Women have to rely on feelings. After having a boyfriend, women often like to stick to their boyfriends all the time. At first, they were in a state of love. Of course, men also like to be with their girlfriends every day. When the relationship is confirmed and the passion is over, sticking to each other too much will only make them bored. Many couples will have various contradictions after the love period, especially a man's enthusiasm comes quickly and walks quickly. When his enthusiasm is out of date, a man needs to have his own private space. Without special circumstances, a man will not put all his energy into his girlfriend, so a smart woman should know how to get along with her boyfriend. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty, and there must always be boundaries between people, whether for male friends or more intimate relationships-boyfriends. Because if there is no proper boundary between the opposite sex, it is easy to cross the border. We can't help making friends with the opposite sex, but their existence will also interfere with our love, so it is necessary to keep a proper distance. When dealing with boyfriends, distance is also a part of increasing feelings. Distance can make two people curious about each other, and both of them have independent space to ensure that their feelings can be kept fresh. Therefore, a woman who always sticks to her boyfriend should learn to let go and give her boyfriend private space. In addition, don't always check your boyfriend's mobile phone. When two people fall in love again, they also have the right to keep their privacy. You can't be too controlling when you get along with men. Although the man doesn't show it directly, he may not like you like this. Maybe you don't trust him and always ask him to hand over his mobile phone for you to check. Just because he doesn't say anything doesn't mean he acquiesces in your behavior. Women always check men's mobile phones. Inadvertently, you may have touched his bottom line. Put yourself in others' shoes. Would you feel comfortable if he checked your mobile phone for no reason? Smart women know how to care about each other, not only respect men's privacy, but also know how to keep their distance from men in this matter. How does a smart woman get along with her boyfriend? 2 Skills of getting along with boyfriends: 1. Don't stand on ceremony. Man is not bound by animals by nature. If women ask men to always be self-centered and always act according to their own ideas, men will inevitably leave because they are too tired. Leave more space for both sides and let him do what he likes. 2, usually communicate more, contact more If two people don't have a common language, have nothing to say, and don't chat much at ordinary times, you do your job, he does his career, they are busy with their own work and ignore the communication between them. If you don't communicate for a long time, you will feel a little familiar without contact. Therefore, in normal times, we should not only be busy with our work, but also be diligent in communication and care for each other. We usually communicate more, and we will have something to say when we get together. 3. Sometimes you have to learn to be spoiled, to show weakness, and to be uncomfortable as a job. Where does the joy of life come from? When a man feels needed, your femininity will be max. Have a little temper, wipe your tears and hit him at the same time. Men will be very useful. But remember not to mess around, men are not stupid. If you choose him, you should trust him. Since you chose him as your boyfriend, you should try to trust him. Believe in his character and your eye for people. Don't be paranoid all day, asking where your boyfriend went and who he went with. Even if he likes you, he won't like you questioning him like this. When two people don't feel relaxed together, the whole person is in a tight state, and he will subconsciously stay away from you. 5. Be kind to each other's parents. Girls should be kind to their parents. Even if there is something unpleasant, don't complain directly. After all, it is also a good quality for men to be filial to their parents. It is also impolite for girls to point out the shortcomings of their elders. If you really have any questions about your elders, you can also communicate with men privately. Pointing out from the side will make men feel that their girlfriends are really sensible and will feel more distressed about their girlfriends. The same is true for men. You can't just ask your girlfriend to be filial to your parents, you can't do it yourself. The sweetest routine between lovers is 1. Chat to determine each other's status. Before chatting with a girl, it's best to make sure her status, whether she is busy or not, and whether she is in the mood to chat. "Hello, what are you doing" or "Are you busy" or "How are you doing recently", and then comprehensively judge each other's status according to the speed and content of their answers. If the number of words in the reply message is small, the reply time is slow. Girls are either busy or not interested in what you are talking about. Then, you have to stop sending messages first. This guarantee is not annoying, because there are many opportunities in the future. 2, find the same topic * * * Now most social software can be displayed, and girls generally like to post their daily life, work, travel, mood, etc. In the circle of friends. No matter how you add it to the girl's WeChat, you must read the girl's information first. Nicknames, personalized signatures, avatars, circle of friends and so on are all very important information. It's best to judge her career, hobbies and personality from her bones, and then grasp the most important point, or find your topic. 