I am a girl, and I can understand how your girlfriend feels now. If you are my boyfriend, I will receive your friend's blessing, but if I can't hear your blessing, I will feel very lost and helpless, and feel that your blessing is insincere. That's how your girlfriend feels now. Let me analyze it for you: on an important day like your birthday, boys should call to say hello in person. That way, the girl will be very moved and think you are thinking about her. But if you ask your friends to call for you, that feeling will change. Girls will think that you need help even to make a phone call, and that you have no opinion and courage. Remember, my friend, that love is your own, and you have to fight for it by yourself. Some important words need to be said by yourself, such as: I love you! You can't let your friends convey it, can you? Friend, if you want to catch your girlfriend's heart, you must have courage. Be kind to her, you should show it to her and let your friends convey it, and that feeling will change. Put yourself in other's shoes. If you are ill and she doesn't call to say hello to you, ask a friend to call to say hello to her. At this time, what you really want to hear is her voice. Do you feel different?

Besides, she hasn't forgotten you. It's just that if you always ask your friend to convey it to you, her affection for you will decrease. You said, "She sometimes says you have something to do. Why don't you tell her yourself?" Girls like active boys. You have to be domineering. Don't let them call. You also take the initiative to call once in a while. You dare not call, send text messages on your own initiative. You can take the initiative to hold her hand (girls are shy, so you can't let girls take the initiative), take the initiative to ask her out to play, take the initiative to kiss her, and girls will be attracted to you. No girl likes her boyfriend's verbosity and makes her take the initiative in everything.

She rejected you before, probably because she thought you were always not active, giving her the feeling that you were not masculine enough to be a boyfriend. You said you didn't know if she had a boyfriend. I don't think she has a boyfriend yet. She is just looking forward to the arrival of love, so she should take the initiative. Then ask her out and talk to her. I wonder if you gave her a present on her birthday. If not, ask her out this time, bring a gift, give a gift first, talk about it, and finally say to her, "I like you." Can you be my girlfriend? " Or give me a chance. "Then you should take the initiative to hold her hand. If you are embarrassed to do it, you should take the initiative to ask her out to play in the future, contact her more, let her know more about you and get rid of the wrong feelings before. In love, boys must be a little domineering when chasing girls. Ha ha. . . If she says let's be friends, then she will give you another chance (as long as she doesn't say that she has a boyfriend or firmly says that she doesn't like you). You should behave well and take your time.

Finally, I wish you happiness!