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Speak politely
Americans have developed the habit of being polite since childhood. In daily life, even when talking to parents, brothers and sisters at home, polite expressions such as "hello", "please" and "sorry" will be used.
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Respect personal privacy
The United States is a country that attaches great importance to personal privacy. Americans don't ask new friends any questions about personal economy, religion and politics, such as "How much do you earn every month?" "Who's in your home? Where does your father work? " How much did you pay for this house? "Who will you choose in this presidential election? 」
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Female courtesy
Americans usually don't ask the age of women (especially middle-aged women). Educated men usually take the lead in opening doors for women, requiring them to get on or off the elevator first. If they walk in the street with women, men will walk near the car to protect the safety of the women who walk with them.
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Law-abiding and public morality
In America, everyone must obey the traffic rules. Never run a red light or jaywalk. Be sure to cross the road at the intersection and watch the traffic lights.
When Americans have to queue up to buy things, they always queue up in the order of arrival. If someone cuts in line illegally, say, "Sorry, I'm waiting in line here! Sorry, I think I'm next. ) It's embarrassing to say "Oh, I'm sorry" to the convenience and then stand at the back of the big row.
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Dress for the occasion
Americans wear different clothes on different occasions, regardless of status. When dignitaries go to parties such as picnics or mountain climbing, they must also wear casual clothes and sports shoes. On the contrary, even cleaners have to wear suits and ties when they go to formal banquets. Therefore, when Americans are invited to participate in social activities, they must ask in advance what clothes they should wear on this occasion. People in China should pay special attention to it. In the United States, "pajamas" are clothes that can only be worn indoors, and they should never be worn outdoors.
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The banquet emphasizes the atmosphere.
When Americans invite people to dinner at home, they pay special attention to the atmosphere of the banquet. The knives, forks, plates and napkins on the table will be beautifully arranged, but the guests may not really eat anything delicious. American cooking is either raw, boiled or baked in the oven, which is simple, convenient and easy to control the time, so when the guests arrive, the hostess has prepared everything, dishes and rice. At this time, the hostess's main task is to chat with all the guests. If she has to be busy in the kitchen at this time, it is impolite according to American rules. Because of this, it is best to be about ten minutes late when invited to an American home for dinner, so as to give the hostess more time to prepare.
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Adults get together, but children are not invited.
Although America is a paradise for children, most adult parties do not welcome children to attend. Therefore, when young parents in the United States participate in social activities, they must find a nanny several weeks in advance so that they can go home to look after their children. Nannies are paid by the hour. Occasionally, if the host says that she can bring her children to the party, the mother will always remind them to pay attention to their words and deeds, be obedient and be polite before going out. So American children are obedient and polite when they are guests outside.
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Mind is the most important thing.
Americans don't like to give big gifts, but when invited to American families for dinner, it is very popular to buy a small gift, such as a small plant bonsai (a plant with roots or flowers) for the hostess.
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Xi ai pet
Americans like to keep pets, especially dogs and cats, but it is best not to tease their owners' dogs without their consent. When Americans take their dogs out for a walk in residential areas, they will bring tools and bags to remove feces for them. Responsible Americans will take their cats and dogs to the vet for birth control surgery. In addition, no matter how much you love dogs, don't get along with a guide dog serving the blind, so as not to interfere with its guide work.
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Title and signature of the United States
Americans usually prefer to call them by their first names, rather than by their surnames or polite names such as Mr., Ms. or Mrs.. Not only among neighbors, friends, classmates and relatives, but also among colleagues in the office, and even between bosses and subordinates, they are all called by their first names. But if it is between the boss and the subordinates, it is also worthy of the name. However, if the boss addresses his subordinates as Mr., Ms. or Mrs., then these subordinates should also address the boss as Mr., Ms., Miss or Manager.
In America, you often have to sign your name. The correct way to sign is to sign your surname and first name at the same time, but don't add your title and degree.
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Tip as a token of gratitude.
When paying the bill in a restaurant, Americans will definitely tip the waiter at least 15% (that is, 15% of the bill amount). If the service is particularly good, tip 20%. Similarly, Americans have to pay at least 15% for perms and haircuts in beauty salons or barbershops. Americans will also thank the waiter who helped him with his luggage in the hotel and the waiter who helped him park his car in the parking lot for two or three yuan. Flower shops send flowers or pizza shops send pizza, and they also tip two or three yuan.
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Donations and volunteers
There is a great disparity between the rich and the poor in American society, and many poor American families and individuals are in great need of help. Fortunately, donations and volunteering are very popular in the United States. Rich people or companies often donate money for medical research, set up awards, grants and help poor families. Ordinary people also like to donate money, make contributions according to their abilities or volunteer regularly in schools, hospitals, nursing homes or charities. American high school students also regularly participate in various community volunteer services. In order to encourage people to do charity, the government can get preferential treatment of tax reduction for any charitable donation to public or private institutions or individuals every year.
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A considerate visitor.
Americans will not be uninvited guests. Before going to any relatives and friends' home, they will definitely call to ask if it is convenient for them, even if they go to their parents' in-laws or adult children's homes. If it's not convenient for an interview, I'll tell you frankly and hope to come again next time.
Most Americans lay carpets at home, but Americans don't take off their shoes at home, so they never ask visitors to take off their shoes and enter the room. Americans think it is impolite to ask guests to take off their shoes, but in many oriental homes in the United States, the hostess would like the guests to take off their shoes before entering the living room, so when they arrive at the oriental home, everyone will take off their shoes automatically.
If Americans spend the night at relatives or friends' homes, they will definitely take the sheets, sheets and pillowcases off the bed, pull the bedspread neatly, and put the used towels, large and small, on the bathroom floor.
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Other matters needing attention.
1. When someone sneezes, Americans will say "God bless you" to him in unison, and everyone who sneezes will say "thank you" to thank him.
2. Avoid burping in public places. If you accidentally burp, you have to say "I'm sorry" quickly.
Don't pick your teeth with toothpicks in public places.
In fact, Americans are more casual and usually don't pay attention to details. When you come to America, you will get along well.