Plum Blossom, a little flower who wants to write a story for you, write the true feelings and tear away the false feelings.

01

Xu Lin and Wang Lei met in kindergarten.

That year, Xu Lin was only 26 years old and working as a kindergarten teacher.

She never thought that she would have a story with the students' parents.

But life is like this, there are always unexpected things waiting for you.

02

On that day, Wang Lei had an important meeting and asked Xu Lin if she could let Tongtong stay at school for an extra hour.

It happened to be a rainy day, and Xu Lin left after a while, so she stayed with Tongtong at school and waited for her father.

An hour later, Wang Lei drove to pick up Tongtong.

To express his gratitude, Wang Lei invited Xu Lin to have dinner with them.

Xu Lin felt that this was what she should do and there was no need to say thank you.

But Wang Lei and Tongtong still couldn't resist their enthusiasm, so they went to eat beef hot pot together.

Wang Lei took the initiative to help Xu Lin rinse the vegetables, rinsing the tender meat for 10 seconds and the hanging dragon for 15 seconds. Wang Lei accurately knew how many seconds to rinse each type of meat and vegetables, not because he was familiar with this industry, but because Because he always takes the initiative to take care of others.

He behaved like a gentleman, decent, and courteous. She could not imagine how such a man could lead to divorce.

Slowly, Xu Lin and Wang Lei became familiar with each other.

Wang Lei often sends her WeChat messages, starting from talking about children, to life, to work, and later to relationships.

The progress of the relationship between Xu Lin and Wang Lei can be said to be assisted by the little guy Tongtong.

Tongtong especially likes Xu Lin. She likes to listen to her tell stories, play games with her, and listen to her gentle voice.

03

On that day, Tongtong’s birthday, her wish was that Teacher Xu Lin could come home to celebrate her birthday with her.

In order to satisfy Tongtong's wish, Wang Lei mustered up the courage to invite Xu Lin to his home.

The first time Xu Lin went to Wang Lei's house, she refreshed her understanding of divorced men. Wang Lei's home is not big, but it is very clean and tidy. There is not even a trace of dust in the gaps near the windows. Xu Lin praised him for taking good care of the house. He just smiled and said that he was used to it, and added that a clean home can make people feel good.

That day, Tongtong’s birthday wish was that she hope Teacher Xu Lin can be her mother.

Xu Lin thought it was just a joke, then Tongtong leaned into Xu Lin's ear and said, "Teacher Xu, my dad likes you so much. He often looks at your photos secretly."

It was also on that day that Wang Lei carefully expressed his feelings to her.

He said: "Teacher Xu, during the time I've been with you, I found that I like you quite a lot, just because I felt that I was divorced and had a daughter, so I was afraid that I wouldn't be worthy of you. So I never liked you. I dare to tell you."

"I didn't expect Tongtong to like you so much, so in order to give myself a chance, and to give Tongtong a chance, I think I'd like to express my feelings to you. Give us a chance and try dating me?”

It was so sudden that Xu Lin didn’t know how to reply.

Wang Lei quickly smoothed things over and said: "It doesn't matter. If you think it's too sudden, you can think about it first and don't reply to me in a hurry."

That night, Xu Lin and Wang Lei chatted A lot.

I learned that the reason for his divorce was because his ex-wife had an affair. Tongtong was only 3 years old at the time, and she was already pregnant with someone else's child.

Xu Lin did not expect that Wang Lei would have such a story. She suddenly felt a little sorry for this man, and she felt sorry for Tongtong.

She asked Wang Lei if he hated his ex-wife. Wang Lei said: "Hate can't change this fact. It's better to live with hatred than to live with happiness. After all, she gave birth to my baby Tongtong. I don’t want Tongtong to live in the shadow of her mother not wanting us since she was a child. Maybe I have a certain reason why she chose someone else. Maybe it’s because I was busy with work and neglected to care about her. However, I was a little bit confused about her at first. If you don’t want to live with me, you can file for divorce, instead of saying you won’t live with me if you have someone else’s child...”

From Wang Lei’s attitude towards his ex-wife, Xu Lin feels that he is a grateful person Man, even if his ex-wife hurt him, he is still grateful to her for giving him a daughter. She is also a person full of positive energy. He uses an optimistic and positive attitude to influence his daughter, so that her daughter can grow into a lively and cheerful person in a loving environment. , he is also a person who knows how to self-examine and reflect.

Xu Lin's favorability towards him rose to another level.

04

Later, the two came together.

At first, Xu Lin’s parents did not agree. They felt that Xu Lin could find a good match with anyone who had never been married. Why do you want to find Wang Lei, who is divorced and still has a profanity bottle?

Moreover, Wang Lei is 4 years older than her.

Helplessly, Xu Lin persisted.

