1. The magic weapon to make your husband obedient - "Pretty words" When Clinton was elected President of the United States, he said to Hillary: My dear, because of me, you become the wife of the President of the United States. Hillary was not polite: Honey, because of me, you became the President of the United States. It is not difficult to imagine that Lao Ke must have felt unhappy in his heart at that time. Hillary made a typical mistake of "being smart but confused for a while" - her husband is hers, and the final result of attacking him still hurts her heart. Perhaps Hillary Clinton contributed a lot to Lao Ke's successful election as president, but what is the point of winning or losing between husband and wife? Even if Crook loses, it's not Hillary who wins, it's Lewinsky who wins. A smart wife should not only train her husband to behave well at home, but also make him "obedient" to some extent. The focus of this conflict is, is he willing to do it without knowing it, or is he conflicted in his heart? And all this depends on the wife's language skills. There may be soldiers who don't want to be generals, but there are no men who don't want to be heroes. What you do well is not as good as what you say. Your husband's vanity and face are as important as his life. If your wife shows weakness appropriately and uses compliments anytime and anywhere as ingredients for flirting and communication between husband and wife, she will gain not only her husband's meekness. , and your good mood. Although wives always put on a "Husband, you are so great" attitude, which is very nymphomaniacal, and this kind of attitude is simply nonsensical when used on an old couple and overshadows Stephen Chow. But your husband is your investment stock for the rest of your life. If you don't appreciate his good qualities and praise him, if he is praised by another woman, then you will lose more than you gain. Opportunities to praise your husband can be found at any time as long as you are willing to find them. You might as well regard praising your husband as a part of life. If you want your husband to be obedient, you must first learn to speak. Maybe 10 minutes is better than ten years of work. When your husband makes a mistake, his mistake may also be a good opportunity to increase your exchange of feelings, as long as you can treat it with tolerance and respond with love. When you make a mistake, you might as well make a fuss about your words and let the shadow in his heart disappear because of your wise and humorous words. The husband's face is satisfied, his confidence is encouraged, and his energy is improved. The wife's wisdom has been demonstrated, and the wife's status in the husband's mind has been strengthened and consolidated. 1． Criticize your husband with sweet words [Scene 1] Wang Xiaoyi is about to go home, and her husband Li Sheng is sweating in the kitchen, hurriedly handling the scene. I originally wanted to take advantage of my good mood to express my condolences to my wife who worked hard and was successful in running the house. Unexpectedly, after steaming the rice, she only read the newspaper and burned the rice. Let your wife go home and watch the jokes instead of telling them. If you are ridiculed by your wife, you are just looking for trouble to make yourself unhappy. I wonder what his wife will think of him? Wang Xiaoyi entered the house on time, smelled a burnt smell, and saw her husband standing aside in a panic like a child who had done something wrong. She immediately understood what happened. She stepped forward and gently helped her husband put down the kitchen utensils in his hands, and said with an uncontrollable smile: "It doesn't matter if the rice is burnt, we just went out for a romantic couple's meal. Is it okay for my husband to treat you?" Li Sheng quickly called Standing at attention: "Yes, as ordered!" The couple dressed up nicely and went out to enjoy a romantic dinner like a couple. The first thing the person who made a mistake needs is forgiveness rather than blame. If Wang Xiaoyi is not considerate of her husband, but instead sarcastically mocks her husband, saying something like, "You are so useless, you can't even do something as simple as cooking." In this case, a small incident may immediately escalate into a major war. In the face of her husband's unintentional mistakes, the wife must not be "unforgiving and beat up the lost dog", otherwise it will only make her husband angry. If he does not realize that he is wrong, it will definitely be the best if the wife can control her emotions and say in a consultative tone, "It might be better if it is not this but that, what do you think?" 2． Suggest your husband with sweet words [Scenario 2] Mr. and Mrs. Wang went to the mall to buy a sofa together. Lao Wang fell in love with a set of white leather sofas, which were beautiful and expensive. The salesperson's eloquent words made Lao Wang very excited, and he wanted to buy it immediately.

