Maybe one day you can't help but stop at the door of the hotel you have been learning about, and your heart gradually surges. People usually regret it gradually at this time and gradually become more and more at a loss. Without him, the whole world seems to be getting darker and darker.
Read aloud, you simulate the scene of opening your mouth with him over and over again, imagine that he is open-minded and generous, and everyone will reunite. But back to reality, you still don't know how to speak, and you are afraid that if you make a mistake, you will be blacked out by the other party, and usually only a sigh will remain.
Then the problem is coming. How should I contact him if I want to be a compound student?
A girl sent that message to her ex:
I firmly believe that many affectionate people have posted similar messages to their ex-boyfriends after breaking up, so _ what is the difficulty in sending such messages to ex-boyfriends?
The first question is the excessive interpretation of large paragraphs.
As far as the real breakup is concerned, it is very exclusive for you to make it clear that the person who broke up is in a rebellious mood in a short time. A large piece of your information seems to him to be infringement or harassment, and always subconsciously rejects you.
The second question, if I realize the problem, will he ask you to forgive me? If I correct my previous mistake and promise it won't happen again, will he get back together with me
Obviously not! What are the skills of compound chatting with ex-girlfriends?
The feelings of boys and girls are attractive. When the other party clearly decides to break up with you, it means that the attraction between everyone has been broken. Attraction is not achieved overnight, and it is often unpredictable. It's not something you can recreate by correcting a stupid thing. Retention must not be rushed for success, this is a whole process of creating secondary attraction.
The third question, can I impress him with my heart?
"I understand the teacher. What can I do to impress him now?" As a new student, I often encounter such problems.
In my senior year, I witnessed a girl struggling to retain her boyfriend.
It was still March, and it was very cold. Needless to say, it was raining cats and dogs, but I saw that girl standing under the floor of the boys' dormitory with a bag of snacks and calling her boyfriend: Would you come out for a few minutes? I do have something to tell you. I bought you your favorite snack ... that girl just stood under the floor without an umbrella.
When I came back from the dining hall, the girl was still standing still, but the human body was already cold and cramped, and the precipitation on her face and tears could not be distinguished. I was thinking at that time, this brother is really heartless. After all, he once loved each other. Why be so heartless?
However, if you consider it objectively, breaking up shows that you have lost your attraction. Imagine that someone you don't love very much puts a candle downstairs to tell you how you feel.
When he clears your negative information, impression and mentality, it is not appropriate. Not only can't impress each other, but they will continue to lower their posture endlessly, leaving everyone's contact out of balance.
So, if the impression is really effective, that girl won't have to stand in the rain downstairs in the boys' dormitory all the time.
How should information content be distributed?
Today, I strongly recommend an opening word: attack and defense:
"I dreamed of you yesterday."
Why do they say they can attack and defend? First of all, they are a little interesting, and the other party can certainly understand them, so as to find a more natural excuse for opening the topic discussion, thus avoiding the embarrassment of sudden contact.
If the other person's reply is indifferent, it's much the same: Oh, well, hehehe, why not make a humorous family joke and end the topic discussion. It means that the other person is no longer attracted to you. At this time, don't strongly raise the boundaries of association.
But if the other person's response is more positive and similar: Really, what dream, what dream about me ... Then you need to choose words carefully and grasp this valuable dialog box.
What problems must be paid attention to if the topic is found successfully?
0 1, talk less about the past
After the breakup of Avengers 4, many people habitually ask some such difficult questions: How have you been recently? How have you been recently ... Asking such a difficult question is not only embarrassing to start a topic discussion, but also incorrect in essence. But many people especially like to talk about this topic after asking this difficult question: do you remember everyone before? .....
Why should I break up with you? How to treat the hint that ex-girlfriend wants to get back together?
Isn't it because you behaved badly before?
If you mention the story of Chen Zhi's rotten hemp in the past, you just want to remind the other person of your good memories. But beyond that, isn't it easy to bring back memories that made him sad in the past, or damage his memory? Understand that not long after breaking up, painful memories have always been more impressive than unforgettable memories!
You keep mentioning the past, which is equivalent to letting him make sure that breaking up is the right choice again.
02, the focus is now, talk more about change.
After Avengers 4, you should talk more about change, and now you are getting better and better. But don't take the initiative to say how you realized it was incorrect, and then correct the wrong changes. Unless the other person takes the initiative to ask, naturally, when the other person can take the initiative to ask you such a difficult question, it means that he is interested in getting back together with you.
This is easy to say, but it is difficult for most people to ensure that they can change and improve themselves under the supervision of professionals.
Seeing this, why not stop, spend a little time and thought, make an effective overall plan on where and how to change yourself, and what operation steps or plans are there, and then implement them one by one.
It is not easy for people who break up with you to care too much about your past, but always pay attention to how you are getting better and better now. If your looks are getting better and better, and your daily life and social media are getting richer and richer, the other person will be interested in exploring you again. How to treat the hint that ex-girlfriend wants to get back together?
03. Don't forcibly raise the boundaries of the association.
Once some people find a topic with their ex-boyfriends, they can't help asking each other what our relationship is, and even put forward the compound type with each other immediately on the premise of mastering it.
This kind of person usually shouts the banner of affection. In fact, it is because he can't live alone in his daily life and can't cope with his loneliness. Without each other, the world is getting darker and darker, and he has to get back together urgently.
The real complexity is unintentional, but if you can live well alone and the world is already bright, invite your ex-boyfriend to enjoy those beautiful things with you. At that time, the other party looked at you differently and was attracted to you again.
What are the skills of compound chatting with ex-girlfriends? Believe in yourself, if you really attract the other person again, he will definitely ask you: What is our connection now? Or deliberately scold you for your past mistakes. At this time, it is the golden time for you to explicitly propose to get back together.