Yin Qing's classic quotations
1, quarreling and crying is actually a psychological detoxification. Although this will make you and others feel uncomfortable, only detoxification can put love in. Therefore, the most terrible thing is not quarreling, not crying, but a lifeless emotional relationship that will never express anger and sadness again.
2, some love, in fact, is not called love, can only be called a picture to send loneliness; Some dreams, in fact, are not called dreams, but can only be called something for nothing. Therefore, when such a love and such a dream are not realized, such a lament and such a resentment are not called true temperament, but only true affectation.
If you love me because I love you, then you don't love me so much. I'm just a tool to satisfy your narcissism. If you love me because I don't love you, then you don't really love me that much. You just love winning too much and are addicted to pain. Only I can understand your shadow and embarrassment, and you can tolerate my paranoia and carelessness. We cherish each other's loveliness and loveliness, and love really comes.
4. There is a lesson in life called acceptance: accept that the loved ones leave, accept that the loved ones die, accept that the loved ones don't like themselves anyway, accept that the loved ones can't be together anyway, and accept their origins, looks and talents. No matter how old I live, I feel like a crying child every time I accept it. The difference is that when I grow up, I will say to myself that acceptance is the beginning of getting better! .
5. Life can be beautiful, which is related to life attitude.
6. I often think that it may take many years for many people to accept the fact that they are actually ordinary people, so they are either depressed or arrogant and live in panic without knowing it. Everyone should have the ability to always look at himself with the other eye and see clearly his own limitations, so as to truly understand and forgive others' limitations and limitations.
7. Self-confidence comes from your own praise for yourself, giving up the illusion that you are a perfect person and accepting that you are an ordinary person, with both shortcomings and advantages.
8. If you don't have sex in your eyes, you are worse than an animal. But all you see is sex. You're just an animal. People become human because we are animal, but we have higher aspirations.
9. Some people don't treat others well because they have never been treated well. Therefore, the people who hurt people are actually poor.
10, people who don't love themselves don't know what it's like to love others. Pay hard, then complain blindly, sometimes you just don't understand love.
1 1. I hope that one day, more and more people will understand that the sense of value is the purpose of work, and making money is not, or not just; Happiness is one of the goals in life, but marriage is not, or need not be.
12, to say or not to say is a kind of communication. What you say may not be what you really want to say, but your silence may represent your truer attitude. Silence is also communication, which may be anger, sadness, or love you can't say.
13, blame, is a hidden insecurity and expectation of being concerned. A person who often blames others is more eager for the unspeakable psychological demand for affirmation and praise.
14, self, not only refers to the body and soul, but also includes symbols related to me, such as hometown, house, work, property, relatives and lovers. This is an extension of self. Therefore, any loss in life will first destroy the sense of self-worth and self-esteem.
15. Farewell is a growing ceremony. People who can say goodbye to others well are truly mature people. Farewell is an opportunity to rebuild the soul. Only when we say goodbye can we have a new beginning.
16, a good trip is a stop-and-go, with scenery everywhere. Perhaps for various reasons, you can't reach your destination in the end, but the experience and understanding along the way are enough. If we regard life as a journey, a beautiful life is worth the scenery on the road, so it is the only thing we can do to calm ourselves down by letting go of our anxiety about our goals, living in the present and enjoying the present.
17, Mencius' four ends: compassion for others, resignation, right and wrong, good and evil. But why do we often see an extreme heart without compassion, politeness, right and wrong and shame? Does extreme heart live better? It's better to live without a heart. Hum, hum, cold and dry afternoon makes me complain.
18, fall in love with someone who has the ability to start at any time, and be with someone who has the ability to stop at any time. That's about it.
19, there is a kind of love called letting go. In fact, when you shouldn't let go, what you get is your own unwillingness and ingratitude. In the world of love, unless you don't love him or he doesn't love you, don't try to occupy the moral high ground when you wake up in the middle of the night. Lacrimosa's stupidest thing is to treat his heart sincerely. Some reasons for giving up for his own good are just excuses for his lack of courage.