3, feelings should be gradual, slowly develop what girls want is a steady and practical boyfriend who can be entrusted for life. Boys should know how to step by step. Feelings are cultivated bit by bit, and there are still many days to come. Don't rush to the next step, and don't rush to say something too early when chatting. In particular, boys should not be too "impatient", some girls will be shy, and boys can wait until the relationship is closer before bringing up the topic of kissing or even closer. And girls should remember to be reserved, don't show that they hate getting married, and don't let others look down on themselves. How to get along with your boyfriend correctly 1? Do not doubt your lover. Trust is very important when two people get along. Don't always let your boyfriend guess what he thinks. You can speak your mind directly. 3, don't always say goodbye, don't hurt yourself to retain lovers, people who really love each other won't hurt each other. Why do you like listening to love stories so much? Love words will strengthen the feelings of two people and make each other feel happy and warm. Girls especially like to listen to boys say some sweet words. After listening, they felt very happy and happy. The beginning of two people's love is often a vow of eternal love, saying that they want to give each other a mountain and a sea without thinking about anything. Shan, you can't give it in the end because you are not strong enough. Sea, you can't give it in the end, because you can't swallow it. But none of this seems to matter, because the meaning of love words is to enlarge from the heart, melt love into words and tell each other. Boys like to coax girls with all kinds of sweet words, girls like to listen, and boys are willing to say it. This is a fairer deal than money. The speaker was rewarded, and the obedient person was excited and happy. Love words are honey, which has been carefully brewed for a long time and tastes sweet to the heart. Love words are pure water, quenching thirst and nourishing heart. Love words are like petals of spring, red Philippine flowers, full of fragrance. 2, boys chasing girls or spending holidays with girls, in addition to gifts, the best thing is love stories. Gifts are precious, but they don't last as long as love words. After listening to the sweet words, the girl blushed and remembered it. She often thinks of them and thinks of them again and again. I was reading my diary at home the other day, and suddenly I saw a love story written to someone I like. I read it over and over again for a long time, and it was quite delicious. My sight was salvaged by your eyes, and from then on, I fell into your world. In this world, I look around and ask the breeze, but I just turn around and stop in the fleeting time with you. How many times have I traveled to listen to your breath in this world? I can only see you after crossing the thorns in the bushes, the steep slopes in the front mountains and the desolation in the desert. When you didn't come, I was struggling in this desolate place of the world, only lonely. When you came, the dead wood gave birth to thousands of flowers and died with you. Even if it is a long time ago, the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, I will be inseparable from you and love you as always. I will wait for a time when the wind is light and the clouds are light, and then change your eyes for a lifetime. 3. Girls like to listen to love stories because they need to care, which is called happiness. Only when boys take girls to heart will they always talk sweet words to each other. Love words will make girls' brains excited and their hearts full of joy. Girls like to be praised, and when they tell a love story, they feel praised. The girl's heart beat faster when she heard the love story, and she couldn't control her happy heart for a while. So when chasing girls to propose marriage, boys like to tell a love story. A "I love you" is like a million roses, with fragrant branches and touching the hearts of girls. Girls like sweet talk. When they are praised and pursued by boys, they often fall into the swamp of love, unable to extricate themselves and getting deeper and deeper. So, if you like someone, don't forget to say something sweet to the other person to keep your viscosity. 4, say love words have to learn to let the other listener have a heart, and then heartache. Love words have a heavy meaning, so we should be prepared first. Preparation is to find out what kind of personality a girl is and what kind of love words she likes, so as to prescribe the right medicine. It is very important to be sincere when talking about love words. When you like someone, you will feel very happy, then your love words will come from the heart. Girls like everything related to sincerity, so if you fall in love with her, love it well. Some girls like simple love words, because simple love words can make girls feel warmer. For example, if a girl is sick, all you need to say is don't be afraid, I'm here. And then send her to the hospital, which will make her very moved. Love words can also be used to improve the situation of two people and enhance their feelings. When a girl is angry, you can coax her to be happy with sweet words, which can adjust the atmosphere and reverse Gan Kun. Love words symbolize beauty and can enhance each other's feelings. When you fall in love with someone, you must not be stingy with sweet words, but learn to say more to each other. If I fall in love with you, I will write you 3650 love poems and tell you a lifetime love story.