1. Read the monthly growth report carefully, and don't just pay attention to children's grades and rankings; Pay close attention to parents' feedback. Our school will attach importance to your feedback and adopt reasonable suggestions. 2. "Analysis should be objective", that is, the analysis of children's academic performance must conform to reality, find out the children's problems and crux, and take measures to suit the remedy to the case. Generally speaking, for the analysis of grades, the following factors should be considered: children's basic learning level, degree of investment, reasonable arrangement of review subjects, class effect, whether consolidation exercises are completed independently, whether exercises are sufficient, and children's health factors. Of course, it also includes the difficulty analysis of the topic. After the exam, we should analyze the reasons and urge them in an encouraging way. At the same time, we should actively create a good learning environment and learning conditions for children, so that children can study happily. One of the most important points is to guide children to set their own goals according to their own reality. When setting goals, children should be reminded to evaluate themselves correctly, be realistic and not aim too high, which can be divided into long-term goals and short-term goals. The long-term goal is what kind of person you want to be when you grow up and what kind of school you want to take in the senior high school entrance examination. The near-term goal is what level you want to achieve in each exam. Among them, children with learning difficulties should be encouraged to set their own goals, so that children can see hope and enhance their determination to work hard. After the goal is set, let everyone know, let them increase their motivation, and on the other hand, get everyone's supervision. Parents must encourage their children to ask questions if they don't understand, and strive to develop the habit of self-study. 3. "Guide correctly" means to guide children correctly and let them devote themselves to learning. Here, I especially ask parents to treat their children equally and rationally, and avoid overindulging, scolding, giving up or nagging. At the same time, we should pay attention to the handling of teacher-student relationship and classmate relationship. In other words, in the relationship between teachers and students, children should be guided to respect teachers, seek advice modestly, and strive to adapt to the teacher's style; In the relationship between classmates, children should be guided to learn tolerance, mutual understanding, friendship and unity, and a harmonious interpersonal atmosphere is also an important factor to promote learning progress; Children should be taught to have love and kindness. Let them love their parents and people around them, because people who don't even love their parents can't be patriotic. We should create a harmonious and warm family environment for our children. Especially in dealing with the relationship between boys and girls, we should guide children to handle it properly. Parents should help their children eliminate psychological barriers in adolescence. Junior high school students are in the critical stage of puberty development. Parents should consciously help their children correctly understand the laws of physical and mental development in adolescence, let them know some necessary basic knowledge of physical and mental health, and help teachers educate their children to deal with their classmates and learn to communicate with the opposite sex normally. Recently, it has been found that some students have changed obviously, and some boys have an admiration for the opposite sex and are distracted in class; There are also some students who like reading romance novels very much, and their learning energy is relatively scattered. As parents, we should always pay attention to the changes of our children. In fact, these problems are not strange or terrible. It is important that we guide correctly and prevent bad signs from appearing in time. It is not his current consideration to keep abreast of children's communication and educate them to fall in love. Patiently analyze the harmfulness of these problems. Find problems and deal with them in time. To educate children, we must first learn to be a man and consciously resist interference from all sides. 4. "Frequent communication" means that parents and schools should communicate frequently in order to exchange information in time and do a good job for their children together. I think tell us your children's strengths and weaknesses, your children's circle of friends, behaviors and hobbies at home and so on. , will certainly help teachers to fully understand your children, so as to give timely and correct help; The teacher will give you feedback on your child's school situation in time, and form a joint force with you, which will definitely promote your child's continuous progress. Every parent has his own job and often has no time to talk to the teacher. It is better to contact by phone. Educating children is a systematic project, which needs the cooperation of schools, families and society. Our children are about to finish their junior high school journey, and what awaits them will be the harvest of three years' hard work. In order to better let children meet the challenges, especially the parents of students with learning difficulties, everyone must be full of confidence. Even if your child's test score is not high, you should understand that score is not necessarily equal to future, but confidence is more important than score. If you have confidence, you will struggle. If you can struggle, you will make progress. Children, let's work together for our common hope and happy life in the future.