Both are very important and complement each other, and neither side can be completely denied. The key is to determine the "battlefield" you want to fight according to the actual situation now, and then use the pre-designed questions to contain the other party in your own battlefield.
It is very important to put forward opinions. The key is to describe the actual situation and need your position more. The key is this restriction.
Preparation is also important. It is necessary to guess the conditions and reasons that the other party may offer, and think of ways to deal with them in advance. Then prepare your own questions, assign free debates in advance and divide them into several stages, and those questions are responsible for the transition. Then there is the "artillery" campaign. Debate skills are very important. You should attack, defend and cooperate with each other. Famous sayings are not the basis of winning. The key is to make everyone feel that your side is more reasonable and responsible. The era of argument is over.
Any debate will have a certain tendency, which is more beneficial to the moral cultivation party. Whose side are you on?
It coincided with the school's golden autumn class exhibition, and the school arranged to hold a theme class meeting. Because the Golden Autumn Class Exhibition is a demonstration of the strength of a school, it has a wide range of demonstrations and great influence, which is related to the reputation and image of the school. After accepting the task, I feel deeply responsible.
I. Selection of themes
A good theme is not only convenient for the excavation and processing of class meeting content, but also of great educational significance to students. School leaders, classmates and myself have just put forward several themes, such as "carrying forward the spirit of the Long March", "environmental protection issues", "how to learn", "how to communicate" and "creating a harmonious class group". Considering that the theme should be consistent with the main theme of the times, I chose the theme of "harmonious individuals and harmonious classes". Facts have proved that the choice of this theme is very correct, as a classmate later mentioned in his speech: "In this golden autumn, all China is filled with harmonious fragrance! Since the Party Central Committee put forward the great idea of "building a harmonious society" at the Sixth Plenary Session of the Sixteenth Central Committee, the whole society has taken action, and we must not fall behind. " Later, President Li's speech on "building a harmonious campus" under the national flag and the signatures of all teachers and students in the school for building a harmonious campus all powerfully illustrated this point. Therefore, it can also be said that this theme class meeting is a powerful extension of the school's activities to create a harmonious campus, which is very timely and meaningful.
Second, the class meeting preparation
As the saying goes, "three minutes on stage, three years off stage", a 45-minute class can't be done without careful preparation. In fact, the core of setting up a theme class meeting is not the process of class, but the preparation. The main process of the theme class meeting is activity and discussion. After determining the theme, we should design the activity mode and discussion content around this theme.
1. Everyone in the class writes a weekly diary with the theme of "How to create a harmonious class group". The idea at that time was to make the whole class clear about the meaning of creation, unify their thinking and let everyone participate. Later, it was found that the writing of this weekly diary provided great convenience for the design of activities and the discussion of class meetings. In the weekly diary, the students not only unearthed some common disharmonies in the class and campus, but also put forward many concrete suggestions on how to create a harmonious class, which provided the direction for the later lesson preparation work.
2. Determine the activity form. First, in view of some disharmonious phenomena listed by the students in Zhou Ji, we asked the students in the class to capture them with digital cameras, load them into the computer and make short films with flash. Once some accustomed disharmony phenomena appear on the projection in the form of animation, coupled with what happened to the students around us, it can also have a shocking effect; Secondly, in view of the problem of poor discipline in evening self-study mentioned by most students in Zhou Ji, some class committees put forward to arrange sketches to reveal some disharmonious phenomena in evening self-study; Thirdly, since we are a newly formed class since the second year of high school, in order to advocate unity and mutual assistance, we decided to rehearse a poem reading. This is because poetry is synonymous with youth, and poetry can enter students' hearts well. Fourthly, in order to set off the atmosphere, we decided to rehearse a song to create an atmosphere of unity, harmony and progress. Later, everyone unanimously chose "A Family Who Loves each other", with beautiful melody and positive, healthy and energetic lyrics. Fifth, issue a blackboard newspaper with the theme of creating a harmonious class collective.
3. Determine the topic for discussion. According to the theme and activities of the class meeting, we have established the following topics: 1. Besides what is mentioned in the short film, what are the discordant things in the class? Second, how do we study at night? Third, what are the phenomena around us that deserve our continued development? Fourth, now that we know what harmony is, what is a phenomenon and what is not, and have a good desire to create a harmonious class, what should we do next? After discussion by the class committee, the fourth topic was decided as the key topic.
4. Selection of activities and discussants. Although the activities and discussions are well designed, the key is to implement the activities. Only with clear responsibilities and specific division of labor can we be efficient. According to the nomination of the Class Committee and the Youth League Committee and the recommendation of the whole class, we have a clear division of labor for each activity. First, the publicity Committee is responsible for publishing blackboard newspapers and determining the photographers of digital photos; Second, the squad leader and the communist youth league secretary are responsible for the creation of sketches and the determination of performers respectively; Third; The Life Committee is responsible for determining the personnel who recite poems; Fourth, the vice squad leader should establish the core personnel to participate in the discussion; Fifth, members of the Culture and Entertainment Committee should determine who will take part in the singing. Finally, the students unanimously elected a lively and cheerful vice monitor as the host of the class meeting. Influenced by the students' active preparation, I took the initiative to write the poem "We come from different directions".
5. Before opening. When some activities are almost ready, they will be held one week in advance. Many problems have been found: first, most students in the class have never held a formal theme class meeting, and they don't know how to place their seats or even where to sit; Second, the projection of the class is broken, and short films and music can't be played; Third, the students' speeches are not in line with the theme, and some are quite different; Fourth, more importantly, there is too little time for activities and discussions, and the capacity is insufficient, only about 35 minutes. We solved the problems one by one. Especially in view of the lack of content, we finally decided to add a classmate to give a speech on "Let Civilization and Etiquette Bloom Harmonious Flowers" and let the Propaganda Committee of the Youth League Branch read the "Proposal on Creating a Harmonious Class" to enrich the activities.