20. I suddenly thought of wisdom before going to bed: harming others and not benefiting myself, calling it an asshole; It is selfish to harm others and benefit oneself; It is foolish to benefit others at the expense of others; It is wisdom to help others and benefit others. Selfishness once in a while, stupidity once in a while. Most of us do, but don't be an asshole. Let's catch up with wisdom. I fell asleep. I wish I was smarter in my dream than in reality.
2 1, some people who are not pleasing to the eye find that there is a lovely simplicity in his unhappiness, which may be more than pleasing to the eye. Do you want to stick to your simplicity or please others? To be or not to be? This is really a problem.
22, learn to love, but also learn not to love; Learn to give, learn to refuse; Learn to cherish and learn to give up. Sometimes, more difficult than I love you, I don't love you. Love and not love are both responsibilities and lessons.
23. If you don't change your money into something else, why do you need money? What's the use of ideals if they are not allowed to lead the way?
24. If rejection is a great harm, the reason why we don't live well, and the excuse for our depression, then our logic becomes that you don't love me. Well, I don't love myself either. Isn't this interesting? We can't avoid bad things, but turning bad things into good things is a skill and a road to inner strength. That's not self-deception. Of course, living well or not is at your own risk.
25. If you are rejected by someone who doesn't love yourself, you should thank him for being willing to bear your unhappiness, your complaints and even your hatred. Apart from hurting your self-esteem, you are actually not hurt. Thank him for accompanying you through this road, even if he gave you ripples of love and heartbeat of love. Blessed are those who can be grateful; Those who will thank will show their nobility! There is no self-destruction or destruction because it is not available. It is true self-esteem.
26. Seeing other people's pain, our hatred will not turn into steel. Apart from sympathy, we also look down on it. But when we are caught in the tide of pain, it is very important to be kind to ourselves. Whether you regret your intestines or freeze your heart, give yourself a hundred times of warmth and patience before scolding yourself. Love and looking out are limited.
27. It is difficult to define a person's good or bad. Bad for you, not necessarily bad for others. The so-called wisdom of women is actually forbearance and cruelty. However, in the end, it depends on how God arranges his fate. It's yours. You can't get rid of it. It's not yours, no matter how clever it is.
28. Most people who have experienced deep struggles and finally won themselves have an embarrassment in their eyes. This kind of embarrassment is not only a contempt for going with the flow, but also a confirmation of the unknown journey. Some seemingly carefree and smooth life will suddenly get into trouble at every decision. That's your inner voice. Always admire those who ask for trouble early in order to grow up, and the trouble of being late will be more troublesome.
29. Do you smile positively every day? Of course not! It's sunny for a while and rainy for a while. Who is different? However, there are always ways to make yourself laugh, for example, the sun is fine, the air is good, you see a warm scene, or you eat delicious food. Have some fun for yourself every day and keep it in mind. I think this is the best way to be good to myself! Some people use scarves as backyard toilets, while others use scarves as their own living rooms. I belong to the latter.
30. What kind of girls are popular? Everyone has his own opinion, and my answer is to appreciate others. If you are beautiful, but only know narcissism; If you are plain, but you can only look at yourself, then no matter how good you are, it is hard to be popular. Be a girl who can appreciate others. You are the most beautiful when you really applaud the kindness of others.
3 1. Time flies, love yourself. When you are lovelorn, it is the only effective way to do what is good for you. Leave the rest to time. Memory is beyond our control.
32, the sun is fine, but I saw QQ signing a contract and said that I was lovelorn. Pain, Mid-Autumn Festival is tasteless. I want to drink. Hehe, I don't want to persuade, and it's not worth persuading. The depravity under any excuse is depravity after all, which deserves neither sympathy nor comfort. Yes, depravity and venting are not the same thing.
A said: I wish I didn't love him so much. B said: If only I could fall in love with someone. C said: If only I hadn't got married. D said: if only I got married, because we are lonely, so we need love; Because of weakness, we need marriage. However, is there anyone who has never been lonely or weak?
Excerpts from Fan Xiaoqing's classic quotations.
