Young man, pay attention! Usually, you should coax your girlfriend more and let her know that you are good to her. In addition, you don't really go into her heart, and most of the time you don't know her, so you have to understand her inner world from her point of view to better understand her. Third, she thinks you have some shortcomings, but she has been giving you a chance to correct them, so you should let her know that you are correcting your own shortcomings. I wish you a happy love and hope to adopt.