1. Too much pain and misfortune in life are caused by wanting to live like others instead of being like yourself. The price of envying others is often losing yourself.

2. As long as you do your best and have no regrets. Gained or lost, just be content. Fate comes together, fate breaks up, just go with it. What is supposed to come will always come, what is supposed to go cannot be kept, just let everything take its course.

3. Anger is punishing oneself with other people’s mistakes; worry is torturing oneself with one’s own faults; regret is using helpless past events to destroy oneself; worry is using virtual risks to frighten oneself; loneliness is using self-control A prison cell confines oneself; inferiority is using the strengths of others to undermine oneself. Only by giving up these things can we be happier!

4. Ten years ago, the people around you would treat you based on your parents’ income; ten years later, the people around you will treat your parents and your children based on your income. This is human nature and life, you have no choice but to work hard.

5. No matter how hard you work today, the fallen leaves will still fall down tomorrow. There are many things in the world that cannot be planned in advance. Live in the moment, do it and cherish it!

6. Everyone has two paths in life, one is walked with the heart, which is called dream; the other is walked with feet, which is called reality. If the heart walks too slowly, reality will be pale; if the feet walk too slowly, dreams will not fly high. The splendor of life is always that the heart walks beautifully and can be one with the footsteps.

7. Life is short, time should be reserved for meeting the most exciting things. Truly understanding what we want is a task we must do throughout our lives.

8. Don’t cause trouble to yourself, and don’t cause trouble to others. To be good to yourself, you have to be attentive; to be good to others, you have to care. When you look at others, trouble arises; when you look at yourself, wisdom arises. If you understand others, you will be a good person; if you understand yourself, you will do things well.

9. The world will not treat you suddenly just because of how miserable you are. What people look forward to most in a difficult situation is an instant reversal, and they need "something from heaven" to solve their urgent needs. And even if something good comes from heaven after a while, we will not be so lucky and grateful. We may have forgotten the misery of the year.

10. No matter how you live, there will always be people making irresponsible remarks about you behind your back. Not defending, not caring, just laughing it off is actually the best form of contempt.

11. Understanding what you cannot understand is learning. Accepting what you cannot accept is growth. Admitting what you cannot admit is acceptance. Forgetting what you cannot forget is letting go. Life is about constantly learning, growing, accepting, and letting go.

12. Learn to ignore. If you ignore an imposition that does not belong to you, you will be relieved of a burden that does not belong to you; if you ignore a fairness that does not belong to you, you can strive for an opportunity that does not belong to you. ; Ignoring things that you can't focus on is the most direct leap forward in life.

13. The reality is dim and sad. Favors are taken lightly and worries are not filled. I have lost sight of fate and gather and disperse as I wish. The right and wrong are downplayed, and the care becomes superficial. Take success or failure lightly, just go with your heart. Gains and losses are downplayed, and you feel at ease.

14. Perhaps, life is an ordinary journey, with suffering and joy, enjoying the suffering, while exploring and collecting beautiful scenery; perhaps, life is just an ordinary game. , poverty, wealth, happiness, anger, sorrow, joy, all depend on luck, the cards are dealt, and the cards are constantly shuffled.

15. In front of different people, you will naturally show different sides. If you want a more worthwhile life, it is actually very simple. It is nothing more than choosing to spend more time with those who can inspire your good side, and at the same time, meet or interact less with those who may induce your less good side.

16. Things in the world are never absolute, and the results completely vary from person to person. Suffering is only a stepping stone to heaven, a fortune to capable people, and an abyss to the weak.

17. Work hard when it’s time to work, have fun when it’s time to play, learn to appreciate people who are better than you, and don’t despise those who are down and out. This is the so-called "carrying things clearly". This is the best state of being and doing things.

18. In this world, no matter how you live, there are always people who will gossip, no matter what you do, there will always be people pointing fingers, no matter how good and right you are, there are still people who say you are not good or that you are wrong. Right, wrong, wrong, right, wrong, right, different positions, different situations, the conclusions are completely different. There is nothing that is not commented on, and there is no person that is not discussed. Cherish what you think is worth it! Being a human being is easier said than done. It is difficult to appeal to thousands of people, and it is difficult to attract a large number of people. Just have a clear conscience!

19. Seeing does not mean seeing; seeing does not mean seeing clearly; seeing clearly does not mean understanding; understanding does not mean seeing through; seeing through does not mean seeing through.

20. Life only sells one-way tickets, the past is past, don’t look back frequently, bloom wherever it exists. To be a human being, one must have inner silence and a sense of urgency and unhurriedness.

21. The reason why you are too tired is because you are too strong and too sensitive. Think of others in everything. Even if one day you can't hold on anymore and are tired, no one will feel sorry for you or sympathize with you. Because in their eyes, this is what you are willing to do. If you are too accommodating to others, they will make things more difficult for you. If you tolerate others too much, they will go further and hurt you.

22. People, don’t be self-righteous. Anyone who leaves the earth will turn around. Throughout the ages, those who rely on their talents and unbridled people have not had a good end. Therefore, no matter how capable you are, you must remain humble and prudent and do your own thing well.

23. People often worry about gains and losses when they take themselves too seriously, and feel that others must understand them. In fact, people have to look down on themselves, be less self-conscious, and have more empathy, in order to be happy. As the saying goes, how big your heart is, how happy you are; the more you tolerate, the more you get.

24. There are four hardships in life: one is not being able to see through. I can't see through the entanglements in interpersonal relationships and the hidden wounds after fights. I can't see through the dullness in the hustle and bustle. I can't see through the tranquility after prosperity. The second is reluctance. I can't bear to part with the wonderful and unreliable years, the vanity of being high and the applause of success. The third is that you can’t afford to lose. You can't afford to lose a relationship, or you can't afford to lose a part of your life. Fourth, I can’t let go. I can’t let go of the people and things that have gone far, and I can’t let go of the right and wrong that have long been dusty.