What topics should I chat with girls about?

What topics should I choose when chatting with girls?

What topics should I choose when chatting with girls? Nowadays, many boys are called straight men because they are not very good at chatting. In fact, girls are easily flirted with. Yes, but you must also remember to apply some conversation routines. The following will teach you what topics to choose when chatting with girls. What topics to look for when chatting with girls 1

1. Find topics from Moments

Nowadays, more and more people are using WeChat, and WeChat Moments have also become a popular place for people to post information and vent their personal feelings. A place of emotion. Especially girls, they always like to post some of their moods, preferences or selfies. As long as you observe carefully, a lot of the information you want to know can be viewed from the circle of friends. As long as you make reasonable use of this information, you can find suitable topics to chat with girls.

A simple example -

I once had a friend whose signature read: You look delicious. This is a sentence from an unpopular anime.

No matter you have just added a girl on WeChat or you have been chatting with her for a long time. You can use this sentence to create a good topic.

Boy: Who is delicious?

Girl: Haha, I don’t know. I was reading a comic and thought this sentence was very interesting.

Boy: What about me? (Smirk)

The so-called topics don’t actually need to be very advanced. As long as you are good at discovering them, many people and things around you can become topics for your chat. You can also add some emoticons to the chat to make the chat content more interesting and lively.

2. Third-party topics

What is a third-party topic? Food, games, pets, travel, etc. all fall into the category of third-party topics. For example, young people nowadays like to play games, such as the game that many young people like to play, Honor of Kings.

Girl: Brother, what rank are you in?

Boys: Currently the king.

Girl: Wow, you are so powerful, can you help me?

Boy: Little sister, of course you can!

In fact, even with such a simple chat, there will be endless things to talk about. Regarding third-party topics, there is a very important premise, that is, you need to have a wide range of interests and hobbies, so that you can find the most common topics with girls. For example, a girl likes to play games, but you know nothing about games, so you can't start the topic.

3. Ambiguity adjustment products

The ambiguous stage is a stage where two people have been together for a period of time, but the relationship has not been confirmed. But ambiguous flirting is very technical. If you are not careful, it will give girls a sense of vulgarity and frivolity.

So how can we make reasonable use of ambiguity?

First of all, before a girl becomes your girlfriend, don’t directly say some very inappropriate things. This is a kind of hooliganism. Before trying it out, you need to test the girl first. If she is not disgusted, then you can start talking.

When speaking, you should be quick and coherent without getting entangled. The main thing is to be able to convey ambiguous meanings. Even if you want to continue to be ambiguous, don't be on the same topic.

Girls generally like boys who are a bit dirty, but it does not mean that she likes boys who are vulgar. The reason why many boys don't get the results they want is because they don't understand the difference.

4. Exchange information

If you want to develop further with girls, you need to let girls let down their guard. The key to letting down your guard is to give girls enough sense of security. When most boys chat with girls, they always use a question-and-answer method, which is like checking their household registration. This boring and old-fashioned way of chatting is the most offensive to girls. Boys with high emotional intelligence will exchange information with each other inadvertently. In this way, not only will the chatting atmosphere be harmonious, but you can also get to know each other better.

A simple example -

Boy: Have you eaten yet?

Girl: Not yet.

Boy: Why haven’t you eaten this yet? Your boyfriend is too irresponsible, how can he starve a girl? If I were your boyfriend, I would spank you if I saw you not eating.

If a girl is still single, then she will take the initiative to clarify it to you. Once she clarifies, the relationship between you and her will smoothly improve. If you want to know other information about girls, you can use this method to get it. Not only can you get to know girls better, but it can also alleviate cross-examination and boredom. What topics to chat with girls 2

1. Talk about childhood

The memories of childhood are unforgettable, whether they are happy or sad, they are all unforgettable because From childhood to adulthood, you will experience many things along the way, so using this as a chat topic will arouse the other person's nostalgia for childhood. Talking about some interesting things from childhood can easily make girls laugh.

When a girl talks about her childhood to you, if you listen carefully, it will also increase the girl's liking for you.

2. Talk about TV dramas

We all know that girls naturally like to watch TV dramas, especially Korean dramas. They will be very excited when they see Korean Oppas on TV. Since the girl likes it, then why don’t we just pretend to like it and talk to her about the recent good TV series? The main thing is to let the girl talk about the TV series she likes, so that once the conversation starts, I’m afraid you won’t interrupt. It's a good thing, because she will definitely tell you the complete plot.

3. Talk about travel

Talk to the girl about the fun places you have been to, what other cities you have been to, and what you saw and heard along the way. On the one hand, you appear to be well-informed and make girls admire you. On the other hand, talking more about interesting or positive things during your travels will make girls think that you are a very reliable person.

4. Talking about gossip

It’s not the gossip of Zhouyi, it’s the gossip of someone liking someone. Girls are extremely interested in scandals. No one knows why girls are born to gossip. It is very common for several girls in school to get together and chat about who their classmates like. If you think about it carefully, gossiping is indeed a very interesting thing, as long as it doesn't involve yourself. Therefore, using this as a chat topic will definitely arouse girls' interest, and at the same time, it will also create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere.

5. Talk about hobbies and interests

This is not difficult to understand. Talk about what she likes or what she likes to do. Most people You will talk endlessly about your interests, which is also a good way to open up the conversation. As long as you know a little bit about her hobbies and ask pretending to be curious when chatting, she will usually be very friendly and chat with you about her hobbies.

Conversation routines for boys to flirt with girls

1. Talk about the advantages of my boyfriend

It can be summed up in five words

" Can choose a girlfriend"

2. "If you are not afraid of trouble"

"Then please stay with me"

3. "I I had insomnia last night”

“It means I have been thinking about you all night”

4. “I looked in the mirror this morning, and then I thought of looking for you”

< p>　"Why"

"For so many days, you know, every time I see something good, I want to give it to you"

　5. I think you must be very busy.