In this imperfect world, diligence is rewarded and idleness is punished. This is what the British novelist Maugham once said. But will hard work and hard work really pay off?
In real life, many people work hard all their lives, but still struggle with food and clothing; some people live a happy life despite doing nothing.
So there is nothing wrong with working hard, but you must work hard on the right path, otherwise you will only go in the opposite direction, and the harder you work, the farther away you will be from success.
Feng Lun said that success is actually not difficult. As long as you do three things, you can become rich through hard work and live the life you want.
Who is Feng Lun? One of China's top richest men, one of my country's real estate leaders, and the founder of Vantone Group. He has been working hard in the business world for decades and has rich experience in making money and getting rich.
So, if you want to get rid of poverty and become a rich man like Feng Lun, you might as well learn his "3 don'ts".
I saw this sentence on the Internet: "This world does not belong to the post-80s generation, nor does it belong to the post-90s generation, nor does it belong to the post-00s generation. It only belongs to one kind of people, and that is the 'thick-skinned' people." . ”
Many successful people agree with this statement. Feng Lun once said that giving face to others means respecting others, lowering oneself, and wronging oneself. This kind of person, who wrongs himself for the sake of face, ends up not getting the face he wants.
Zheng Yuanjie said in "Pipiru and the 419 Sins": "The result of wanting face is mostly losing face."
Those who have watched the TV series "Thirty Only" Everyone knows that it was not Lin Youyou who ruined Xu Huanshan, but Xu Huanshan's face. Anyone who cares about face has a deep inferiority complex hidden deep in his bones.
This is because they do not have any competitive strength, and fellow travelers can use their self-esteem to cover up their incompetence. The role of face is now a fig leaf to cover up his incompetence.
People who have no ability care about face the most.
There is a good saying in the movie "The Grandmaster":
"When people live in the world, some live for face, and some live for lizi. And only lizi can do it." Win real face. ”
You can only win real face if you use your strength as your backbone. A person's success begins with the courage to "lose face".
Feng Lun said in "Holding on is the Skill", don't always focus on short-term benefits, not all choices will be beneficial immediately.
Whether life is long or short depends on how you look at it. In the eyes of frogs, the world has always been a well. In the eyes of the soaring eagle, the world is an endless ocean.
As a human being, you only have yourself to compare yourself with. You can make a little progress every day.
Today’s world is not black and white. For everything, you must learn to look at it in two and learn to analyze problems from a long-term and holistic perspective.
The greed in a person's bones will make him unable to see anything else except the immediate interests.
Writer Miss Hui once said that there was a restaurant owner who was unwilling to increase wages for his employees even if he made more money. When asked the reason, he said, what if the business is not good next year.
Later, he found that the soy sauce consumption was too high, so he tried every means to get a bottle that was difficult to squeeze out. Unexpectedly, when he took stock at the end of the month, he found that the soy sauce consumption had risen instead of falling. Only then did I realize that the customer couldn’t squeeze out the soy sauce, so he just opened the lid and poured it in.
Therefore, people who are short-sighted and care about everything will only fetter themselves. This boss is like this, so the losses continue to mount.
Feng Lun said that making money is sometimes not necessarily about ability. Making money is sometimes related to luck, but continuing to make money is related to ability. So if you want your career to last, you must be willing to give it up.
You can’t just look at the immediate interests and lock you into your inherent cognition. Instead, you should learn to think in reverse, work backwards, and consider the problem from the end to the beginning, 30 or 40 years later.
Only those who look at today from the future will be happy.
Human beings instinctively like to stay in a pressure-free and comfortable area. But this comfort zone is the beginning of a person's fall; the easy road is always downhill...
If a person stays in the comfort zone for a long time, he will become useless. Stepping out of the comfort zone may not necessarily lead to success, but if you don't step out of the comfort zone, you will 100% not succeed.
So if you want to succeed, you have to get yourself out of your comfort zone and give yourself some sweetness that makes you want to take action and change.
People cannot become gods, but they can try to become the people next to God; it is difficult for people to become great people, but they can at least try to become the friends of great people.
Feng Lun said that the reason why he is successful is that he is always filtering and making decisions between today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, and yesterday.