Third, the class meeting record (fragment)
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(Moderator) Now that we have recognized some disharmonies that need to be corrected, with the desire to create a harmonious class group, what should we do in our future study and life?
(Student A) I think that if we want to build a harmonious class group, we should start with improving the environment of self-study at night, because three hours of self-study at night is as important as attending classes during the day, which is the only time we can control, but we don't pay attention to it in class. To improve the utilization efficiency of evening self-study, we must first establish a harmonious atmosphere. Don't talk casually and make strange noises at night, don't read miscellaneous books and do things unrelated to study, but concentrate.
(Student B) Just now, my classmates mentioned the use of evening self-study. I think we can do it from these aspects: first, we must make plans and make arrangements for the whole evening self-study; Second, finish your homework as soon as possible, especially don't forget the "soft" homework, that is, you should "watch" and "remember" your homework yourself; Third, we should do our own time and learn to forage; Fourth, don't violate discipline, because it will not only affect students and classes, but also affect your mood.
(Student C) In my opinion, to create a harmonious class group, students should be modest in addition to a good evening self-study environment. Here I want to tell a story:
During the period of Kang Yong in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, was an official in Beijing. When a family was building auspicious symbols in Tongcheng, they had an argument with their neighbors and refused to give up their three-foot homestead. The lawsuit hit the county government. Manager Zhang quickly sent a letter to Zhang, hoping that he would write an accommodating letter to the magistrate. After Zhang saw the letter from home, he replied with a poem: Why not ask a book for a road wall? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still here today. Who has seen Qin Shihuang? After receiving the letter, the manager deeply understood Zhang's thought of harmony, comity, openness and understanding, and immediately gave up three feet of land. Neighbors see the Zhang family retreat three feet, and then retreat three feet. The two families not only solved the lawsuit, but also left a six-foot wide roadway for passers-by, which greatly facilitated the neighbors.
This story tells us that humility makes our road wider and wider, and humility brings us harmony. Similarly, if we can be modest in life, it will also reduce a lot of friction. For example, when eating, walk slowly and let the weak students arrange first; Do more when on duty, so that students who are on duty at the same time do less; When others accidentally offend us, we respond with a faint smile, and so on. These are all manifestations of humility, which can better reflect our moral cultivation and civic quality and will certainly bring us harmony.
(Sheng Ding) I think that if we want to create a harmonious class group, we should not only be modest, but also carry forward the spirit of unity, because creating a harmonious class is not done by individual strength, but by the efforts of all of us. If there are students in the class who have difficulties, we should help each other. For example, C's foot is burnt, so we should do what we can to help him, such as buying food and helping him up the stairs.
I think if we want to create a harmonious class group, everyone should realize their own shortcomings. Take myself as an example. I am easy to talk, and I often can't control my mouth, so I often talk during class, lunch break and sleep, and I often violate discipline because of this, which not only affects the honor of the class, but also destroys the harmonious atmosphere, so my current priority is to get rid of this problem. If everyone can recognize their mistakes and correct them, I think it will be good for us to create a harmonious collective.
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Fourth, some reflection.
When I first accepted the task, I was a little nervous. First, there is no precedent and no rules to follow for such a large-scale class opening activity. Second, for a newly established class, I am not very familiar with every student in the class, especially their specialties; Third, in the face of so many foreign teachers and journalists, can students perform well? It turned out that my idea was alarmist, and the result was completely unexpected.
1. I didn't expect the enthusiasm of the students to be so high. At first, I thought that students were afraid of affecting their studies and were not interested in this kind of class, which was almost a show. I didn't expect many students to find me to offer suggestions for this course, recommend suitable activities and discussion candidates to me, and some even volunteered to participate in the performance. They actively use extracurricular activities to rehearse sketches, sing songs and recite poems, so some students give up many lunch breaks and meals. It is worth mentioning that in the process of class meeting, because the students who participated in the discussion in front were a little nervous, they forgot to say a lot of things they wanted to say, and finally they seemed to have free time. At this time, several students raised their hands and asked to speak, especially Xiao Q. They bravely dissected themselves and pointed out what they had not done enough to give everyone a warning.
I didn't expect the class Committee to play such a big role. I used to think that the class Committee was just a decoration, and I could only do some routine work at most, and it was impossible to play a real role. However, in the preparation of this class meeting, the class Committee played a decisive role. They are almost perfect in designing plans, looking for activists and writing lines. This updated my concept of class management and began to dare to let them manage independently.
I didn't expect the education effect to be so good. In the past, I was afraid that activities would distract students and affect their studies, so some unnecessary activities would not be carried out. Even some theme class meetings required by the school are as simple as possible (this is also the practice of most class teachers at present). Class meetings are basically taught by themselves, and the effect is not good. This theme class meeting has really promoted a lot of students, and the phenomenon of violation of discipline has been significantly reduced compared with before. I can consider the problem from the sense of class honor, and the work on duty is also serious and responsible. In the process of preparing for the class meeting, another episode happened. A classmate recommended a classmate in our brother's class to arrange a sketch. It is said that he is an expert, but after a few days, he still didn't make them up. Later, through their own efforts, our monitor and the secretary of the Youth League branch finally made a successful arrangement, which also gave us great enlightenment. We mainly rely on our own efforts and can't pin our hopes on others.