To be honest, when I was single, I was a person who didn’t pay much attention to the order and details of life. To put it bluntly, it's a bit sloppy.

Unlike many girls, I sweep and mop the floor and wash clothes every day. Some things are just placed where they were last used. Even if I tidy up the room occasionally, it seems to be only superficially tidy. There is still an "undercurrent" inside, and I particularly like to buy things, so the apartment, which is not a small one, seems a bit crowded. Although I look glamorous when I go to work or go out every day, no one knows that I just "stand out" from a mess. I still feel a little proud that I have emerged from the mire without being stained.

I remember that at that time, every time I heard that some important guests or elders were coming, I would at least mention that I would start cleaning and organizing the house for a day. Because the workload is so heavy, every time I clean up the room, I scold myself: You are such a sloppy little mouse! You usually pay attention to keeping up, but why are you so tired now? !

Once, a good friend came to my house to play. When he was going back, a strong wind suddenly blew. Because my friend was wearing thin clothes, I told him to use a thick coat to block the wind, my friend. As I said yes, I quickly opened my closet.

The next scene is unbearable to look back on.

I saw several pieces of messy clothes rushing out and falling on the floor in front of my friend... I still can’t remember my friend’s shocked look at that time, and how hot I was, as if I was being raped. Several slaps on the cheek.

I was so damn embarrassed that I was thrown into my grandma’s house.

From that time on, I finally realized that my lifestyle, which was full of wealth but was full of failures, had to change!

How do I start fixing myself?

When I first started sorting my clothes, I felt that it was all in vain because there were too many things. I just sorted them neatly and stuffed them into other places. The house was still full and it looked like Not refreshing at all.

I read a few books later, including the more famous ones like "Breaking Away", "The Heart-Thrilling Magic of Organizing Your Life", etc. I concluded that the core idea of ??these books is just one word :Throw!

Because at that time, most of the products I bought were Taobao products and market products, so the quality was not very good, and it was not that heartbreaking. Especially when I see the things I bought some time ago, I feel like I must have been out of my mind at that time. How could I buy such low-priced things? !

Ahhhh, throw, throw, throw!

The biggest advantage of throwing things away is that it frees up a lot of space. With fewer things, the home will naturally look cleaner.

Throwing away is, after all, an act of cleaning up afterward. The way to solve the problem of messy things from the source is to buy less!

As for how to buy less, remember one rule: buy the one with better quality and more expensive price within your ability! If you have a budget of 300 yuan and originally bought three or four generic shirts, then buy one branded one now!

The biggest advantage of doing this is that you can’t put away expensive things! I will cherish it, and my clothes will be sorted and hung in the closet, instead of just taking them off on the sofa, bedside or even the washing machine when I get home like before.

In addition, when buying expensive things, you cannot have a lot of money to buy many pieces, and the more expensive ones are generally of better quality, and your overall level will be improved accordingly.

In the past, I would put dirty clothes away for a few days before washing them together. From then on, I told myself that I would wash the dirty clothes that day before going to bed!

In order to urge myself to implement it, I made an agreement with an office colleague that I would take a photo of myself washing and drying clothes for her every day. If I failed to do it on any day, I would treat her to lunch the next day. And afternoon tea!

Well, if you are stingy like me, you will definitely fight for those dozens of dollars! Every day when I go to do the laundry or tidy the room, I tell myself that I am making money!

Is it possible to have instant self-control?

You may think this method is bad and frustrating, but for me, who was suffering from late-stage cancer at the time, it was the only effective treatment option!

In the past, my QQ signature was: Before any hero comes to my house, please make an appointment one day in advance, otherwise, I will not accompany you! Why? Then I have to leave myself to clean up the room one day in advance!

In order to cut off my own escape route, I changed the signature on the back to: Dear masters, you are welcome to harass me at any time, no need to report!

Because I didn’t mention saying hello, I always have to keep myself in a “war-ready state” and pay attention to the order at home. This is really cruel. Not long after I said it, I regretted it and wanted to hit the wall!

Well, the biggest result of this trick is: the previous thing of opening the closet and pouring out clothes has never happened again! It’s really a death without regrets! !

Don’t worry, you don’t need to be taught this. When you find a boyfriend or girlfriend, you will consciously or unconsciously clean up your little nest.

Especially for girls, imagine the first time the male god in you comes to your house, and what you see is messier than his own doghouse, and the crows flying over his face...

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Boys may think, it doesn’t matter to us, my goddess will be overflowing with motherly love when she sees such a messy house, and she will help me clean it up unconsciously! What I want to say is, you really think too much! There are really not many snail girls left in society now!

If you can use this as motivation to really force yourself to make more money and change to a big villa, then————

You don’t need to remember the first five items! !

Some people say that home is where I relax, so why does it have to be as rigid and lifeless as a hotel? Only when there is chaos and warmth can you have the atmosphere of home!

Zhang Ailing said that life is a gorgeous robe covered with lice. What I want to say is: Don’t let your life only have lice and no robes because of laziness.