There are many explanations.

Things are a mess-things at home, work and study need to be sorted out.

Life is a mess-family, work, study and emotional confusion need a thread.

Love is a mess-love triangle, I don't know whether I love it or not, whether I like it or not, and whether I should love it or not. . . . . .

Emotional barriers-friendship is frustrated, love is not going well, or you actually like the same sex. . . . .

Work is messy.

learning disorder

Confused mind

. . . . . .

I don't explain them one by one

A boy scribbled on his signature.

You're talking about boys

Not a man.

Then it's not as complicated as above.

You have to understand it together.