used "QQ nickname" as a key word in Wan Fang data collection network, the largest paid periodical in China. Among the 697 articles found, none is related to psychological research, only articles about how to use QQ as a communication tool for psychological consultation. QQ nickname is a kind of net name. If we search with "Internet name psychology" as the key word, we can only find three articles related to it, namely "Internet name perspective social and cultural psychology", "Personal Internet name sampling analysis" and "Internet name: a window to gain insight into college students' moral self-knowledge". Many other articles are about Internet addiction psychology and network health psychology. And the articles about the research of network psychology are mainly college students.
3. The significance of this research
Nowadays, middle school students have strong personality, family factors, study pressure, physiological and psychological changes in adolescence, rebellious psychology and so on. It will cause students' emotional changes and bring certain challenges to school moral education and the daily student work of class teachers. Understanding students' hearts and their psychological needs, especially some "problem students" who are addicted to the internet, will bring great help to school moral educators and psychological counselors. Through this study, the research group hopes to understand the common psychological phenomenon and individual psychological changes behind middle school students' QQ nicknames, so as to understand the psychological phenomenon of middle school students outside the network, so as to better carry out student work and psychological counseling activities and promote the healthy development of students' body and mind.
Second, the theoretical and practical basis of the research.
1. Theoretical basis
Psychological research has found that people often unconsciously attribute their psychological characteristics (such as personality, likes and dislikes, desires, thoughts, emotions, etc.) to others. ) Give it to others in daily life and think that others have the same characteristics. Psychologists call this psychological phenomenon "projection effect". Jewish psychologist Victor? Frank explicitly put forward this term for the first time in 1939. Because of the projection effect, middle school students are in the period of physiological maturity, social learning and personality formation, and the external manifestations of psychological changes are emotional. They will unconsciously reflect their thoughts, attitudes, wishes, emotions, personality and other personality characteristics on external things or others, such as QQ nicknames. Through the analysis of students' QQ nicknames, we can "project" students' psychological state at that time.
2. Realistic basis
Using QQ has become a fashion for middle school students. In the implementation of the new curriculum, the use of QQ has also been included in the middle school information technology textbooks. Xu teacher, the host of the research group, is a middle school information technology teacher. Engaged in information technology education in middle schools 10 years. In the process of teaching, she collected the QQ information of nearly 1000 students, and there were more than 200 students who exchanged frequently. These are important research samples. At the same time, it has professional advantages, and can use the mastered network technology to publish and collect relevant survey forms and posts.
Another member of the research group, Teacher B, graduated from Normal University majoring in psychology. He offers psychological counseling courses at school and presides over students' psychological counseling all the year round. When communicating with students, he won't put too much psychological burden on them. Students are more willing to communicate with us and have the knowledge of psychological theory, so they can do psychological analysis on nicknames.
The school has complete network hardware facilities, and there are nearly 300 students' computers with Internet access in the student computer room and electronic reading room, which provides hardware support for the project.
QQ nickname is a kind of net name, which can also appear in chat rooms, bulletin boards, blogs, e-mails and other online communication that can be signed. Compared with other communication methods, QQ mainly communicates with people who are fixed or know. Compared with registered screen names, QQ nicknames have more personality characteristics, and it is easier, more independent and more frequent to change nicknames. Its naming or renaming can better explain that its owner may have psychological changes due to external or internal factors.
Through classroom and volunteer students, the research group sorted out 2 10 student samples, including 64 senior three students, 83 senior two students, 8 senior one students 18 students and 45 students who graduated in recent years. These students usually love to communicate with QQ, and some of them are internet addicts who often surf the Internet. There are more than 20 QQ phones hanging all the year round. Students who are a headache to teachers and parents, especially those in Grade Two, have more than 10 headshots indicating that their mobile phones are always on, whether in class or after class. The research group conducted a questionnaire survey on these students' samples through QQ, and combined with psychological theory, analyzed QQ nicknames, trying to analyze the general psychological phenomenon and individual psychological changes behind them through the naming and renaming of students' QQ nicknames, and understand the network culture and its psychological fluctuations that middle school students admire now, so as to provide some help for students' work and psychological counseling activities.
Through the analysis of the samples, the following conclusions are drawn:
1. Students' rebelliousness and personality are becoming more and more obvious. More than half of the students in this school use "Martians" in whole or in part in QQ nicknames.
The so-called "Martian text" can be literally interpreted as "Martian text", which originated in Taiwan Province Province and was written by netizens (especially young netizens) with homophones, homophones and special symbols. Because this kind of writing is obviously different from the writing used in daily life and quite strange, it is called Martian writing. For example, "僾ссш o", "しovの", "Little Pig/Thai" and so on.
