1. The process of growing up is like holding a bunch of keys in your hand to open the door. Some people open it all at once, while others try several keys to open it. It can't be opened, and what's even more tragic is that some people have tried it all and the door is still locked because they got the wrong key. Growth cannot be rushed. You have to believe that everything is the best arrangement now. What you are experiencing now may be what others are looking forward to. ——"Young Tears, Don't Worry About Vicissitudes"

2. The most fearful thing about getting along with friends is: you don't believe what you see about me, but you believe what others say about me.

3. You have to learn to be responsible for your own choices: if you break up with yourself, don’t expect others to come back to you, and if you die by yourself, don’t think that anyone can tolerate you. Admitting your mistakes doesn't mean you have to be forgiven, and being forgiven doesn't mean you can go back to the past. Everyone is growing, and those who are slower are not qualified to join hands. Not all the rhythm is decided by you, the other party also has the right to choose. There is not so much sugar for you in life, welcome to the world of adults. ——Qidian

4. Always take the consequences too seriously and make it difficult for yourself. Just like when I failed the exam in elementary school, I stood at the door of my house and didn't dare to knock on the door. In fact, there was a steaming meal on the other side of the door and my mother's words, "It's okay, I'll take the test well next time." Looking back, most of the things that once made me sleepless were lost to my imagination.

5. A person is in a good state. He reads when he wants to read, goes to bed when he is tired, eats whatever he wants, and keeps quiet for a while if he doesn’t want to contact anyone. What if he goes on a trip or stays at home? All good. It's best to stay a little bit hysterical about love, don't start casually, and don't rush to compromise. Nothing that is truly worth it will come easily. Cherish the days when you can still be single, "I don't mind being alone, it's more comfortable than loving you."

6. You never know how many versions of you there will be in other people's mouths, nor do you know what others have said to slander you in order to defend themselves, let alone those unrealistic gossips. And all you can do is ignore it, and there is no need to explain or clarify. People who understand you will always believe you. My favorite saying: If you are not blind, don’t know me from other people’s mouths!

7. I have done a lot of stupid things over the years. The most stupid thing is to use your own incompetence and desires to generate a lot of anger and hurt the people closest to you.

8. There is a question on Zhihu, "Why do I feel more sad when I get older when watching Stephen Chow's movies?" The answer with the most likes ended with, "The reason is that we have all changed. It has become what we hated at first. I used to think it was ridiculous to act like that, but now I find that people are really like that.” - We defend Stephen Chow, who was originally far away from being sleek and sophisticated.

9. One withered flower cannot waste the entire spring, and one setback cannot waste the entire life.

10. Break up with friends as soon as they break up. Don’t talk behind your back. When she was good, she worked hard for you. Don’t tell everyone she’s not good. It’s not good for people to trust you back then. Be friends with you? When I play with you, I am willing to expose my ugly behavior in front of you, not just to make you laugh in the future. When friends turn against each other, it's a matter of stance, and what they say and do after the turn is a matter of style.

11. You must work hard from now on, because only if you live well can you be qualified to give the greatest counterattack to those who once looked down on you.

12. What we fear most is not meeting the right person at the wrong age, but that we spend all our courage at the wrong age.

13. There is still a long way to go. You may cry, but you must keep going and never stop.

14. In fact, everyone is lonely in the end, so there is no need to rely on others or gain all understanding. Loneliness is the shadow of life. Only with shadows can there be sunshine in front of you.

15. Do not presume malice on others, do not use personal gain to cause trouble for others, do not belittle yourself, and do not slander others. This is the most basic requirement for yourself.

16. If you wait too long for many things, they are often not what you originally wanted them to be. Even if you get them, they lose their original meaning. (m.taiks.com) The scenery you want to see and the people you want to meet will be exhausted after waiting too long, and the missed years cannot be made up for. Enjoy your youth, you will never be younger than you are now.

17. It’s not that the other person takes you too lightly, but that you take him too seriously. Behind all the neglect and indifference, there must be a fool who gives without limit. If you don't value yourself, how can you be important in the eyes of others?

18. Don’t look for some entertainment methods that are not suitable for you just because you are lonely, cater to some groups that do not belong to you, and love people who are within your reach. Everyone is lonely sometimes. Many people are not the lively and wealthy people you think they are. You just don't see their unknown loneliness. Don't let the temporary emptiness disrupt your persistence and your thoughts. We are all the same. We must learn to endure the inevitable loneliness in life. Only after we have passed it can we see the beauty and prosperity.

19. When you are in a bad mood, you should always tell yourself that the world is big, there are many opportunities, and life is short. Don’t huddle in a small shadow.

20. Like is joy at first sight, but love lasts for a long time.