First of all, thank you for your expectation and trust. After finishing, editing and reprocessing by many mothers, the book Xueji was finally sent to the printing house for reservation. The explanation of study notes began in May, when the YY group was mainly about pronunciation. Later, another mother asked if she could sort out the books, and after several months of sorting and processing. Only this book. In addition to the above reasons, there are several reasons. First of all, this book is about education. Often, when giving lectures in groups, many mothers talked about education and saw everyone's confusion in educating their children. Yesterday, I chatted with a mother, and she also mentioned that by studying Xue Ji, I finally figured out some misunderstandings about my existence. So I hope this book can give you some inspiration to educate your children. Second, this is a book about how to learn Chinese studies. In the book, we talk nonsense as much as possible, borrow as much as possible, and quote some familiar classics. Everyone really feels the truth of the integration of three religions and nine streams, that is, once the classics are well understood. This book tries to "string" the classics together, so that everyone can achieve the goal of suddenly realizing, making great efforts and gaining as much as possible. Thirdly, it is also a book about how to learn to write. Learn to remember the whole article 1500 words, with a head, body and feet; There are arguments and emotions; There is a beginning and an climax. In particular, it is of great benefit for children to experience the writing methods of comparative argumentation, exemplified argumentation and quoted classics. Fourth, this is a book that tries to improve one's self-cultivation and purify one's mind. In the book, I advocate the principle of unity of knowledge and action, meeting Si Qi, and introspection, hoping to really improve my self-cultivation from the bottom of my heart. Because the quantity of demand is difficult to control, this is only an internal learning material. At present, this is only a limited edition. After comprehensive consideration of various factors, a limited number of 500 copies were printed. Because of the heavy workload, according to the original idea, this book is unsigned. But it can't hold everyone's enthusiasm. So I decided to sign every one of them. It should be noted that if there is a name (headed), you must sign it. If you don't remember every last name, you won't sign it. But my personal attitude will definitely sign every book, which is worthy of everyone's enthusiasm, high hopes and expectations. If you don't indicate the avatar, or because of other human reasons, you don't see the avatar, so I hope you understand. Now everyone's reservations are all postage, which is the default of the computer system. So there may be oversubscribed mothers, and the postage is overpaid. According to the preliminary visual inspection, the three books are not overweight, so the postage of the three books should be calculated according to the postage of one book. More than three copies, according to the actual amount. In short, it will not be calculated according to the postage of a book by default. The overpaid part will be returned to everyone (if the operation is troublesome, it will be returned in the book). Of course, if everyone doesn't come to you because of a little thoughtlessness, then the old lady will profit at the request of some mothers who haven't attended classes: May I see the trial version first? Now, let's talk about the content of the fourth lecture. The fourth lecture: those who are strong but not anti-ancient, have learning at home, the party is embarrassed, the technology is orderly, and the state-owned learning. Admission the following year, middle-aged exam. Different from the classic year; Three-year-old professional music group; Five years teaching experience; For seven years, taking learning as a friend is a small achievement; It is a great achievement to know the class well for nine years, stand firm and never return. Husband is enough to change the customs, and those who are near will persuade him, and those who are far away will be pregnant. The way of this university is also. "Ji" said: "A moth puts out a fire, which can be used for reference." That's what it means! This lecture introduces the establishment of educational institutions and the arrangement of educational time and content. In ancient times, teachers had schools at home, the party had problems, the skills were orderly, and state-owned learning was simple. It means that in ancient times, there were private schools at home. This family is not a family of three, but a big family. The "home" of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world" is also the home of a big family. A family must have a private school. Party is the name of a company. Township Party Township Party, the Party is similar to the present township. It is an administrative unit. 5 0 0 schools run by one party are called "Dong". Art, in the past, 1.25 million was an art, and in a school run by art, there was a sequence. The "country" of Chinese studies is not a country, but a vassal state, which refers to the vassal state under the feudal system in the pre-Qin period. In a country, it is necessary to set up educational institutions such as learning. State-owned schools later evolved