Fan Xiaoqing, female, is from Suzhou, Jiangsu. 1978 was admitted to the Chinese Department of Suzhou University at the beginning, and stayed there to teach literary theory after graduation. At the beginning of 1985, he was transferred to Jiangsu Writers Association to engage in professional creation. Now he is the chairman of Jiangsu Writers Association. Social part-time: member of the National Committee of Chinese Writers Association, the 9th Standing Committee of CPPCC, deputy director of the Education and Culture Committee, and representative of the 10th Party Congress of the province. 1 year On February 20th, the 20th meeting of the Standing Committee of the 11th National Committee of China People's Political Consultative Conference was adopted as a member of the 12th National Committee.
Fan Xiaoqing's classic quotations:
No matter how dissatisfied we are with reality, we can't destroy it or even crush it; Of course, it is by no means to shake hands with it and go to a place of tenderness.
Literature is a lamp of life.
Literary outlook and outlook on life are also closely linked. If I lack strength, it can only be lack, because this is the foundation of my life and my writing. I can't change, I can't change, and I have no intention of changing.
The doctrine of the mean is a force, a powerful and restrained force. The real strength does not lie in the toughness on the surface, the sharpness of words, or the attitude of the needle tip towards Maimang.
Traditional literature is very elegant. At present, the prosperity of online literature cannot represent the direction of literary development. Only by slowly returning to traditional literature and returning to the essence of literature.
Literature is the most innovative art type. If you are a minority and don't innovate, you can't. But it is not good to cater to the readers blindly and accommodate the audience. This is a slow running-in process.
Technocracy is our eternal love and pain. Material development and scientific and technological progress make us feel comfortable and deeply criticized. If we simply criticize the theory of technological domination, we can refuse it, but in fact few people can really and completely refuse it. If we simply enjoy technicalism, why are we so anxious and irritable?
Improving literary literacy is a lifelong matter, which is accompanied by a lifetime. This is urgent and ruthless. Reading is important, and reading the big book of life is more important; Writing is very important, so is being a man.
Reading is a pleasure and should not be forced. It will be of great help to life to calm down and read paper literature.
Under the current social background, it will be a happy thing if one can calm down and read a literary work, even a short story or a poem.
A person can grow up successfully without reading any literary works; But for a society and a nation, it is unthinkable if there are no poems, essays and novels in this society.
Writers think from a metaphysical point of view, through reality, through every story in real life and through everyone in life. This is the meaning of the novel. Only by learning from the society, then upgrading to the philosophical meaning, and then writing under the guidance of this meaning, can we surpass the news story itself.
Looking at an abnormal society with abnormal people will have a double effect.
Reading more books is of course beneficial, but writing depends on understanding, and it is not good to write by reading more books and writing more articles.
Whether it is online literature or traditional literature, the most important thing must be language, and literature is the art of language and writing. Everyone's writing is slowly polished.
The sense of absurdity is a very good thing. What the writer fears most is that there is no sense of absurdity, only a sense of normality. The more absurd he feels about life, the more sources his writing has.
I have been groping from the beginning, I am still groping, and I will keep groping. Inventory is constantly changing, increasing or decreasing. For me, there are times when I feel exhausted, but after a while, I feel that the supply is abundant and endless.
My works are generally close to life, whether it is migrant workers or other subjects, because life is coming to me and I can't hide.
Originality is something that comes from one's own heart, which is as natural as running water and very pleasant. However, imitation is a very difficult and dangerous job. We should learn from others and not let others see it. Why bother?
The real literary elite can't be strangled, whether it is marketization, commercialization or other things, it is impossible to strangle the literary elite. Those who can be strangled or alienated are not the real last elite.
You must start reading. The slower you read, the richer your mind will be.
Everyone can't stop on the very fast train, but what are they doing on the train? You can read some books that give you space and thinking.
Reading varies from person to person, but it is certainly beneficial.
People who like reading can enjoy peace of mind in the most impetuous world.
For the sake of the magazine's survival, it's time to put down the writer's airs and be cheeky. Only in this way can we ensure the survival and development of pure literature publications, and more young authors devote themselves to pure literature creation.
