Parents should not care too much about their children's achievements in daily life. Children can't be without fault. Every time he does something wrong, I won't criticize him blindly. I always analyze with him and encourage him to succeed again. I remember my son kept a high score in English, but he only got 60 points in a mid-term exam, and his grades dropped too much. He bowed his head and asked me for my autograph, but I didn't blame him or criticize him. Instead, I worked with him to find out the reason for losing points in the test paper.

I encouraged him to say, "it doesn't matter, the score is much higher than dad's high score." I will make progress next time I carefully check the test paper. " As the saying goes, "trees are afraid of hurting their roots, but people are afraid of being sad." You can't say anything that hurts your child just because your grades are not satisfactory. On the contrary, proper encouragement has enhanced your son's self-confidence, and gradually his son has formed a more positive learning attitude.

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In the process of children's growth, there can be no lack of fatherly love and maternal love. As parents, besides earning a living, they should devote more time and energy to their children's education like Meng Mu.

Every parent wants their children to become talents, so that some parents have serious anxiety and always have a psychological anxiety of being one step ahead of others, so they enroll in cram schools, take interest classes, enter private schools and so on. In fact, what our children need is not these things, but the companionship, care, guidance and education of their parents.

Parents should not always think about what kind of person their children should be, but what their children definitely need. Instead, we should communicate with children more and consider the problem from the perspective of children. We can't impose ideas on our children. Children have their own ideas and their own paths.