into imperial academy and imperial academy. Imperial academy was the educational administrative institution and the highest institution of higher learning in feudal times. From Wei and Jin Dynasties to Ming and Qing Dynasties, either imperial academy or imperial academy (inspector) was set up, or both were set up at the same time, with different names and different systems, but they were all the highest educational institutions, and the students in school were called imperial academy students and imperial academy students. Imperial college. Imperial College was renamed Guozixue in the Western Jin Dynasty and imperial academy in the Sui Dynasty. Since then, imperial academy and Imperial College have been called each other, both of which are the highest institutions of higher learning and have educational administrative functions. Imperial academy was also established in Ming and Qing Dynasties. It can be said that the original ecology of the education system is that the family has schools, the party has problems, the skills are orderly, and Chinese studies are the original ecology. In ancient times, especially in the pre-Qin, Xia, Shang and Zhou dynasties, there were no public schools. Since the Han Dynasty, school education has been divided into official schools and private schools. Official credits are central official schools and local official schools. The expenses of official schools are mainly borne by the government, while private schools mainly rely on individual or collective strength. Most of the funds of private schools are provided by the founders themselves, and students are also charged a certain fee. Primary education for poor children is mostly free. Tuition income has not been the main source of education funds in ancient China. In addition to official schools, private schools run by the people are the mainstream. Private schools are an important part of China's traditional education system. Now many children are applying for excellent classes and interest classes. Why did you sign up for a class run by the people's society? Because of its high quality and good teaching. America's famous schools are private and private, such as Harvard University, Princeton University, Yale University, Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Columbia University, University of Pennsylvania and so on. To have a free mind, we must have a free system. There was no education bureau in ancient times, but the level of culture and education was world-famous. There are not many public schools, but well-educated people are jostling with each other. The teacher qualification certificate does not need to be officially issued, but the teacher is not only knowledgeable, but also noble in sentiment. On the other hand, at present, the nine-year compulsory education uses the same textbooks, says the same words, raises the same hands, and finally has the same answers, thus creating a group of standard children. Knowledge is an endless ocean. As far as the curriculum is concerned, it can't be said that the nine-year compulsory system, how many books you read in Chinese, mathematics and English can reach the level of secondary education, which is obviously unscientific and does not conform to the laws of education. The standard answer and cramming education are not conducive to the development of children's wisdom and personality. In public schools, it is impossible to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Private educational institutions are far more creative and flexible in teaching than teachers in private schools of public schools, and they used to be called teachers. In literary and artistic works (for example, there is a teacher Zhu in White Deer Plain), the teacher has a goatee, a melon seed hat, a cane and a ruler, which is probably the image. Should be a very learned person. Judging from his age, he stood at the age of 30, and was not confused at the age of 40. Even at the age of 50, he knew his destiny and had a profound understanding of life. Now primary school teachers are generally qualified and inexperienced. I don't have much learning experience, and my understanding of human nature and children is still relatively lacking. Nowadays, education is mostly public education, exam-oriented education and standardized education. Since kindergarten, we have been comparing, primary school, junior high school and senior high school. This way of comparing with each other is getting farther and farther away from the origin of education. Once a mother asked, what should I do if my child doesn't study well? External conditions are hard to change. Be a good teacher and teach by yourself. Although there is no private school now, my family is a private school, and I know my children best. A good mother is better than a good teacher. There is a saying in San Zi Jing: It is the father's fault to raise but not teach. What is a teacher? A strict missionary. Another meaning is that family education and school education complement each other. What if there is no private school teacher to teach? Then settle for the second best and do a good job in family education. There are three environments in a person's life: family, school and society. For children, social education is still not possible, and family education must be done well. Children are the hope of parents, and parents are the hope of children. Admission is better than in 2008, and middle-aged enrollment is better than in 2008, which means enrollment every year. The middle-aged senior high school entrance examination is an examination every other year. Nowadays, there are frequent examinations and various names in schools, which are unprecedented. It seems that the purpose of study is to test, which makes people stupid and "baked". Make children feel like idiots again and again. A "roast" proves to be a fool, learn quickly; The second "baking" proved to be a fool, and then learned; It's inhuman to "bake" again in a few days, and still be a fool. The child is deformed under the educational machine. Daily quiz, weekly quiz, plus monthly exam, quarterly exam, senior high school entrance exam and college entrance exam. It's over when you get into college! 