Mu Qing's classic quotations
1. When we return to strangers, in the end, even a greeting will make each other cold. Muqingji
The deer that bumped in my heart at the beginning has now become a hedgehog. Muqingji
When you think she is great, most of it is in the past. Muqingji
Everyone once loved such a person. At first, she was a topic for you to show off in front of others, and later she became a memory for you to laugh and cry. Muqingji
5. After many years, will you be excited or sigh silently when you hear someone mention me occasionally? Muqingji
6. I learned later that the biggest harm a person does to you is not that he doesn't love you, but that he destroys your courage to love others in the future. Muqingji
7. After time screening, I am still classified as the kind of person I hate. Muqingji
8. No one will care about your past, let alone understand your feelings. Muqingji
9. You don't need to know me too well, just like I do you, because it's too much trouble to know someone, and it's more trouble to forget! Muqingji
10. You just said forget me! But you don't know that I even remember the strokes of your name. Muqingji
1 1. Remember, don't drink too much and don't see the old people. Don't miss it, don't lose sleep. Muqingji
12. You associate with loneliness, you associate with mobile phones, you associate with everything in the world that has nothing to do with you, but you abandon me. Muqingji
13. You just lost someone who doesn't love you. Why are you crying like you lost someone who loves you?
14. I still miss someone crazily occasionally, but I never told her. Muqingji
15. So far, you are still the most dazzling and farthest in the range I can perceive. Muqingji
16. In this world, only love and food can't live up to it. Love has failed too much, and food can't be disappointed any more. Muqingji
17. I overestimated my position in your heart, and you underestimated your weight in my heart. Muqingji
18. I still remember you, probably because I once showed you off to others. Muqingji
19. How can I forget you as if I had never met you? With time, a new love, or a new life! Muqingji
20. I know I can't wait for dawn, time and you. Let the years pass, and I am alone in towards the distant. Muqingji
2 1. I still believe in you, but I'm sure you'll never leave. Now I'm sure you'll never come back. Muqingji
22. The heart is a vast and bare place, and memories are surrounded by bonfires. From a distance, the heart seems to be booming, but in fact, it has been roasted to death by a sultry bonfire. Muqingji
Maybe you can't make everyone like you, but at least you should cherish those who like you. Muqingji
24. We have passed the romantic age, so let's be content with life! Muqingji
25. Because I love you, I have seen a world I have never seen before through your light. Muqingji
In my lifetime, I never thought that I would meet you in this crowded city, just as I would fall in love with you. Muqingji
27. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to. But slowly found that with the growth of age, fewer and fewer people are willing to talk to you and listen to you. Muqingji
28. Once some people miss it, it may be a lifetime. I can't really see it, but I can't bear to disturb it again. Muqingji
29. There is a kind of love that can't be said, and there is a kind of love that can't be kept. The former needs to cover up hard work, while the latter needs to cover up heartache. Muqingji
30. At the age when we don't understand love, we are obsessed with love. At the age of love, we exhausted all our courage. Muqingji
3 1. From the moment I decided to trust you, you were able to hurt me. Muqingji
32. Love at first sight is not long, and love for a period of time is not long.
It doesn't matter how many people got separated along the way, what matters is who you met at last. Muqingji
34. Wish you happiness! This sentence is really vulgar. I will wish you happiness, but I won't bless you.
As a girl, she shouldn't be so strong that others don't know. Muqingji
Excerpts from classic quotations of China film actress Ding Anni.
Ting Anni,1986165438+1October 12, born in Shaanxi, China, is a film actress and singer in China. In 2005, Ting Annie took part in the talent show "My Show" and made her debut as a singer. In 2008, she received the attention and love of the audience for playing the heroine Princess Chae Yeon in the drama The Story of the Eight Immortals. In 2009, she played the heroine Tong Hui in "Youth in War" and became the spokesperson of the red idol drama, which laid the foundation for future development. In 20xx, he starred in TV series such as Guerrilla Arsenal, Magic Gun and Awkward Happy Life.
Ding Anni's classic quotations:
People who don't know how to refuse rarely have their own bottom line and requirements. When your acquiescence becomes a habit, it's hard to get out of your head.
From the day I grew up to now, my outlook on life and love has been changing because of various experiences, including the joy of success and the tears of failure. The only constant is the heart that never stops chasing dreams.
Don't envy the beauty of others, don't expect others' brains, don't imitate others' gestures, and the starting point of loving yourself is to bravely accept your imperfect self.