And something happened later that made Xu Lin's parents relieved.

Xu Lin’s father fell accidentally and was injured for 100 days. He stayed in the hospital for several months.

During this period, Wang Lei stepped forward and carried Xu's father to wipe him, change clothes, and feed him, just like his own son.

Xu Lin also seized the opportunity to explain her feelings to her parents and talked about Wang Lei's advantages.

It doesn’t matter if you are divorced and have a daughter. As long as there is love for each other, this is not a problem. And if he has been divorced once, he will definitely know how to cherish it better. After all, if he has suffered a setback in his marriage, he will definitely know how to manage it better.

Also, Wang Lei knows how to care for people, take care of his family, and be responsible. Other conditions are also good. She runs a design studio by herself, has relatively free working hours, and her income is better than hers.

Speaking of Wang Lei, Xu Lin’s eyes sparkled.

This is probably what love looks like.

Xu Lin’s parents were finally relieved.

05

Xu Lin and Wang Lei entered into marriage.

In the second year after marriage, Xu Lin gave birth to a son.

Marriage life is indeed as she wished. Wang Lei treats her in every possible way and loves his son very much. His daughter Tongtong is also well-behaved and sensible, and the family of four is happy.

Wang Lei has experience in raising children. During Xu Lin’s confinement period, Wang Lei took the initiative to take care of the trivial matters of raising children.

Except for breastfeeding, he was unable to do anything himself.

He takes care of bathing, changing diapers, burping, etc. all by himself.

Xu Lin said that she wanted to learn how to take care of her son, but was always rejected by Wang Lei. He said: "Your task during confinement is to eat well, sleep well, rest well, and be in a good mood. Don't worry about anything else."

After Xu Lin’s maternity leave ended, Xu Lin’s mother came to help take care of the child.

When he is not busy at work, Wang Lei takes them on self-driving tours.

Wang Lei also said that when he retires, he will buy a RV and travel around the mountains and rivers with Xu Lin. Xu Lin feels very happy just thinking about it.

Xu Lin thought that happiness would last forever.

Until Wang Lei’s ex-wife suddenly appeared.

05

That day was Tongtong’s birthday.

Xu Lin got off work early and picked up Tongtong’s favorite cakes and birthday gifts, preparing to give her a surprise.

The moment I opened the door, I saw Wang Lei and a woman painting with Tongtong.

Before she knew who it was, she said: "A guest is coming!"

Before Wang Lei could speak, the other party said: "What guest? I It’s Tongtong’s mother!”

After saying that, she picked up the painting she and Tongtong had drawn together. It was a picture of a family of three, and Dese said: “Oh, Tongtong’s painting is good. Great, mom and dad are holding Tongtong's hands..."

Then, she also expressed her intention to come, or was declaring sovereignty to Xu Lin. She said: "For so many years, I have always I feel ashamed of Tongtong, I want to give Tongtong a complete family, and I want to remarry."

Xu Lin never expected that Wang Lei's ex-wife would show up like this. She was suddenly at a loss and felt like an outsider for a moment. She even began to doubt her original choice. She should have expected such a scene when she chose to marry a man for her second marriage.

She tried hard to control her emotions and behave like a sensible hostess.

Wang Lei held Xu Lin's hand tightly, called his ex-wife into a room and said: "You also know that you are so sorry for Tongtong, but you have never come to see Tongtong once. You said If you want to get divorced, get divorced. If you want to remarry, get remarried. I want to ask why?”

“I am a married woman now. My wife is Xu Lin. We are a very happy family. Please don't bother us again."

"Also, in these years, I have never told Tongtong that you are not at all, and I still defend you in front of Tongtong. I don't want her to think that her mother is. Tongtong didn't know about the scandalous things you did back then. If you want to keep a good image in Tongtong's heart, you should be more understanding."

"Come and deal with it. Birthdays are welcome. If you want to make my family uneasy, then I'm sorry, please come back." After saying that, the ex-wife felt that she couldn't stay any longer, so she gave Tongtong a red envelope. He said he had something to do and left.

Later, Xu Lin and Wang Lei heard that Wang Lei’s ex-wife divorced because she had cheated on her with a man, and she cheated on him with more than one person. It seems that in marriage, if you hurt the person who loves you in this way, others may repay you in the same way.

Wang Lei was lucky to have met Xu Lin. Second marriage is not easy. Fortunately, Wang Lei was able to understand his relationship with his ex-wife clearly during this marriage. He did not deal with his ex-wife's entanglements, but expressed his attitude clearly and neatly.

The next day, Tongtong added her younger brother to the painting of the family of three yesterday. < /p>

Xu Lin was also lucky. After being married to Wang Lei for five years, when Wang Lei's ex-wife proposed remarriage, she won without saying a word.