Just say that a divorced woman's failed marriage will leave a deep imprint on her heart. Close your heart, even if you meet someone who is moved in the future, all kinds of worries and shadows will make her less and less courageous.
In order to avoid repeating the same mistakes, it is true to be cautious, but being too careful is suspicious and dangerous. Make you more confused and miss those people around you who are really worth cherishing and guarding.
Many divorced women say that they will never remarry in their lives and plan to die alone.
To tell the truth, there are very few things that can be done in the end. It's not that women can't live without men, but that people always have a home and a companion.
That's your home and your retreat. You can hide from the bustling city, but you can't hide from the lonely bed.
Besides, the feelings are beautiful. If you like someone, you will find that all the rules you have set before are decorations. Similarly, people who swear never to touch their feelings will one day break their promises to themselves because of one person.
In that case, you might as well boldly love again.
What kind of man should a divorced woman in her thirties find when she remarries? Here are some suggestions for you!
First, find what you like.
Divorced women must first adjust their mentality. Don't deny the beauty of this world because of one failure. No matter how many marriages, only marriages based on feelings are happy.
If you want to remarry, you must find what you like, and don't make do with it casually, so divorce will lose its meaning and remarriage will be meaningless.
Life is long, and living with someone you don't like is undoubtedly longer. People can't settle for a lifetime, and they can't endure it for a lifetime.
If you want to remarry, please remember to find a man you like and explore the meaning of life with him. Only in this way can we live up to our experiences in this world.
Second, don't look for rich people.
Experienced a marriage, I believe you know better than anyone what is reality and what is life.
Yes, marriage needs protection, but this protection should be based on the love of two people and created together. Never expect to eat ready-made food.
If someone else has money, it belongs to someone else. Don't make yourself too passive. What you earn is the most practical and confident.
Divorced women, don't just want to find rich men, superior material life, giving people satisfaction are temporary. You will become more confused and afraid in the days to come.
Third, a down-to-earth man is the most reliable.
Being a down-to-earth person and doing things down-to-earth is the most reliable man.
Many women live a quiet life and have no immunity to men who can make her laugh. What's more, it leads to some illusion. Often good things are short-lived and unreal.
What really lasts is simple and ordinary things. The most important thing in life is stability, stability and comfort.
A down-to-earth man is not an honest man who is not good at words, but refers to his attitude towards life and treats others sincerely. Not the kind of impetuous and frivolous man who can only draw cakes to satisfy his hunger.
Fourth, good humanity and character are fundamental.
A person's attitude towards some trivial things hides his character. The future will be your common life.
As for a man's character, it is the most important thing. When you meet a man who is eccentric and gloomy, or irritable and can't control his emotions, you should stay away from him no matter how good the conditions are.
When two people live together, they pay attention to comfort.
Living with a moving volcano will make you exhausted. How tired and collapsed it is to live carefully and difficultly every day!
Fifth, the most important thing for a family is responsibility and independence.
A role, a responsibility. As the pillar of a family, the most important thing is to take care of the family and have a sense of responsibility.
Only in this way can we become your real dependence and shelter you from the wind and rain in the future. I don't worry about life every day, but I feel terrible.
Men decide the direction of the family, and they can have their own ideas, considerations and opinions when facing the choice. Never marry a swing, such a man will only bring you countless grievances and injuries.
Choice is more important than hard work. What kind of people you choose, you choose what kind of life.
The above five sentences must be remembered by divorced women. What's more, there are no perfect people in this world. I am most afraid that you are particularly picky, because you have been bitten by a snake for ten years and always demand perfect standards from others.
The people who are truly perfect and suitable for you are gradually running in through your constant guidance and influence in the long years to come.
A happy marriage is neither a wait nor a choice.
Success is also the effort of two people, and failure is also the responsibility of two people. Learn to reflect and summarize the last marriage, in order to better manage the next marriage.
Divorced women, don't lose the minimum trust between people. The meaning of divorce is to reshuffle, find yourself, achieve yourself in the future, and love someone you should love.
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