It can be said that Retibin lied to Langdon because he concealed the fact that he set up a game to get the Holy Grail (Langdon and Sophia will go to Ray's manor, which was also designed by Ray).
It can be said that Ray didn't cheat Langdon, because in the whole process, Ray could kill Langdon and Sophia at any time, but he didn't. No, because Ray found that the password on the "box" was too complicated and might need the help of Langdon and Sophia to open it. (See the dialogue between three people in Westminster Abbey). Personally, I think Ray cheated Langdon. He didn't take the box at once, just because it was difficult for him to decipher the code on the box himself.