1 2 years, I studied hard and took exams hard. When I got to college, I "pooped". Look at foreign countries, play in grade one, play in grade two, play in grade three ... study hard in universities. How can we compete with others in such a situation? In the first year, the task is to distinguish between records and classics. What does abnormal menstruation mean? There is an idiom called "falling apart", which is explained by mutual translation. Separation means analysis and analysis means separation. Classics are teaching materials. The best textbook is a classic. Nowadays, the textbooks that children learn are very watery, as tasteless as boiled water, and they are embarrassed to be called classics. Leaving classics is to let children read the best books. Read the best books, don't turn them over, take a look and read for a while. The best books should be peeled off page by page like skilled workers. Zeng Guofan has a way of doing things, that is, "five things are important": when it comes to five things, body, heart, eyes, hands and mouth. ""people's hearts give people, and everything is painstakingly analyzed for its great coherence, small coherence, beginning coherence and end coherence, and it is better than image to divide it according to its feelings. "The so-called big order, small order, initial order and final order should be carefully analyzed, which is also a comment on deviating from the classics. When reading, you should read the best books, and the best books should be painstakingly analyzed. Teachers should also distinguish between ambition and children's interests and ambitions. What will children do in the first year? Want to leave the classic. What will the teacher do in the first year? It's not the score, but the ambition of the child. Of course, this ambition is not entirely to be a scientist or an astronaut when I grow up. What is ambition? Ambition is the reader above and the heart below, which can be understood as where a person's heart, interests and hobbies are. There are 3,000 disciples of Confucius and 72 sages, ranging from the prime minister of a country to the butcher and vegetable vendor. 360 lines, each line is a champion. We should not tell everyone the truth of governing the country and leveling the world, but should teach students in accordance with their aptitude and suit their needs. Teachers and parents should help children identify, judge and cultivate their aspirations and interests and create conditions for them. To put it bluntly, it is to inspect and train students to understand what the purpose of learning is. In the past three years, respecting the band's "career" not only refers to professionalism, but also refers to learning. Respect your career and study. After three years, the teacher will check whether the child has a respectful attitude towards learning. To put it bluntly, it means respecting knowledge and learning. The music group is to examine whether you can live happily and harmoniously with your classmates and whether you can integrate into groups and teams. " Music group should be cultivated from an early age. How to have fun? In terms of Buddhism's "four-shot method", * * * eight words: giving-willing to give; Love language-talk and listen, others like to listen; Good behavior-every word and deed, every move, whether it is beneficial to others. Can't harm others and benefit themselves, and can't harm others and benefit themselves; Colleague-can Qi Xin work together to do one thing, and can he achieve great things at the expense of himself? Is that everyone is for me and I am for everyone. To do these four things, the music group is not difficult. Now both school and family education emphasize competitive education and comparative education. When two friends who had just fought at school came home to talk about their grades, it seemed that "enemies met each other late." "Everyone is talking about going their own way and leaving others a backward path. However, if you leave, you will become lonely, and you will not get along with your classmates and colleagues. This is extremely unfavorable to the child's conduct, personality and even future development. Distinguishing between classics and respecting music groups is secondary. Distinguishing classics is what you say in your heart, respecting music groups is what you do, and words and deeds should be consistent. The first year of school is childish, naughty and playful, but after three years of education, good habits should be formed. It is manifested in whether the learning attitude is conscientious and whether you can get along well with your classmates. The stage goal