According to the survey, the popularity of "Martians" has the following reasons: first, it is only used as a decoration, just like young people like to dress themselves up; Second, full of vitality and imagination, pursuing individuality and highlighting innovation; Third, rebel and advocate the so-called "non-mainstream" culture; The fourth is to pretend to be cute or deep; Fifth, emotions are full of instability and fluctuations are relatively large; Sixth, blindly following the trend, fresh and fun, has no practical significance.
According to the principle of "psychological projection", if nicknames give people a feeling of vigor and vitality, they are usually in a good mood when they are named, or this person is optimistic about life. On the contrary, some nicknames will make people feel heavy and depressed after reading them, and people in reality may be more pessimistic, even world-weary or rebellious. But there are many exceptions. According to the analysis, there are the following principles:
(1) dual personality. Reality is completely different from online names. For example, his grades are top-notch, but he plays the role of "A Dai" and pretends to be "mentally retarded" on the Internet. Usually, he is very inconspicuous among his classmates and plays the role of "Wei Zhu".
② Vague gender characteristics, advocating neutral beauty. Generally speaking, men's names should show masculine beauty and ideal ambition, and words such as "big", "virtuous", "high" and "bright" should be used in names, while women's names should show feminine beauty, and their contents are mostly related to flowers and birds, treasures, tenderness and beautiful scenery, such as Na, Jiao, Xia, Wen, Feng, Lan and Li. So we often don't see him, and we can know his gender by his name. But in the QQ world, but the name is in the network, the gender characteristics are not so obvious. Such as orange pepper, the wind blows the green bristlegrass, the country of purple clothes and naive thinking.
(3) Fantasy sentimental type: girls are more common, fantasies are consistent with dreams, and names are poetic or sentimental to attract people's love and pity. Such as crystal tears, wandering for you, Ethel, simple me, waiting alone, white wedding dress and so on.
4 ID card type. First, the personality and ideals are consistent with the name, and second, the real name is looming. For example, students such as "I am Xixi", "Jingjing" and "Lime Mao" know their names at a glance, and even their real names are dedicated.
⑤ Emotional catharsis. Internet chat itself is to express feelings, vent depression and find happiness. Choose a name that suits your mood at this moment anytime and anywhere, whether it's happy, sad, plain or happy. Even a sigh of emotion, a lyric can fully express your feelings and make you feel comfortable. Such as talking and laughing all the way, I want to be happy, scold my parents, ignorant love, I am free, and the wind of freedom.
6. Groaning or grandstanding. Words are endless, such as "no tears to remember", "I miss you sad", "I can't help bullying me", "My heart is broken and my dreams are traceless" and "I miss you every day".
⑦ Pursuing fashion. What is popular is fashion, which will become a trend and become the goal of young people. Singers, movie stars, stars, new songs, old songs and love songs have all become the objects of nickname naming.
Pet-name ruby worships foreign things and flatters foreign countries. In the QQ nickname sample of 2 10, there are 32 English names, such as Tiantian, PIGFENG, Island and COCOICE.
Unprincipled attendance, extremely personalized. Choose carefully and have a brainwave, such as underground black, Jin microsecond and AK.
3. Form relevant cases to facilitate similar situations in the future. (Because the QQ nicknames of the students involved are "well-known" among the students and are true stories, only keywords are mentioned in the nicknames that appear in this case, not the full names. )
Case 1: A girl in the third grade of junior high school affiliated to the school graduated from the third grade. Even she doesn't know how she got into a key high school. In short, she is hardly online. Because people are slender and beautiful, junior high school and senior high school are all members of the school aerobics team, and there are often boys around them. When I first came into contact with QQ, there were two words in its nickname: "disconsolate" and dancing. It is understood that after entering high school, the results are not very satisfactory, and many boys around are interfering, so it is not surprising that they are "disconsolate". One day at the end of the second semester of senior one, I joined QQ and found that its nickname had changed. In addition to dancing, it also includes "crying" and even "blood color". After asking, the answer was "very sad name … very suitable for my mood … lesson: no dating". These are her original words in QQ chat. A few days later, she asked me about the photo processing technology of PhotoShop software and sent me two photos, one of which was her own. The whole canvas is full of thick horizontal lines, which read "Did you or I bury my hope", and the word "buried" is heavily pressed on the whole picture space; The other is a photo of a boy (just graduated). The picture is dark and low-key. In addition to the heavy and heavy word "buried", there is also a line written in traditional Chinese characters "where to start and where to end" At this time, her nicknames are still "bloody" and "crying". After the second year of high school, her nickname changed again. In addition to constant dancing, there is also "nirvana", but it is still "bloody". Nirvana is a transliteration of Sanskrit nirvana, which means "extinction", that is, "rebirth". This nickname has not changed so far, and now she has just entered the new school year of senior three.
