When we encounter ups and downs, we may be overly emotional and easily lament our fate, blame others and others, and exaggerate our misfortunes. Below I have compiled my thoughts on the bumpy road of life. I hope it will be helpful to everyone! Insights on the bumpy road of life 1

The bumpy road of life

Listening to your words is worth ten years of reading.

The ancients said: When heaven is about to entrust a great responsibility to a person, he must first strain his mind, work his muscles and bones, and starve his men... This sentence must be familiar to everyone, and the meaning is unforgettable. In this case, why can't we face this easy job calmly? Why can't we treat it with the same passion for life? cannot! Precisely because I don’t want to do this job in the future - this is the calling of most people. But we must understand that this work must be done today, tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow. You have to do it for a long time. Then why can't you do it with your heart? You must stand up for this day's work during the last day of work, and don't let your every day be wasted.

Compared with other college students, employment is basically equal to unemployment. Whenever they carry their bags and rush around to find a job, we may have received our own salary, although it is not much, but Enough to feed ourselves. In this situation of rampant materialism and extremely serious employment pressure, we should be grateful to have this kind of job. What's more, we are college students who have just left school. We need experience but not experience, potential but not potential, and majors but not strong ones. What more can we ask for? This is not that I belittle us, but it is a true portrayal of us, but we are not willing to deal with it.

If this is not our ideal life state, we can regard it as a transition in the course of life. I think this transition is very good. I don’t have much time to go to work in a day. I have enough time to cultivate my own interests and hobbies, plan my own career life, pursue my favorite career, and at the same time recharge my batteries. No matter what field we plan to develop in the future, we can continuously enrich ourselves, continuously improve our inner qualities, and cultivate our noble sentiments. Why not? Romantic signature

By trying gradually, maybe we will fall in love with it and develop to a higher level. Maybe we will feel boring and choose to stand out in other industries. No matter in the end Whichever one you choose, I support it. It is precisely because we are not satisfied with the status quo, love tossing, and have passion, that we are young people!

After working for a few years, most people will choose to continue to participate in this job. Some people love it from the bottom of their hearts, while others do it out of helplessness. It can be summed up in one sentence. Their mood is that it is tasteless to eat and a pity to throw away. Since we don’t have Ho Tung’s courage to relive his youth, we can only understand real life. :

There are thousands of flavors in life. At the end of the taste, there is only one flavor left, which is helplessness. All flowers in life will wither, and all withering is irreversible. We have to understand this. We have to understand all the shortcomings in life along with life. When we realize this, we will have a kind of calmness in our hearts. Helplessness itself contains the element of unwillingness. When we are willing to be unwilling, calm about helplessness, and learn to be indifferent to things that we cannot do anything for, helplessness becomes a state. This state is not at all a detachment of seeing through the world of mortals, but more like a reconciliation and tolerance of the joys and sorrows of life. The mood on a rainy day

As we grow up, my parents’ temples gradually turn gray. At this time, I feel that people do not live for themselves, but live for the people they care about. To give a simple example, our parents! From the moment we were born, our parents' focus turned to us, and it was all of them. No matter how poor they were in the past, they always tried their best to make us live a comfortable life. This kind of love can be said to be supreme! Now that we have grown up, it is time to fulfill our filial piety. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first. The speed at which we fulfill our filial piety is much faster than the speed at which our parents grow old, so we should seize the moment and not wait until the time when our children want to support us but our parents are no longer around and we will regret it for the rest of our lives.

Everyone has different views on filial piety: some people think that letting their parents live a prosperous life is happiness; some think that giving parents more money is happiness. I think it's completely wrong. Their motives are all good, but their behavior is just wrong. As parents grow older, they speak less and less and become more and more lonely. What they need most at this time is not a wealthy life or more money, but our sincere greetings! When our parents are lonely, we can stay with them, chat with them, sit with them and have a group meal, and our parents are satisfied. There are also street children who are working hard outside. I hope you can always bear in mind that "a child travels thousands of miles and a mother is worried". In your leisure time, call home more often, chat with your parents, and report that your family is safe. If you have time, remember to come home often. look! Insights on the bumpy road of life 2

Please be strong in the bumpy road of life

I don’t know how many ups and downs and tribulations I will encounter in my life. Many things happen unexpectedly. In the face of difficulties, it is better to choose to go on with strength. Because many times it’s not that the world rejects people’s enthusiasm, but that we misunderstand the test of time; it’s not that the god of luck refuses to favor you, but that when misfortune befalls you, you refuse to prepare to start over; it’s not that The tempting glory never patronizes you, but you are unwilling to let your ideals fly with ordinary footsteps... Be strong and you will eventually get what you want.