of the fifth year of five-year education is to examine the relationship between learning and teaching. Reading widely has two meanings, the first is erudition, and the second is studious. " Learning is not learning, but a deeper level than learning. The Analects of Confucius has: learn from time to time. Learning and learning are not the same thing. Learning is input, learning is output, learning is theory and learning is practice. Therefore, learning should be both knowledge and good at learning. Can practice and dare to try. Learn to link the past with the future in reading, and cause and effect should correspond. What is the premise of extensive learning? It is a music group that distinguishes records from classics and respects works. Breaking away from the classics is a deep and down-to-earth foundation. Instead of skimming, pointing east and west; It's not like monkeys break corn, pull radish and throw cabbage. Learning, like planting trees, must have a deep foundation. Without a foundation, there is no way to thrive. As soon as the grass is pulled up, the roots of shrubs are not deep, and the roots of towering trees are deepest. Reading should be profound first, then extensive. You can't let children learn this from the beginning. Look at that. Watching too much will be more confusing and troublesome. Some children, you say this about him, and he refutes you like that; You teach him like that, and he does this to you in turn. Adults can't argue with him. There is a feeling that a scholar meets a soldier and makes trouble without reason. In fact, children learn a lot. When knowledge becomes rampant, it becomes sophistry and sophistry when used. Go deep into a door and lay the foundation, not an otaku or a prostitute. We should also respect the music group and be good at getting along. This is also the "meeting each other late and getting along well" mentioned later. Dear teacher. In the fifth year, you can get close to the teacher. "The Three Character Classics includes: getting close to teachers and friends and learning etiquette. When I first entered the school, the teacher played the devil and King Kong, who was very strict, king, dignified and prestigious. After five years, we should start to get close to teachers, and turn from learning to emotional communication with teachers. In other words, we should pay attention to strictness before leniency, strictness and kindness, both kindness and prestige, and the combination of leniency and fierceness. When we help our children choose a teacher, we often think that this teacher is very kind, easy to talk and a good teacher. This may not be right. Yan Shi is in a dilemma. In the past, education was to discipline first, then be strict, then be lenient, and cultivate children's respect mentality before they can get close. If it is the other way around, it is not strict to be close first and then strict. In Hu Shi's My Mother, the severity of mother is everywhere. Only this kind of strictness can ultimately produce goodwill. If there is no difference between kindness and kindness and Yan Kuan, children will not understand gratitude, respect and piety. In the seventh year, the phased goal of education is two things: discussion, study and making friends. The seventh year can discuss knowledge and learn to make friends. Teachers used to be very strict. Seven years ago, they didn't discuss it with students. One of the reasons is that you don't know anything when you first get started, and the questions you start asking are not problems at all. After seven years or a relatively long time, the original problem solved itself. Although this is a profound question, you have been thinking about it since the Enlightenment. Meanwhile, students are not allowed to discuss with each other. Because of the students' lack of solid foundation and superficial understanding, it is easy for them to go astray and fall into Jaken's devious knowledge when discussing with each other. Choosing a friend, to be precise, is choosing a friend. From the point of connection, there is no contradiction between filming friends and music groups. Orchestra is a common tree planting, and bringing friends is the key to picking fruit. The three-year dedicated music group is integrated into the team, into the collective and into the students. There is no problem of making friends. Seven years. Be selective. When a person is young, his thoughts and personality are not fixed, and whoever he is close to will be more or less influenced by others. A word and a smile, every move, even if it is unintentional to learn, but after a long time, it will be similar naturally. So choose your friends carefully. What are the criteria for choosing friends? In The Analects of Confucius, Confucius said: "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be broken, friendly and soft, friends will be destroyed and damaged. "Friends: Friends speak frankly, and speak frankly. There is a saying in Vimalakīrti Jing that "the straight heart is the Dojo". Friends are chivalrous, chivalrous and straightforward, and such friends are worth making; Friends forgive: friends are broad-minded, generous and tolerant; Friends are well informed: friends are well informed; The above three are good friends and worthy friends. " Disciples Rules says: forgive others directly and gradually blind date. That's what it means. If you are a friend, you are a monarch: extreme, disharmonious and extreme. As the saying goes, one-track mind is stubborn. Friendly and gentle: too weak and fickle to make friends with. Friends are good: treacherous people are cunning. The latter three kinds of friends are bad friends. The deeper the relationship, the disaster will come. Speaking of friends, there are many stories about people in history, such as the story of Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya's bosom friends. The stories of Guan Zhong and Bao and his friends are worth reading. One fence, three piles, one hero and three gangs; My parents became our teachers and friends; This truth should be understood earlier. In the seventh year, being able to learn from friends is called small success. At this time, I have achieved something. I have known the class very well for nine years and stood firm and did not object. This is a great achievement. The husband is enough to change the customs, and those who are near will persuade him, and those who are far away will be pregnant. The way of this university is also the phased goal of nine-year education: erudite, firm and not opposed. There is a reason to talk about the nine-year compulsory education system now. Cognitive class, understanding class. To know a category is simply to know a category. Access, to put it bluntly, is this and that, giving inferences and giving inferences. Learning should go deep into a subject, and after a long time, you will naturally understand everything. First thin, then wide. Many people who have expertise and attainments in a certain field, such as painters, will understand everything from an aesthetic point of view; Calligraphers will use calligraphy to understand the way of life; Architects will use architectural ideas to understand articles; A vegetable farmer will explain the cultivation of talents with the law of planting. Without profound premise, the so-called breadth should be called flooding. Stand strong, but don't oppose it. Standing is standing, and standing steady is standing steady. When reading ancient Chinese, you should be careful, take your time and understand the infinite meaning of the text. For example, as the Heart Sutra says: After a long time of observing the Bodhisattva, I have done a lot of Prajna Paramita, and I have seen that the five aggregates are empty, and the hardships are sweet. "Deep" means doing one thing, not simply, but deeply. The depth of the line is "strong but not reverse." "To paraphrase a word, standing strong is like an elephant crossing a river, and the water can't rush down no matter how fast it is. Strong because of solid foundation and firm confidence. No going back, no turning back, no spirit. Because of our solid foundation and firm confidence, we can stand firm and not object even without the supervision of teachers and parents. To borrow the words of "university": be cautious. No matter whether a person is supervised by the public or not, he can be upright and self-reliant. Everyone has his own code of conduct and his own yardstick. In the face of difficulties, temptations and traps, you can be calm and calm, never back down, and never look back. Why are people near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico black? It shows that people are easily influenced, infected and changed. Why is ink sad and silk dyed? Because once the white silk is dyed with ink, it is difficult to restore its original color. Why is the mud clean but not evil? It shows that the foundation is deep and strong, and it is not reversed. I have known the class very well for nine years and stood firm and did not object. This is a great achievement. At this time, it can be considered as an achievement. With this achievement, we can truly shoulder the social responsibility of changing customs. Close advice is far away. The way of this university is also. This is the way and direction of learning and education. In the method of classical interpretation, the university said: the way of a university is to show virtue and be close to the people, and stop at perfection. Being close to the people is to turn people into customs, that is, those who are close to persuade them, and those who are far away are pregnant. Being close to the people and being perfect is the goal of "University". In the past, a big official committed a felony and implicated nine families, but later he discovered that he implicated ten families. In addition to the nine families, there are also teachers' families. This shows the sacredness of education and the responsibility of educators. If the teacher is only responsible for one class and one exam, the parents' eyes are only fixed on one grade at a time, which shows that they are not careful enough. A teacher, no matter what he teaches, what grade he teaches and how long he teaches, is responsible for the child's life. He should realize that what he said will have a significant impact on the children's future. "Ji" said: "A moth puts out a fire, which can be used for reference." This means moths are young ants. In fact, ants can become queen ants through hard work and accumulation. Generally speaking, a daughter-in-law who has been married for many years can be the owner of her own house when she has accumulated to a certain extent, and assume the social responsibility of "persuading those who are close to her". That's what it means. 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