This is an extroverted girl, an activist in school cultural and sports activities, and the psychological changes brought to her by the outside world are directly reflected in her QQ nickname. Because of her trust in the author, many things are willing to communicate with me, and the research group has been paying attention to her psychological fluctuations and giving psychological guidance and support in time. By the way, on the newly updated QQ signature, she wrote "Continue to struggle".
Case 2: A senior three boy was admitted to a key middle school from a rural junior high school, and two other boys in his village were admitted at the same time. When I was in junior high school, I was all good friends and the authors knew each other. His QQ nickname is "Stone Man", which may be related to the number of stones in his name or his personality, because "Stone Man" is introverted, not good at expressing himself, afraid to look up into other people's eyes when communicating with others, and highly unconfident. The boy doesn't surf the Internet often. He and his classmates have secretly been to Internet cafes several times, so they don't communicate much, and they can talk about things in their study and life at most. In the first semester of senior two, I found that "stone man" was changed to "super boy", and the contrast was really too great. What happened later made us understand why. The situation of the "Stone Man" family is very bad. His parents work outside all the year round. I have lived with my relatives and neighbors since I was a child, and I rarely communicate. After he was admitted to a key high school, he witnessed the disparity between the rich and the poor and lost his sense of superiority in junior high school. The teacher criticized more and praised less, became silent and began to be a little "autistic". His grades plummeted. In a music class, the music teacher praised his timbre, which became all the reasons for his change in the future. So he began to give up his efforts in culture class, and proposed to his parents to prepare for the music school and learn to play the piano and sing with the teacher, otherwise he would rather go out to work, and no matter how parents and teachers do their work, they can't change his decision. When I saw the nickname "super boy", I tried to ask if I had the idea of "becoming famous in one fell swoop", but I got a positive answer. In the subsequent communication, I finally learned that although "Stone Man" is usually quiet, his heart is not calm, and the contrast of family conditions and the decline of academic performance (he is the last in the class) are his "heart disease", but the wave of success and fame brought by super girls and happy boys and the praise of music teachers made him want to "escape" from the status quo, and no one communicated at ordinary times, so he was "happy" on QQ. Thanks to the efforts of parents and teachers, "super boy" never went online again, studied with peace of mind, and didn't mention dropping out of school to earn money to teach himself music. He just changed his liberal arts. Parents promised to learn music from the teacher occasionally, and the teacher's reaction was that he is doing well now.
Other circumstances:
A self-proclaimed computer game madman, nicknamed "Fei Kuang" as a freshman on QQ, caught the key points that should be paid attention to at a glance. After many times of "attention", the nicknames have been changed to "a dry heart" and "a stagnant heart". Later, they came back to life and came to Seven Nights of the Devil. Parents and teachers have a headache, and now they are in the third year of high school. Nicknamed "Roger Julius", he is a computer magic figure, and this boy has always been the object of everyone's "concern".
A happy, energetic and sunny boy with small eyes in senior three went from "looking for swan meat" to "hating himself for not being cool enough".
A female Communist Youth League secretary who has never satirized "the lamp ash of the pro-Japanese faction" and "A-bian" with a strong patriotism.
The representative of chemistry class nicknamed "CuSO4" and "sugar in syrup".
A girl who just graduated this year, full of literary talent, blew it with a bottle at the graduation party.
...... Now the campus environment of middle school is tolerant, and the QQ nicknames of middle school students, which represent the trend of the times, are also diversified, which is where students' personality can be highlighted. Many schools have taken QQ as an important supplementary form of face-to-face psychological consultation. School psychological counselors and moral educators use psychological theory to strengthen the analysis of students' QQ nicknames, which is helpful to understand the dynamic changes of students' psychology. But in the investigation, there are also many experiences and reflections:
1. Volunteer students provide QQ numbers to the research group, but many students don't want to add teachers as friends, and they don't want to be friends with each other, because once they become friends with each other, the teachers will know as soon as they go online. These students are relatively independent students and don't want their behavior to be monitored intentionally or unintentionally.
2. The naming of students' QQ nicknames is becoming more and more personalized and random, which brings great difficulties to psychological classification analysis.
3. Although traditional culture is still the mainstream of current network culture, in the process of analyzing QQ nicknames, it is found that only 59 of 2 10 nicknames only use simplified Chinese. In QQ nicknames, this traditional culture is being eroded by what students call "non-mainstream" cultural factors, which has a certain negative orientation for students' personality publicity.
4. Unhealthy QQ nicknames and "nonsense" culture are constantly impacting the bottom line of network ethics, reflecting some discordant voices, that is, the confusion of network language and the proliferation of unhealthy culture.
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