We have had those days of loneliness when we were far away from friends, we have had the loss of young pride being smashed into pieces against the wall of reality; we have even had moments when we were dejected by an unpredictable wind and rain. . Sometimes in the face of many silently looking forward to the eyes, in the face of many unexpected bruises, we will despair and conclude that we are completely hopeless, or that the whole world has lost the sun.

Only then did I realize that life is not only about romance in front of flowers and under the moon, but also about crystal clear tears; only then did I realize that life is not just about lying in the bright moon and breeze, dreaming of the fruits of the golden autumn, but also being affected by the sudden wind and rain in the middle of the night. Shocked and panicked...

However, the stars are still bright, life is still wonderful, and the world has not changed at all. Maybe everything is just because we haven't gone through it yet? ——Life is a turbulent river, but we are a group of sailors with far greater enthusiasm than reason; life is a vast expanse of sky, but we are a group of fledgling geese... Not every sailor can be there In the stormy sea, "hanging clouds and sails directly to help the blue sea" does not mean that every pair of wings eager to fly does not mean disaster when it waves in the sky!

The road in life is bumpy and the journey is far away. Visiting the rain and clouds for a hike, longing for every straight road. And who can predict life’s weather forecast?

But as long as there is no lingering haze in the sky of the soul/, the sunshine will definitely shine farther.

Once upon a time, there was an explorer who lost his way in the desert. He was hungry and thirsty and on the verge of death. The instinct of survival drove him to drag forward with extremely heavy steps, and finally unexpectedly found an abandoned hut. This is a dilapidated, deserted hut. He found a water pump in front of the house, so he tried his best to pump water, but there was no water at all. Just when he was extremely annoyed, he suddenly found a kettle next to him. The mouth of the pot was blocked by a cork and there was a note on the pot. He opened the note curiously: "You must first fill this pot of water into the water draw, and then you can draw water. However, you must fill the kettle before you leave." He opened the kettle carefully, and as expected, it was filled with water. There is a jug of water.

He faced a painful decision - should he pour the pot of water into the water dispenser as the note said? If no water comes out after pouring it in, wouldn’t this life-saving water be wasted? On the contrary, if you drink this pot of water, you can at least temporarily save your life.

At this time, the adventurous instinct made him feel an unprecedented impulse. He gritted his teeth and decided to do what the note said. He would rather die of thirst with perfect regret than live up to every dream.

Sure enough, a steady stream of clear and sweet springs came out of the water dispenser! He drank happily, then refilled the kettle, and added a sentence behind the note: "Please believe in me - only by ignoring your dying can you drink the sweet spring water."

Heaven and earth are together, and opportunities are together; when we meet on a narrow road, the brave will win!

Caesar, at the critical juncture of a narrow escape, swung the long sword in his hand resolutely and fearlessly, and his young and brave warriors swept across the Rubicon River like a hurricane, and defeated them with lightning momentum. The Roman army established its own powerful empire; I also felt great sadness for the gold digger Bill in Jack London's "Love of Life" who collapsed in despair at the last moment when he was about to be rescued: there is only one step between the giant and the clown. Far away...

The famous American scholar Ullman said: "No one becomes old just because of the passage of time. It is only with the disillusionment of ideals that old people appear in human beings." Tibetan Plateau Those who are still crawling on the long pilgrimage road, their whole life's wish is just to exchange their hard-earned savings for butter and pour it into the immortal lamp of the Potala Palace. The power of dreams is so miraculous that it can be transformed into religious will. As the strongest fulcrum of human nature, it can raise high aspirations and beliefs in the stormy life!

Not every dusk will be melancholy, and not every rainy season can reject confusion. But just as the blue sky is vast for the condor, and the wilderness is vast for the horses, the sun that never sets will always rise in the heart as bright as the sun. Many times it’s not that the world rejects people’s enthusiasm, but that we misunderstand the test of time; it’s not that the god of luck refuses to favor you, but that when misfortune comes to you, you refuse to prepare to start over; it’s not tempting The glory of life never patronizes you, but you are unwilling to let your ideals fly with ordinary footsteps...

Destiny never easily agrees with anyone's choice, but you cannot refuse the vicissitudes of life. As long as faith stands tall like an unbreakable rock, there will never be a road longer than feet and a mountain higher than a person! Destiny is always an equation that is difficult to solve. Reality and desires cannot be replaced by equal amounts. Weighing between reality and desire, weighing between morality and self-interest, swinging between ethics and lust, thinking between right and wrong, often, the mind is almost bursting. The hot and cold world, the cold and warm human relationships, encompass all the information of life. From ancient times to the present, they are the foundation for everyone's survival. We are so small that we can only learn to adapt. It is impossible to create a new world apart from this world. We are originally a drop of water in the ocean. If we leave the ocean, what else will there be besides evaporating?