According to different personalities, they are divided into two basic types: sighing and roaring. An employee who is always criticized by his boss will resign because he feels that his future is hopeless; a husband who is always criticized by his wife will be disappointed and sad because he feels that his love is frustrated. No one wants to be blamed all day long, especially those closest to them. Conclusion: The boss is definitely the person who cares most about the survival of the company. If you want your husband to always take the initiative to build a marriage, you must let him maintain the feeling of "I am the master of the ups and downs" in the family. Classic family sitcom replay clip 1 - "Mommy" wife and "baby" husband. Classic dialogue: Husband: Honey, are you back from get off work? After hard work, the meal will be ready soon. Wife: Hey, don’t worry about it. Just go and have a rest. Husband: It doesn’t matter, I’m almost done. Wife: Really, don’t worry about it. You go and rest. I’ll do it. You can’t even do it. Look at what a mess this kitchen is like. Husband: ... Wife: Go ahead, don’t worry about these things anymore. Husband: ... Plot analysis: The "baby" husband was completely fixed in the position of the child by the "mommy" wife. He received meticulous care and lost the opportunity to "grow" because "mommy" felt that it was her duty to take care of him. It is the responsibility of the child, and the "child" will always make things worse and worse, rather than helping, it seems to add chaos. The so-called value of participation in the Olympic spirit is actually a family philosophy. If your husband is not allowed to interfere in anything, it will ostensibly make him feel at ease. In the short term, he will also feel happy, but as time goes by, he will As I got used to it, I gradually realized that there was nothing wrong with him in this family. He found that there was a dedicated nanny beside him, and he felt like he was back in his childhood when his mother had nothing to wear but food to eat. Conclusion: When he is vulnerable, he does need his wife to play the role of mother, but in daily life, he does not need two mothers. Good advice: listen to your wife’s advice and make your own decisions. Being obedient is a matter of love and hate. Although what you give is love, it is easy for couples to fall into an "abnormal relationship." For example, because he is obedient, his husband becomes more like a "son" or an "employee" or even a "slave." Changing this state is actually very simple, that is, let him listen to his wife's advice and make his own decisions. Although it seems to be just a formality, he is like a supervisor who only signs signatures, but the problem is that his wife will make people feel comfortable like a lovely secretary. The reason why the secretary is called honey is not completely unreasonable. Let your husband be a centralized king and let his male instinct be brought into full play. The husband can personally handle everything without detailing it, because the wife can listen to the affairs behind the curtain and give appropriate opinions. Give him more opportunities to "make contributions" to the family, and he will love the family as much as he loves the country. 2. The second magic weapon to make your husband obedient - respect him, trust him and support him. Most of the time, my husband is like a child who never grows up and has no sense of security. No matter how mature or strong he looks, his Achilles' heel will always be It's because of his lack of accomplishment. In fact, the husband doesn't want much. What he wants is his wife's unreserved love and care. What he wants is support and encouragement without criticism or comparison. Therefore, a smart wife will know that the magic weapon to control her husband is to respect him, trust him and support him. 1． Don't compete with your husband for power and profit. Don't compete with your husband for power and profit in the family. Give him the authority to manage family affairs. You will have less of a burden, and your husband will have more self-esteem, more masculinity and a sense of responsibility. He will be able to stand in front of others and behind others. He will show the upright heart and bearing of a man at home and abroad; making him feel that he is a man all the time, proud and glorious. Don't let your husband be short of breath and be a "doormat" or a "wimp". You should give your husband more self-esteem and let your husband straighten his back and be a great man. [Life Example] Sister Zhu: I let my husband make the decision when buying big things at home. The reason is that I don’t understand those electrical appliances and those high-tech things. I just made my suggestions, such as what functions and price I wanted to buy, and left it to him. Even though we went to major electrical appliance supermarkets with him to get the information and studied it carefully, we still let him choose in the end.

Men's youth shines from women. Without women giving men the warmth of the sun, men will never be able to bathe in the sunshine of spring, and it will be difficult for them to be proud of the spring breeze. 7. Be more filial to your husband. Your wife is a "virtuous wife". This "help" is not only to help him in his career, but more importantly, to solve his worries. Do more filial piety for him in front of his parents-in-law; do more responsibility for him in front of his children. Let him put aside all selfish thoughts and focus on his career wholeheartedly. This is the true help of a wife to her husband. You can help him steer the boat through thick and thin; you can share with him in the hardships. Solving problems for your husband is to help him release his psychological burden when he is troubled; to help him make clear judgments when he is successful; to help him find his own position, and to use your tender arms to give him strength at critical moments. . The success of the career is the real success of the husband. A husband's success comes from his wife's constant support and selfless dedication. "Behind a successful husband, there must be a great wife." This is the highest compliment for a wife. 8. Give him wings and let him fly. A world where husbands have husbands. He has his own hobbies, interests, etc. You must not let your husband change his true nature for you, let alone erase his personality. Give him a free space and a sky where he can spread his wings and fly. You must know that no matter how wonderful the outside world is, it is just a small inn. A man who is exhausted physically and mentally, his eternal destination is in a warm home. Protecting your home is to light a gentle lamp for your husband and always open a door for him. Use the light of the lamp to guide him so that he will not lose his way, open the door that does not close, and fill his harbor with warmth. Since it is said that your husband is the sky above your wife, then give him a pair of wings and let him fly. No matter how high or far the kite flies, you don't have to worry because the string is tightly held in your hands. 9. Let him mature in the sound of praise. Although it is said that "good medicine is bitter to the mouth, but loyal advice is unpleasant to the ears." But since vanity and self-esteem are human nature, most people like to hear compliments. It is easier to make people accept it by using complimentary and implicit evaluation than by outright criticism. Therefore, as a wife, you should use a magnifying glass to face up to your husband's strengths; use a magnifying glass to spy on your husband's shortcomings; and use a microscope to see through your husband's love. Often compare your husband with other people's husbands, and then discover your husband's advantages, and praise him, praise him, and be proud of him. In addition to being convinced that he is indeed better than other men, you also want to make him believe that he is better than his wife. With a lofty status in his eyes, he will naturally be as obedient as an old cow. "A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months." Every time your husband succeeds, you should applaud him with words of appreciation. Even if he only corrects a small problem, you might as well exaggerate his progress and let him mature amidst the praise. 10. Your smile is his panacea. "When we meet, we can forget all the grudges with a smile." Your smiling face can bring warmth to your husband and make his heart as bright as the sun. He will see the sincerity of your love in your smile, and he will see the mother-like kindness in your smile. Your smile can melt the ice of indifference, your smile can eliminate all resentment, your smile can make him feel comfortable, and your smile can make him always confident. "Looking back, smiling and being charming." A smile is a blooming flower, a smile is a plump fruit, a smile is the breeze in summer, and a smile is the sunshine in winter. Face everything with your smiling face. True love is a kind of giving without saying anything in return. While a wife is living for her husband, she is also living for herself. Because while you are giving everything to your husband, you have realized your own value