You can tell your parents to ask me for money. I don't know if my parents agree that it is not easy for you to earn money by working, but now you can finally benefit, so I want to experience the feeling of collecting money. Or do you really need money at home? If the family is not very short of money, you can tell your parents to give them living expenses every year, and the specific amount can be discussed.

About your boyfriend's mood. Since you are both considering getting married, you should consider managing your finances after marriage. Be respectful to both parents and be fair after marriage.

Because you need a lot of money to start your own new family, he instinctively doesn't want your parents to do so. I think it's understandable.

I suggest you communicate with your parents and boyfriends.