The world is long but life is short, and the years are like a white horse passing by. It's not good to stop your pursuit because the sun is too bright, and it's even worse that you dare not take a step because the road is too far away - devote yourself to singing once, and compose the trekker's march with sweat-soaked notes. Maybe our life path will not be grand and glorious; maybe our future will not be a blockbuster or soar into the sky. Then stand quietly like a tree - stand where people need us most, and stand as the most moving signpost in the world.

The road to life is full of ups and downs. No matter how confusing the road ahead is, no matter how many winds, frosts, snows and rains you encounter, you don’t have to care too much. Really, who wants to care too much? Please keep going!

On the road of life, the figure standing tall and tall is our strong arrow piercing the sky! Insights on the bumpy road of life 3

How bumpy is the road to life?

In life, everyone escapes birth, old age, illness and death. Everyone has to experience joy, anger, sorrow and joy, and they go through a life of ups and downs. , in these long decades, some people enjoy life, some people hate yesterday, some people become slaves of money, some people become material burdens, some people live happily, and some people live in pain Living, some people are healthy and happy, some are physically and mentally exhausted, some face life with a smile, some live with tears, some live a long life, some die young, there are too many changes, Too many emotions, how to live, how to live your own life, how to deal with ups and downs, this is a person's mentality, this is where a person's wisdom lies.

Ups and downs can make some people become strong and heroes, and can also make some people sink, fall or be destroyed. The key depends on the attitude towards the ups and downs.

A smile in the face of ups and downs is the waves blooming in the undercurrent of life. It holds up the boat of life heading for the other side of hope. The real strong man must laugh at the difficulties.

Laughing at the ups and downs is a kind of open-minded attitude towards life. There are only incomplete bodies in the world, but there is no incomplete life; the crutches and wheelchairs in life will become the wings for life to soar.

Laughing at the hardships is a kind of tragic beauty, and only this kind of tragic beauty is the most thrilling and shocking. Just as the most beautiful thing about the sea is not the beautiful wind and sunny weather, the same color of water and sky, but the rough waves crashing on the shore and rolling up thousands of piles of snow.

Smiling in the face of ups and downs is a sublimation of the human spirit. Encountering ups and downs is just one person’s ups and downs, but a smile in the face of ups and downs is the shining glory of mankind. Talking can break a person’s torso, but a smile is strong. It gave rise to the backbone of mankind.

Not everyone in this world is going smoothly, it just depends on how you solve it. For example, if you are hit by someone while walking and someone apologizes to you, sometimes you will still feel angry, but you I didn’t expect that the person who bumped into you would actually feel more uncomfortable than you. Just think about the saying, “Happiness is only a day, and unhappiness is a day, so why not be happy every day.”

If you think that you are in a bad mood, then you don’t have to think about it. If you still think about it, then make yourself busy so that you have no time to think about it, and let yourself live every day fully. Minutes, when I wake up in the morning, I don’t like to fall in love with the bed. I get up as soon as I wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, and relax my whole body.

Nine times out of ten, life will be unsatisfactory. Who can have a life without ups and downs, who can have a life without difficulties, who can have a smooth life, and who can have a smooth life.

Climbing and climbing along the way, no matter how much pain or disaster we encounter, we must bury our tears in our hearts and keep going forward. This is our life, and there is no time to allow it. When we stay, there is no time for us to act coquettishly, no time for us to complain, and no time for us to miss yesterday, just because we want to move forward.

Life is easy, but life is not easy. Don’t worry. There are many people like you in this society, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard and treat it In everything, be serious about life. As long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is like, I firmly believe that it will be wonderful.

Learn to regulate your emotions, desire less, compare less, have a balanced mentality, be more content and happy, change what can be changed, understand what cannot be changed, don’t lose yourself, according to your own needs We should live according to our potential, and we should not let other people's lives, other people's faces, and other people's emotions influence our emotions.

Coming and going, getting together and breaking up, this is what life needs to deal with calmly, and being calm is a necessary skill. Having nothing to ask for does not mean that you have no aspirations, but you control all the variables, you are free and easy, and you really see through it!

Walking on the road of life, you get up after falling down countless times, and you get up again after the pain. No matter how sincerely you deal with reality, you can really calm your heart and have nothing to ask for or hope for.

To let go of everything and truly live a life with aspirations, at this very moment, as long as you make up your mind to abandon the bustling and noisy distractions, and maintain a normal mind, you will let go of everything.

Only by maintaining a normal mind can we live in the present, be a person who enjoys the present and looks forward to the future, and will not blindly wander in the shadow of the past.

Smile at life, smile at life.