I don't have my own unique views on many things, because I have little experience and see less things, so I have no vision.
In my thirties, I have experienced a lot, learned a lot and seen a lot. Nature has its own unique views, and its eyes on men are also changing.
When you are young, you may think it's important to look good, but in your thirties, you will feel that the inside is more important.
But when women reach middle age and 40 s, they will look at men differently.
At this time, what women yearn for is pure, and the communication with people is also pure. If they don't like complicated things, just go straight and love themselves. This man is still responsible.
A woman in her forties is definitely not a bunch of roses, a necklace, a kiss and a hug. At this age, women in their forties have almost everything they should have.
The days of struggle have passed, and it is basically a foregone conclusion. At this time, women are more eager for spiritual and psychological communication.
Therefore, if women in their forties are single, the man they long for should be the man who understands, cares about and has shoulders. He doesn't need to be handsome or rich, as long as a heart can fit himself.
0 1: People who know themselves.
There are many friends around, but few people can talk to themselves. How many people can talk to themselves? Probably not much. When a woman is in her forties, she wants nothing else. The most important thing is to find a man who knows himself. You don't need too many words and expressions to be with this man.
The most important thing is that two people can talk together, and then the man will know everything he hasn't said yet. This kind of man can definitely get it, but it is not desirable.
What are the difficulties for women in their forties? It is nothing more than educating children to be tired and have great pressure in life. If women are still single at this time, they may often feel lonely at night.
At this time, unlike young girls, you can go out crazy or find friends to get drunk.
Even if they feel uncomfortable again, they can only carry it on their own and endure it.
At this time, if there is a man who absolutely understands her, she can understand what he is thinking without saying much.
For example, when you want a drink, he will never let you drink it. When you want to eat fish, he will never take you to eat hot pot. This is really getting to know you.
Xia Xia is 45 years old, divorced and now lives alone. Her last marriage was a chicken feather, and she finally came out.
After the divorce, she likes to stop and go, go alone and travel around. In the three years after the divorce, she has been to many places.
On a trip, she met Xiaogang, who was three years younger than her, but she didn't feel younger at all. She even thinks that this man is more mature than her.
After the two left contact information with each other, they contacted a lot more frequently. Two people actually live in the same city.
So the two often make an appointment to drink tea, travel and hike together.
Both are activities that they like each other. Xiaogang is a man who seldom talks, but he talks about topics of interest. Xia Xia listened patiently and never interrupted.
Xiao Gang knows Xia Xia very well. He remembers what she likes and doesn't eat.
He knows where Xia Xia likes best and where he likes to go when he is in a bad mood.
I also know what kind of clothes Xia Xia likes and what skin care products to use. Anyway, as long as it is related to Xia Xia, he will keep it in mind.
It was such a man who knew himself and captured Xia Xia. She thought she would never meet love again, but love appeared inadvertently, and it was true love
02: Respect your own man
What is the basis of communication between people? Respect. Men's respect for women; Women's respect for men; Young people's respect for the elderly; The respect of the elderly for the young; Students' respect for teachers; Teachers' respect for students; Employees' respect for leaders; The leader's respect for employees.
You will find that in fact, in society, people have to learn to respect others, and others will respect themselves.
What women want most is actually the respect of men. Does this woman have her own career or stay at home as a housewife?
She wants to be respected. I have a classmate who has been a full-time wife at home since she got married. She hasn't asked about her husband's job for many years, and she has forgotten what it's like to work.
My husband is disrespecting her more and more. Sometimes she asks her husband something he doesn't understand. Her husband is particularly impatient. You don't understand what he said, so why ask so many questions?
Sometimes, the family never discusses anything important with her. The husband only discusses it with his parents, and sometimes with his buddies and friends.
It is obvious that his wife is the third child in this family, but he says that his wife knows nothing, and it is useless to say it.
This is a typical disrespect for women. A woman chooses to marry you because she chooses to stay at home for you and gives up her job, career and social value.
Just to be a good wife and mother and realize my family attributes. She sacrificed so much for you, but in the end you turned her down, which made her feel sad.
If a man can't respect his wife between husband and wife, then this marriage is doomed to fail.
Of course, women should also learn to respect men. Only by respecting each other can this marriage be considered healthy.
DOG:
When a woman is over 40, what really excites her is a man who understands her and respects her.
These two qualities appear in a man, and that is the best. If not, there must be.
As a middle-aged woman, if she is not divorced, childless or married, then she must have her own insistence, and she must be waiting for the right person.