Accept that parents are ordinary people;

Accept yourself as an ordinary person;

Accepting children will grow into an ordinary person.

Every parent wants his children to be successful. "Looking forward to the success of children and women" is a common psychological phenomenon. But in such a big world, few people really become excellent, and most people are born ordinary.

People who can't accept their children's mediocrity, a large part of them give up themselves and know that they are ordinary people, so they put all their expectations on their children. Such parents exile themselves and indulge themselves, but they keep a close watch on their children.

Many parents don't understand and put pressure on their children blindly, asking them to be top-notch in all subjects, have artistic expertise and stick to their hobbies, but they don't understand that such lack of love is actually just anxiety about society, not love for children.

On the stage of Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Singing Wings", Wu Yaojie, a 9-year-old boy, wrote his own pressure into the lyrics and sang the children's voices. "I dare not sign the test paper because the score did not meet dad's expectations; I know young people have to work hard, but why should they compare with others ... "

1. Children's learning is a long process.

The child's mind is not yet mature, and both self-control and intelligence need to be cultivated and improved. This is a process, not overnight. However, many parents are eager for quick success and eager for their children to succeed at an early date. They pay too much attention to the results without considering the whole process, which is ignoring the development of children.

2. Children's energy is limited

People's energy is limited. Many parents, like my neighbor's children, are given so many classes at the age of five that they may not have enough rest time. This will lead to children's lack of energy and physical and mental exhaustion, which will not only greatly reduce the learning effect, but also make children feel tired of learning.

1. Mediocrity is not failure, it is the normal state of life.

Undeniably, in the face of reality, great men have been born in every era, but at the same time, there will be thousands of ordinary people in Qian Qian in Qian Qian, and our children are just one of thousands in Qian Qian and Qian Qian. Ordinary people have the happiness and happiness of ordinary people. Parents don't have to worry too much about their children's future. Sometimes letting nature take its course is not necessarily a good thing. Let children have a normal heart, grow up healthily and happily, and do what they like and can do. Life is also meaningful and valuable.

2. Accepting children's mediocrity can help them develop better.

Accepting a child's mediocrity does not mean that he will be willing to be ordinary and spend his life passively. Instead, it will guide the child to know that if he wants to become colorful and extraordinary, he must step on the hard work on the ground and teach him that there is no shortcut in life, so that the child will become persevering. Face life bravely and positively.

Even if children can't become towering trees, they are unique in this world. We hope that children's lives will be smooth and prosperous. First of all, let him know that he is sure of himself.

Zach is a German boy. He is very dedicated, very professional, very dedicated. Working in the fashion circle, I have good professional sensitivity and am familiar with the marketers of major clothing brands. Even if he can only sleep for 4 hours every day, he always works happily.

As a native of China, I don't understand why Mick doesn't want to start a business with such work intensity and such human resources, but wants to be a wage earner.

Zach told me that he was taught from an early age to have enough patience and confidence to feel the world and experience it. He has been encouraged to be a mature and responsible person since he was a child, and he feels that he is in this state now.

Now he travels whenever he has time, and the homestay he founded with his friends accepts friends from all over the world. He feels happy and satisfied, that's enough!

In fact, this is the state when people recognize themselves and satisfy the world. In this state, every parent wants his children to meet life and experience it.

All this requires parents to believe that their children can understand, and parents themselves should go in this direction.

1. Take children to try new things and discover their interests.

If parents want to cultivate their children's hobbies, they can choose to take their children to some interest classes to see what their children like and which super-long classes they are more interested in. Only when they are interested, children will have the motivation to learn, so as to reduce their weariness and rebellious psychology caused by forcing children to learn things they don't like.

2. Respect children's choices

Children come into this world not to fulfill their parents' expectations, nor to become outstanding figures in a certain field. A child has only one life. Why not let children do what they like? It is not our goal to make children grow up happily. Therefore, learn more about their inner world and thoughts, support their choices, and let them work hard for their dreams.