Happiness itself is a feeling, and the pursuit of happiness is the pursuit of a spiritual life. If happiness is a flower, then its soil is kindness, optimism, understanding and love.
Scorpio people are really sensitive and will change their original intention because of a sentence, a reaction and a text message. It's not just love, everything is the same. I will never make myself feel bad. I would rather give up than force myself.
The difficulty is the spring. You are strong, it is weak. You are weak, it is strong. Advance is retreat, retreat is advance; If you are soft, you are hard, and if you are hard, you are soft. Sorry, I'm a carrot and stick!
Women often like to talk about men together, and they can often learn from each other in the sister bureau. They divide men into several categories, each with its own tricks. Actually, it's better to let him go when it's over. Sincere love can bring true feelings.
It turns out that the best way to solve the impulse is to sleep, and when you wake up, there will be another answer.
People pursue happiness, but happiness is not obtained or judged by some superficial forms. Happiness actually comes from everyone's heart. Feel ordinary happiness with your heart.
Meet the right person at the right time. Sometimes when we do meet, you may not believe that she is the right person. So, slowly feel and understand carefully, I think true feelings can stand the test of time.
Sending away the hot and cool summer is about to usher in my favorite autumn. I like it for no reason, perhaps because it is short and gentle, and sometimes it makes you feel a little sad. Only in this season, an optimistic and impatient person like me will slow down and feel the light sadness it brings me.
Happiness is approaching you bit by bit. As long as you have a sincere heart, I believe that the door of happiness will eventually open for you.
People will face all kinds of choices in their life, and I will struggle for a long time whenever I have to make a decision. I think, in fact, I should be glad that many things in this world, whether good or bad, including life, still have choices.
I am a persistent person, persistent in love, persistent in dreams and persistent in truth. . . I may lose a lot of things, but I still won't give up. Many people call me stupid. Second, I am stupefied. I don't care about the result, at least I tried.
I have always been a person who likes challenges since I was a child, and I don't like being unchanging, not innovating or breaking through. This character makes me have to hit a wall everywhere, but even if I am scarred, I will not hesitate.
I used to be quiet and passive, with few friends and a house. Now I am warm, brainless and full of friends, commonly known as the second sister. What changed me? I got it, but I also lost it.
Time makes us forget the pain, but we can't heal the wound. Forget what should be forgotten and remember what should be remembered. But it's really hard.
It's getting dark, and we're still fighting at the front. A person's personality determines which way he wants to go. I, destined to be so busy, although hard, but very fulfilling.
In the face of love, everyone has his own set of theories. Usually people think that whoever loves more will lose in love (I used to think so). Until now, I didn't know that you actually met the wrong person. The two people who really love each other are the more you love ta, the more you love you!
Meeting, acquaintance and parting between people are all arranged by God. I am destined to be a family member, a good friend and a lover because of my constant emotions in my last life. Please cherish the people who love you. It is God who makes you a close person in the vast sea of people.
All sadness will always leave a trace of joy, and all regrets will always leave a perfect corner.
No matter how annoying you are, don't forget to smile; No matter how difficult it is, don't forget to persist; Love yourself no matter how tired you are.
Please don't care too much about love and being loved. You should know that loving and being loved is not only a unique life experience, but also a happy gesture. If you can't get others' love, don't bury it in your heart. You should learn to try to give your love to others. You have to believe that one day, others will feel the depth of your love and give you the same love.
The best and most beautiful things in the world are invisible and intangible. They must feel it with their heart.
No one can turn back the clock and start again, but everyone can start today and create a brand-new ending.
Look at what you see and love what you love. Life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty.
In autumn, the sky is clear in Wan Li. The autumn wind is cool. Autumn rain is sweet and long. Although it is sad that leaves are flying and plants are yellow and beautiful, autumn is bright, inclusive, mature and broad, but it has its unique charm. In autumn, find the direction you love and add a touch of color to your life! !
Life needs to wait, waiting for a gust of wind, waiting for a flower to bloom, waiting for the arrival of that person, waiting for the strong voice of life.
October's little tail slipped away quietly, and November is poking its head playfully. The autumn wind is getting stronger and the weather is getting colder, so friends should pay attention to adding clothes.
Mood is the spice of life, keep the best mood! Make life interesting!