Many unmarried women were deeply hurt by love rat, who deceived their feelings and bodies and became devastated. We often say that women should be wary of love rat, learn to resist the temptation of love rat and avoid being cheated.

But let's not forget that in our feelings, there are not only love rat but also love rat. The losses caused by love rat are no less than the deception of love rat and love rat, nor worse than that of love rat.

There are always some naive boys who are fooled around by love rat and are still doing stupid things. When they finally found out that they had met love rat, it was too late, leaving them in deep pain.

Reader Zhang Qi was deeply hurt by love rat. He met love rat and fell in love with love rat, only to find that he was just foolishly trapped.

02? Sweet beginning

Hello, Miss Zheng. I'm Zhang Qi. I met her in a social club. At that time, she took the initiative to add me to WeChat, which was very shy. Because I didn't know many people at that party, only she came to talk to me, so I was particularly impressed with her.

After that, she chatted with me on WeChat every night. She said it was scary to live alone, and it would be better only to chat with me. One day a week later, she said that she happened to pass by my downstairs and wanted to thank me for chatting with her these days, so she invited me to dinner, but I didn't refuse. I am plain, never been in love, single for more than 20 years, and I really want to find a girlfriend. She is very beautiful and gives me the feeling that she is the kind of gentle and considerate little girl I like. I also saw her affection for me and the hope she gave me, so I began to treat her better and better, and gradually I liked her more and more.

She will tell me very gently: "You don't have to pick me up at the company. You have been working very hard. I am waiting for you at the newly opened Japanese restaurant. " After she invited me to dinner for the first time, every meal was my treat. My salary is not high, but I think our relationship is developing. It is appropriate for me to take her to dinner. It's just that the place she chose is more upscale every time, so I have repeatedly reduced my usual expenses. Cook instant noodles or buy some discounted dishes when you are alone.

03? Cruel facts

She will always be a sweet little girl in front of me, but I have paid for it for a long time. She always looks at me with a smile, just like she is out of touch. We developed rapidly. That night, I thought my efforts moved her, so she chose to stay. It was also after that night that I found that I loved her more. I told her I would be responsible.

She smiled and said to me, "Then will you support me?" "Of course!" "Valentine's Day is in a few days. I want that bag. "

I went back to check my bag. That's my salary for three months. I thought about it all night, but I bought the bag without mercy. I thought she would be happy to receive the bag, but she has changed since then.

She usually doesn't contact me, but she always answers when I call. After that day, she became extremely busy and stopped answering my phone. I sent her a lot of WeChat, and many days later she replied with a word: "Busy".

She never asked me to pick her up from work. That day, I thought that since she was busy, I would wait downstairs in her company. However, I saw her holding a man's arm, carrying the brand-name bag I gave her and getting on a car with a smile. I called her right away and she hung up. Then, the phone was turned off overnight. The next morning, she finally answered the phone. I asked her what happened the first time. She shouted back impatiently, "I said you were bored." Did I mention that I am your girlfriend? " You are all adults. Don't be so silly and naive. Who do you think you are? Why do you care about me? Do you really think you are my boyfriend? How can I value you when you are so worthless? "

I stayed where I was for a long time. It turns out that I have been paying carefully. I don't want to spend a penny myself. I took her to an upscale restaurant, bought her designer bags and various gifts, and decided to be responsible after that night. In her eyes, this is just stupid and naive.

04? Reject temptation and see love rat clearly.

Zhang Qi realized that her smile, her ambiguity, and her pretending to be considerate were all for his money and bag. She kept asking for more gifts and bags, and kept asking to enter more advanced restaurants and shopping malls. She never asked Zhang Qi to pick her up, only worried that her prototype would be exposed and that Zhang Qi would influence her and cheat other men at the same time. She never introduced Zhang Qi to her friends, because she didn't want people around her to know the existence of this man. In just two months, the "companionship" and "warmth" that this woman gave him cheated him of more than 300,000. Finally, I didn't forget to knock him hard, and then left decisively and coldly without even looking at him.

Therefore, it is necessary to remind naive boys that they must be smart enough to see love rat clearly. When she needs you, she pretends to be gentle and considerate. You are nothing when you have no use value.

She flirts with you and plays with you, which makes you confused whether you are real boyfriend and girlfriend, never takes you to meet her friends, and you never really enter her world. She will never refuse your kindness. Don't be silly. Not because she likes you. In fact, she won't refuse other men. So if you find that you have met love rat, you must leave in time.

I hope you can meet a girl who really deserves your love and meet the happiness that really belongs to you.